ohioguy12 saidHa I know alcohol does play a part, but that doesn't make it right, just because you're drunk, horny and gay doesn't mean you can do whatever you want
Indeed, sir. Before I feel his finger I figure to feel his favor.
OK, OK, bad alliteration. But I really do think what happened to you is rushing things, and a bit out of line. It was a gay club, not a bathhouse. I've done the one myself at the latter (Hell, there weren't even any pants to get in the way), but I reject that behavior in the former.
I've had my ass pinched and squeezed by strangers or casual acquaintances, which was kinda flattering & cute, and even my package palmed, which was kinda unwelcome. But I've never yet had a hand go down there at a club from a guy who wasn't at least my BF. And even then it was in a patio area or similar where that behavior was commonly done, never on the dance floor or at the bar.
I dunno, I suppose my older age, coming out late, but I just don't like that uninvited invasion of my privacy. We'll do that when we know each other better, but that's not a proper introduction, not the gay handshake.