Being too picky?? What do you think?

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    Feb 10, 2011 12:15 AM GMT
    All right guys, here goes nothing. Yes, i'm a closeted bisexual man that nearly had my first gay experience. Problem is that it was some random guy at my gym. I noticed him in the shower and he started motioning at me. I shook my head no and he literally got out of his shower, came to mine and tried to grab my dick. I told him to back off and then he stormed off. Am i being too picky for my first time?
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    Feb 10, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    I think picky is perhaps the wrong word here...

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    Feb 10, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
    WTF?
    Picky?
    Was he hot?
  • starboard5

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    Feb 10, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
    Pickiness had nothing to do with it. Surely you know this?
  • NerdLifter

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    Feb 10, 2011 2:13 AM GMT
    Sounds more like sexual assault to me. Am I reading this wrong?
  • FRE0

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    Feb 10, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    Alan4544 saidAll right guys, here goes nothing. Yes, i'm a closeted bisexual man that nearly had my first gay experience. Problem is that it was some random guy at my gym. I noticed him in the shower and he started motioning at me. I shook my head no and he literally got out of his shower, came to mine and tried to grab my dick. I told him to back off and then he stormed off. Am i being too picky for my first time?


    He was excessively aggressive.

    Many years ago, at the downtown YMCA in Minneapolis, I was showering after using the indoor track. While my face was covered with soap, I felt a hand reaching toward my penis. I reacted by striking towards him with my fist which, under the circumstances, I still believe was entirely appropriate. I missed, since I couldn't see, but he got the point. After that, he was afraid of me and avoided me, which was fine with me.

    Guys should gracefully accept "no." Moreover, they should not be overly aggressive. You have every right to turn someone down courteously, as you did.
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    Feb 10, 2011 3:08 AM GMT
    Nope you're not picky, you just want to move on your terms which is perfectly fine icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 10, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
    Your closeted and married.
    Besides getting accosted, your options are pretty limited. You can find online hookups (craigslist, a4a), get another closeted friend and get him drunk, or go to jail and be someone's bitch.

    Run back to your wife. Any time you see an attractive guy and feel horny, run home and recite your marriage vows.