RANT help maybe?

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    Apr 01, 2008 5:35 AM GMT
    OOOOOOOK.
    so ive totally had enough.
    i went out with this guy, like, 8 and a half months ago. and broke up with him... yea 8 and a half months ago. we went on 3 "dates" over 2-3 weeks, and i was done with it. he just wasnt for me, plus all he wanted to do was have sex. so it was basicallly a hookup. and he tries telling me he loves me and not to break up with him, and i think this is rediculous, esp. because at the time i was only 17 and he was 20.

    afterwards he called me everyday trying to see how i was, and i ignored most of them. but then he started adding my "top friends" on facebook to see how i was. thats outta control, and way stalkeresque. so after like, forever, he gave up.

    so last month, i get an email from this REALLY cute guy. apparently hes my ex's current boyfriend. he wants to know more about me, because i am all that my ex ever talks about apparently. i was like wow, sketchy. and then he broke up with my ex to have a chance with me. ( this was in NO way facilitated by me) so now my ex is stalking me again. i keep getting drunken voicemails. where he says he still respects me, but then he calls his ex and says he hates my guts. and now he knows where im going to college next year. great. creepass motherfucker.
    anyways. i needed to rant.
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    Apr 01, 2008 5:52 AM GMT
    Sounds way too much like a soap opera. LOL

    Totally convoluted. Sorry can't give advice. icon_razz.gif But be careful. He may be feeling like he was doubly cheated, and he's creepy.
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    Apr 01, 2008 6:08 AM GMT
    In love after 3 dates in 3 weeks??? and he's stalking you?

    Thank GOD or BUDDA or MOTHER EARTH that you're done with him.

    That shit is crazy!!
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    Apr 01, 2008 3:58 PM GMT
    creepy ...
    What does the hot guy think about the whole mess?
  • EricLA

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    Apr 01, 2008 4:27 PM GMT
    2-3 dates over the same number of weeks really doesn't make this guy an "ex." You hardly knew him. So the fact he's stalking you is crazy. The guy really has issues. I would make every effort to get the guy out of your life. Make completely clear to him that you're not interested in him and that you want him to leave you alone and that if he doesn't that you'll report him to his ISP and the administrators of Facebook, etc. Then cut off all contact. Don't email him, call him, anything. Block his emails or have his stuff sent to spam, block him from any of your Facebook, etc. I would also seriously consider changing my phone number, too. This guy is crazy and you should put as much distance between the two of you as possible.
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    Apr 01, 2008 6:06 PM GMT
    Quote from the movie "The Sweetest Thing"

    "These are they days *Dramatic pause* of our lives"