ALEZANDAR, The Man With A "HEART" For MOTD!

  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Feb 13, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    In the past few weeks, some forum posts have been littered with nasty comments, personal insults directed to many and threads started just to make many of us angry.

    Through all of the remarks traded back and forth, we have seen one person always say something uplifting. That would be our own ALEZANDAR.

    If you notice when he has something to say, he signs off with his name...and a trademark heart. Therefore, it would be fitting to have ALEZANDAR represent RealJock as our Man Of The Day for Valentine's Day, February 14.

    I along with many others here think this guy is overdue for this honor. He has been nominated many times, only to get a few votes and not win. Now is the time, and what a perfect time for him to receive this.

    He is a positive contributor to our site. Let's take the focus off of the negativity and the people that are spreading it and give attention to someone who does.

    Thanks guys. He deserves this.

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    Feb 13, 2011 6:17 AM GMT
    That was easy. Done, lol!.
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    Feb 13, 2011 3:04 PM GMT
    While I don't know him personally, I have seen his posts and how level headed, non-judgmental, and kind his responses are.

    No Brainer! Vote cast!
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    Feb 13, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
    The word "gentleman" comes to mind when I think about him. He seems to be consistently thoughtful and articulate. I voted for him too.
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    Feb 13, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    ummm you guys didnt read the thread where he said asian guys workout to be muscular only for the sake of appealing to white guys. thats pretty damn negative and offensive to me.

    He is pretty good at making backhanded compliments.

    and i quote:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1303977?forumpage=5

    ALEZANDAR saidAsian men that are muscular loose their identity and true sex appeal, so that they can fit in or satisty the white man's appetite for male beauty. I personally love their petite, smooth skin, skinny/toned fit physique! while most are a bit shy and seem to act kind of distant, these personable traits in themselves tend to be largely misunderstood by non-asians and at times even by me too; and that is largely do to cultural issues.

    Asians are generally very disciplined people, who have a much deeper sense of responsibilty to their inner self and the natural world then non-asians do. American gay culture view sex and physical appearance as being very important, while the Asian gay culture views of same goes much much deeper. Furthermore, and from my own personal experience, gay Asians are very much in touch with their feminine side then their American counterpart; and that by all means have nothing to do with them being more affeminate, they are just a lot more in touch with their feelings on a much deeper level. Their views on love is more subliminal thus far exceeding the physical aspects of it, unfortunately in most cases their views on intimacy is greatly misunderstood by other cultures around the world.


    Leandro ♥



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Feb 13, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    Looking good as we enter the halfway point of the day. Thanks to those that have given their support and let's keep 'em coming!!
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    Feb 13, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    although i don't get involved in MOTD, i have to add that Alezander is one of gentlest, most loving people on this site, and I am proud to call him friend...Keithicon_smile.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Feb 13, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidummm you guys didnt read the thread where he said asian guys workout to be muscular only for the sake of appealing to white guys. thats pretty damn negative and offensive to me.

    He is pretty good at making backhanded compliments.

    and i quote:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1303977?forumpage=5

    ALEZANDAR saidAsian men that are muscular loose their identity and true sex appeal, so that they can fit in or satisty the white man's appetite for male beauty. I personally love their petite, smooth skin, skinny/toned fit physique! while most are a bit shy and seem to act kind of distant, these personable traits in themselves tend to be largely misunderstood by non-asians and at times even by me too; and that is largely do to cultural issues.

    Asians are generally very disciplined people, who have a much deeper sense of responsibilty to their inner self and the natural world then non-asians do. American gay culture view sex and physical appearance as being very important, while the Asian gay culture views of same goes much much deeper. Furthermore, and from my own personal experience, gay Asians are very much in touch with their feminine side then their American counterpart; and that by all means have nothing to do with them being more affeminate, they are just a lot more in touch with their feelings on a much deeper level. Their views on love is more subliminal thus far exceeding the physical aspects of it, unfortunately in most cases their views on intimacy is greatly misunderstood by other cultures around the world.


    Leandro ♥



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer



    Wow, Alezandar stated his admiration for Asians which, at best, could be misconstrued as stereotyping. Unless you have documentation that he is part of the KKK or once killed a man just to see how it would feel(as I have) then I'm voting for Leandro.......and how does he get that heart on the end of his name?
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    Celticmusl said
    AvadaKedavra saidummm you guys didnt read the thread where he said asian guys workout to be muscular only for the sake of appealing to white guys. thats pretty damn negative and offensive to me.

    He is pretty good at making backhanded compliments.

    and i quote:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1303977?forumpage=5

    ALEZANDAR saidAsian men that are muscular loose their identity and true sex appeal, so that they can fit in or satisty the white man's appetite for male beauty. I personally love their petite, smooth skin, skinny/toned fit physique! while most are a bit shy and seem to act kind of distant, these personable traits in themselves tend to be largely misunderstood by non-asians and at times even by me too; and that is largely do to cultural issues.

    Asians are generally very disciplined people, who have a much deeper sense of responsibilty to their inner self and the natural world then non-asians do. American gay culture view sex and physical appearance as being very important, while the Asian gay culture views of same goes much much deeper. Furthermore, and from my own personal experience, gay Asians are very much in touch with their feminine side then their American counterpart; and that by all means have nothing to do with them being more affeminate, they are just a lot more in touch with their feelings on a much deeper level. Their views on love is more subliminal thus far exceeding the physical aspects of it, unfortunately in most cases their views on intimacy is greatly misunderstood by other cultures around the world.


    Leandro ♥



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer



    Wow, Alezandar stated his admiration for Asians which, at best, could be misconstrued as a stereotypical statement. Unless you have documentation that he is part of the KKK or once killed a man just to see how it would feel(as I have) then I'm voting for Leandro.......and how does he get that heart on the end of his name?


    i actually thought you were a cool guy at one point. that quickly went down the drain.

    LOL. he state an insult then went on to cover it up by typing a bunch of positive asian stereotypes.

    its like telling someone they are stupid and ugly following with telling them that they are successful, confident, positive, etc. etc. etc.

    come on now. this is tragic. people are reading this and thinking "oh well, im not asian, im gonna vote."
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    Feb 13, 2011 5:42 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    Celticmusl said
    AvadaKedavra saidummm you guys didnt read the thread where he said asian guys workout to be muscular only for the sake of appealing to white guys. thats pretty damn negative and offensive to me.

    He is pretty good at making backhanded compliments.

    and i quote:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1303977?forumpage=5

    ALEZANDAR saidAsian men that are muscular loose their identity and true sex appeal, so that they can fit in or satisty the white man's appetite for male beauty. I personally love their petite, smooth skin, skinny/toned fit physique! while most are a bit shy and seem to act kind of distant, these personable traits in themselves tend to be largely misunderstood by non-asians and at times even by me too; and that is largely do to cultural issues.

    Asians are generally very disciplined people, who have a much deeper sense of responsibilty to their inner self and the natural world then non-asians do. American gay culture view sex and physical appearance as being very important, while the Asian gay culture views of same goes much much deeper. Furthermore, and from my own personal experience, gay Asians are very much in touch with their feminine side then their American counterpart; and that by all means have nothing to do with them being more affeminate, they are just a lot more in touch with their feelings on a much deeper level. Their views on love is more subliminal thus far exceeding the physical aspects of it, unfortunately in most cases their views on intimacy is greatly misunderstood by other cultures around the world.


    Leandro ♥



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer



    Wow, Alezandar stated his admiration for Asians which, at best, could be misconstrued as a stereotypical statement. Unless you have documentation that he is part of the KKK or once killed a man just to see how it would feel(as I have) then I'm voting for Leandro.......and how does he get that heart on the end of his name?


    i actually thought you were a cool guy at one point. that quickly went down the drain.

    LOL. he state an insult then went on to cover it up by typing a bunch of positive asian stereotypes.

    its like telling someone they are stupid and ugly following with telling them that they are successful, confident, positive, etc. etc. etc.

    come on now. this is tragic. people are reading this and thinking "oh well, im not asian, im gonna vote."




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    I have to agree with advada here, i never would have guessed until reading this excerp.

    It is sterotyping dressed-up as psuedo anthropology to the point of just plain ignorance. True the stereotypes are ones Leandro sees as being positive/compliments, but they are pretty shocking, extremely sweeping and very patronising.

    I can imagine comedians like Tina Fey writing this for a character monologue lampooning, to be bluntly honest, an incredulous idiotic cultural figure, such as Bush, Palin or Paris Hilton.




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    Feb 13, 2011 6:18 PM GMT
    On that topic in question alby, who is Asian, liked what Leandro said, avadekavra didn't.

    English isn't Leandro's first language. The gist of his post is admiration, coloured by his own personal preferences in an Asian man.

    While I don't agree at all with his assessment of why many asian men like to get muscular, I'm considering his overall consistent kindness, desire to assist guys on the site and his often startling insights which makes him great MOTD stuff to me.

    -Doug



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    Feb 13, 2011 6:29 PM GMT
    Just for the day, when he wins, I would like him to use this as his signature.
    The fire in his heart overflows to all he holds dear....


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    AvadaKedavra said



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer


    Come on buddy that guy never answers messages at least my messages
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    Feb 13, 2011 6:41 PM GMT


    http://www.realjock.com/ALEZANDAR


    Woot! 50 votes!

    -Doug and Bill
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    Feb 13, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    Vladimir01 said
    AvadaKedavra said



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer


    Come on buddy that guy never answers messages at least my messages



    If AvadaKedavra was paying attention he would notice his pick for MOTD literally has no one on his buddy list or hot list that is not white. At least Alezandar finds guys from other cultures attractive.
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    Feb 13, 2011 6:51 PM GMT
    meninlove said On that topic in question alby, who is Asian, liked what Leandro said, avadekavra didn't.

    English isn't Leandro's first language. The gist of his post is admiration, coloured by his own personal preferences in an Asian man.

    While I don't agree at all with his assessment of why many asian men like to get muscular, I'm considering his overall consistent kindness, desire to assist guys on the site and his often startling insights which makes him great MOTD stuff to me.

    -Doug





    I totally agree Doug and Bill. Leandro well deserves MOTD with his wonderful posts and great insights on life. As for the negative comments there will always be those who are negative no matter what is said and done.
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    Feb 13, 2011 9:39 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said.......and how does he get that heart on the end of his name?
    He types it like this: ♥
  • MisterT

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    Feb 13, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidummm you guys didnt read the thread where he said asian guys workout to be muscular only for the sake of appealing to white guys. thats pretty damn negative and offensive to me.

    He is pretty good at making backhanded compliments.

    and i quote:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1303977?forumpage=5

    ALEZANDAR saidAsian men that are muscular loose their identity and true sex appeal, so that they can fit in or satisty the white man's appetite for male beauty. I personally love their petite, smooth skin, skinny/toned fit physique! while most are a bit shy and seem to act kind of distant, these personable traits in themselves tend to be largely misunderstood by non-asians and at times even by me too; and that is largely do to cultural issues.

    Asians are generally very disciplined people, who have a much deeper sense of responsibilty to their inner self and the natural world then non-asians do. American gay culture view sex and physical appearance as being very important, while the Asian gay culture views of same goes much much deeper. Furthermore, and from my own personal experience, gay Asians are very much in touch with their feminine side then their American counterpart; and that by all means have nothing to do with them being more affeminate, they are just a lot more in touch with their feelings on a much deeper level. Their views on love is more subliminal thus far exceeding the physical aspects of it, unfortunately in most cases their views on intimacy is greatly misunderstood by other cultures around the world.


    Leandro ♥



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer


    I'm with you, I voted for NYCtrainer also. While alezandar tries to whitewash over his comment about muscular Asians with some things he like about most Asians, it's still a negative stereotype about why gay Asian guys workout. I can't vote him MOTD in good conscience.
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    Feb 13, 2011 9:50 PM GMT
    I make it a rule never to vote for people who have to post/advertise for it
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    Guy101 saidI make it a rule never to vote for people who have to post/advertise for it


    He didn't. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug
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    Celticmusl said
    AvadaKedavra saidummm you guys didnt read the thread where he said asian guys workout to be muscular only for the sake of appealing to white guys. thats pretty damn negative and offensive to me.

    He is pretty good at making backhanded compliments.

    and i quote:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1303977?forumpage=5

    ALEZANDAR saidAsian men that are muscular loose their identity and true sex appeal, so that they can fit in or satisty the white man's appetite for male beauty. I personally love their petite, smooth skin, skinny/toned fit physique! while most are a bit shy and seem to act kind of distant, these personable traits in themselves tend to be largely misunderstood by non-asians and at times even by me too; and that is largely do to cultural issues.

    Asians are generally very disciplined people, who have a much deeper sense of responsibilty to their inner self and the natural world then non-asians do. American gay culture view sex and physical appearance as being very important, while the Asian gay culture views of same goes much much deeper. Furthermore, and from my own personal experience, gay Asians are very much in touch with their feminine side then their American counterpart; and that by all means have nothing to do with them being more affeminate, they are just a lot more in touch with their feelings on a much deeper level. Their views on love is more subliminal thus far exceeding the physical aspects of it, unfortunately in most cases their views on intimacy is greatly misunderstood by other cultures around the world.


    Leandro ♥



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer



    Wow, Alezandar stated his admiration for Asians which, at best, could be misconstrued as stereotyping. Unless you have documentation that he is part of the KKK or once killed a man just to see how it would feel(as I have) then I'm voting for Leandro.......and how does he get that heart on the end of his name?


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    Feb 13, 2011 11:08 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Vladimir01 said
    AvadaKedavra said



    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer


    Come on buddy that guy never answers messages at least my messages



    If AvadaKedavra was paying attention he would notice his pick for MOTD literally has no one on his buddy list or hot list that is not white. At least Alezandar finds guys from other cultures attractive.


    I was paying attention. I just don't make assumptions about someone based on their buddy/hot list. also, i dont think its wrong if someone is only attractive to a certain look, as long as they arent offensive about it.
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    Feb 13, 2011 11:18 PM GMT
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    Guy101 saidI make it a rule never to vote for people who have to post/advertise for it


    He didn't. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug


    True, he didn't but someone else did it for him. That's just as bad in my book. It's an advertisement for a vote and it's not like ALEZANDER is asking for it be stopped so in my mind he supports the attention, therefore indirectly he is doing it.
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    Feb 13, 2011 11:38 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    Celticmusl said
    Vladimir01 said
    AvadaKedavra said
    Vote for this guy instead: http://www.realjock.com/NYCtrainer

    Come on buddy that guy never answers messages at least my messages

    If AvadaKedavra was paying attention he would notice his pick for MOTD literally has no one on his buddy list or hot list that is not white. At least Alezandar finds guys from other cultures attractive.

    I was paying attention. I just don't make assumptions about someone based on their buddy/hot list. also, i dont think its wrong if someone is only attractive to a certain look, as long as they arent offensive about it.


    So the only reason that you want nyctrainer to be motd is because:
    "He is cute.
    A personal trainer so you know he falls under the fitness health of this website AND life.
    He lives in new york"

    Or is it that you just want to get in his pants while you're in New York?
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    Feb 13, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    ^^Card pulled^^