How to motivate each other!?

  • timmignlet

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    Feb 09, 2011 6:23 PM GMT
    Hi,

    I have decided to do a competition with a gay friend to have the best ABS in 3 months time.

    To motivate ourself we would like to have some ideas how we could reward each other.
    We both have a BF so we can't go too far, but we were thinking of a massage for ex... Do you have experience or ideas for us?

    Pics in the comming weeks as reward to YOU, for the ideas!

    Grtz
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    Feb 09, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    timmignlet saidHi,

    I have decided to do a competition with a gay friend to have the best ABS in 3 months time.

    To motivate ourself we would like to have some ideas how we could reward each other.
    We both have a BF so we can't go too far, but we were thinking of a massage for ex... Do you have experience or ideas for us?

    Pics in the comming weeks as reward to YOU, for the ideas!

    Grtz


    HOLD UP! Are you telling me that as a reward we are subject to pics of ur profileicon_rolleyes.gif
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 09, 2011 6:34 PM GMT
    We will make pictures during the contest icon_smile.gif from start to end
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    Feb 09, 2011 6:38 PM GMT
    Nice idea, money's always a good incentive or doing something embarrising as the consequence.
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 09, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    Sparks saidNice idea, money's always a good incentive or doing something embarrising as the consequence.


    money is not really the goal, but embarrising could be a good idea, but what do you have in mind by embarrising?
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    Feb 10, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    Since it's a hot abs contest, have the loser wear a cutoff shirt that says "My abs are not hot."
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 10, 2011 9:19 AM GMT
    Haha that's a nice one too.
    We were thinking of some naughty things, but not too naughty as we don't want to cheat on our BF's...
    The idea of a massage for the winner is a good example, but we can't figure other things in this 'range' icon_rolleyes.gif
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 10, 2011 9:25 AM GMT
    Hillie said
    timmignlet saidHi,

    I have decided to do a competition with a gay friend to have the best ABS in 3 months time.

    To motivate ourself we would like to have some ideas how we could reward each other.
    We both have a BF so we can't go too far, but we were thinking of a massage for ex... Do you have experience or ideas for us?

    Pics in the comming weeks as reward to YOU, for the ideas!

    Grtz


    HOLD UP! Are you telling me that as a reward we are subject to pics of ur profileicon_rolleyes.gif


    So now I should have a pic too icon_smile.gif the start!
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 10, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    Ok so far I have:

    A massage
    Paying a dinner
    Paying sauna
    Showing off in a cutoff tshirt and boxers

    and as suggested above: something embarrassing (but i still don't know what...)

    I would be delighted to get more suggestions of you guys!
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    Feb 10, 2011 6:53 PM GMT
    Maybe you already thought of this, but how about a dinner out, with some of that great Belgian beer?
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    Feb 10, 2011 6:58 PM GMT
    Loser, dress up like a bunny and run around the city

    bunny needs to be shirtless and on his back it would say "don't you ever lose an abs contest! "
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    Feb 10, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    The winner gets a new pair of sneakers/ new work out sweats/tank top/board shorts etc.

    One time someone gave me a gift of free classes at a trapeze school.



  • timmignlet

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    Feb 10, 2011 7:08 PM GMT
    ok tnx :d
    And do you think of things that can be naughty, but not too naughty .. Our just something motivating icon_razz.gif I know I'm easy to be satisfied
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    Feb 10, 2011 7:23 PM GMT
    So basically it sounds like you and your friend want to fuck each other but can't because you have boyfriends so this contest is a way to play out those fantasies. Am I up to speed?
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 10, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidSo basically it sounds like you and your friend want to fuck each other but can't because you have boyfriends so this contest is a way to play out those fantasies. Am I up to speed?


    Haha now I know it sounds that way... But if that was the case we could do a lot of things (bj etc) ... yeah, maybe there's just nothing to do which is seducing but not cheating...
  • sloughwest

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    Feb 10, 2011 7:29 PM GMT
    OK... motivation .... possible embarrassement...

    The loser (and his bf) invites friend and his bf round for a nice dinner, and then as the loser, after dinner you have to sit and chat naked.... of course whether you have to do anything else in front of all 3 is up to how far you can take it

    Although a good way is "naked except for hard hat strategically placed".... the next person to get naked gets to use the hard hat ... of course that means the first person is without ;-)

    (Yep... been there done it icon_biggrin.gif )
  • timmignlet

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    Feb 10, 2011 7:30 PM GMT
    sloughwest saidOK... motivation .... possible embarrassement...

    The loser (and his bf) invites friend and his bf round for a nice dinner, and then as the loser, after dinner you have to sit and chat naked.... of course whether you have to do anything else in front of all 3 is up to how far you can take it

    Although a good way is "naked except for hard hat strategically placed".... the next person to get naked gets to use the hard hat ... of course that means the first person is without ;-)

    (Yep... been there done it icon_biggrin.gif )


    haha, good one too :p involving the bf's is what i keep in mind in the first place :p