Is this a new gay craze?

  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 12, 2011 3:44 PM GMT
    When I'm at a gay bar/club, it's typical for guys to grab my ass, and I'm usually cool with that, but lately guys have been trying to stick their hands down my pants to feel the goods, which even I feel is inappropriate. What makes guys do this?
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    Feb 12, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidWhen I'm at a gay bar/club, it's typical for guys to grab my ass, and I'm usually cool with that, but lately guys have been trying to stick their hands down my pants to feel the goods, which even I feel is inappropriate. What makes guys do this?


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  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 12, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    Ha I know alcohol does play a part, but that doesn't make it right, just because you're drunk, horny and gay doesn't mean you can do whatever you want
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    Feb 12, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    wrestlervic said
    ohioguy12 saidWhen I'm at a gay bar/club, it's typical for guys to grab my ass, and I'm usually cool with that, but lately guys have been trying to stick their hands down my pants to feel the goods, which even I feel is inappropriate. What makes guys do this?


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    Feb 12, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    rnch said
    wrestlervic said
    ohioguy12 saidWhen I'm at a gay bar/club, it's typical for guys to grab my ass, and I'm usually cool with that, but lately guys have been trying to stick their hands down my pants to feel the goods, which even I feel is inappropriate. What makes guys do this?


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  • Import

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    Feb 12, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    I noticed that too.

    I was in a gay club like a couple of months ago and I was dancing with a group of guys, like just dancing as a group, no real serious grinding or anything, but this one guy proceeds to put his hands down my pants and tries fingering my asshole. . .

    Needless to say I was a bit shocked and kinda like "dude wtf?!"

    but def turned me off to the experience. I mean can't a guy go out without getting his asshole fingered? Geez
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    Feb 12, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    Hence, why I rarely frequent the gay club. Especially if I'm sober, then somebody's ass will get kicked. icon_evil.gif
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    Feb 12, 2011 7:53 PM GMT
    Import said
    . . .but this one guy proceeds to put his hands down my pants and tries fingering my asshole. . .

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    Feb 12, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    Import saidI noticed that too.

    I was in a gay club like a couple of months ago and I was dancing with a group of guys, like just dancing as a group, no real serious grinding or anything, but this one guy proceeds to put his hands down my pants and tries fingering my asshole. . .

    Needless to say I was a bit shocked and kinda like "dude wtf?!"

    but def turned me off to the experience. I mean can't a guy go out without getting his asshole fingered? Geez


    Hahahaha I mean you would think that a guy could go about his regular day without getting his asshole fingered, but sometimes those things just don't work out that way. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 12, 2011 8:08 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidWhen I'm at a gay bar/club, it's typical for guys to grab my ass, and I'm usually cool with that, but lately guys have been trying to stick their hands down my pants to feel the goods, which even I feel is inappropriate. What makes guys do this?


    Very rude and uncalled for.
    You dont let them inspect your goods unless you give them permission.
    Push them away and give them a dirty look.
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    Feb 12, 2011 8:11 PM GMT
    I've had it happen too.

    I think it's an awful way to prove that you're after someone and you know what you want.

    Myself, I prefer to be wined and dined before I put out.
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    Feb 12, 2011 9:27 PM GMT
    No class!
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    Feb 12, 2011 9:52 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidHa I know alcohol does play a part, but that doesn't make it right, just because you're drunk, horny and gay doesn't mean you can do whatever you want

    Indeed, sir. Before I feel his finger I figure to feel his favor.

    OK, OK, bad alliteration. But I really do think what happened to you is rushing things, and a bit out of line. It was a gay club, not a bathhouse. I've done the one myself at the latter (Hell, there weren't even any pants to get in the way), but I reject that behavior in the former.

    I've had my ass pinched and squeezed by strangers or casual acquaintances, which was kinda flattering & cute, and even my package palmed, which was kinda unwelcome. But I've never yet had a hand go down there at a club from a guy who wasn't at least my BF. And even then it was in a patio area or similar where that behavior was commonly done, never on the dance floor or at the bar.

    I dunno, I suppose my older age, coming out late, but I just don't like that uninvited invasion of my privacy. We'll do that when we know each other better, but that's not a proper introduction, not the gay handshake.
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    Feb 12, 2011 9:53 PM GMT
    They'd only try it once...that's all I've got to say!!
  • MrNomis

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    Feb 12, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    it is absolutely ridiculous!!!
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    Feb 12, 2011 9:59 PM GMT
    That knd of stuff should happen only with your invitation. Its not new behavior, though. Guys were doing that in the '70s. It's about as bad as manners can get short of kicking somebody in the balls or kniving him.
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    Feb 12, 2011 10:01 PM GMT
    That's just wrong.... Even the ass grabbing, I mean WTH? hehe
  • sea_buddy

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    Feb 12, 2011 10:04 PM GMT
    I'm not the aggressive type usually, but if that happened to me...there'd be some fists, elbows and knees flying at the guy who did it. lol
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    Feb 12, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
    I'm sorry you were offended...but
    pretty soon... and sooner than you think... your shelf life of being squeezed will expire...

    We become invisible very quickly
    as someone who was squeezed fingered licked...many years ago... at least I have nice memories...it ends all too quickly
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    Feb 12, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Bigsmiles saidI'm sorry you were offended...but
    pretty soon... and sooner than you think... your shelf life of being squeezed will expire...

    We become invisible very quickly
    as someone who was squeezed fingered licked...many years ago... at least I have nice memories...it ends all too quickly


    Oh please! Don't go parading it around like it's something to be proud of. Grabbing/squeezing/groping is very offensive if it's non-consensual. We may be gay, but we still have boundaries.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Feb 13, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidWhat makes guys do this?


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    Feb 13, 2011 1:36 AM GMT


    Hmmm... it hasn't happened to me yet... But, if it did, I would just tell them not to do it again or I will break the hand you masturbate with, of course in a nice way... icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 13, 2011 1:41 AM GMT
    Set them on fire in front of everyone. It sends a powerful message.
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    Feb 13, 2011 1:42 AM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidWhen I'm at a gay bar/club, it's typical for guys to grab my ass, and I'm usually cool with that, but lately guys have been trying to stick their hands down my pants to feel the goods, which even I feel is inappropriate. What makes guys do this?


    You're black. You're ass will get grabbed. That's what you black people get for having perfects asses.
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    Feb 13, 2011 1:42 AM GMT
    Bigsmiles saidI'm sorry you were offended...but
    pretty soon... and sooner than you think... your shelf life of being squeezed will expire...

    We become invisible very quickly
    as someone who was squeezed fingered licked...many years ago... at least I have nice memories...it ends all too quickly


    this upsets and makes me nervous! lol. i hate readingt these types of comments. im 24 but am i expired?