Sex for the first time... a question for the top boys

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    Feb 14, 2011 12:22 AM GMT
    I have a question for tops! So I've topped yesterday for the first time, and the sensation felt like nothing...there was no way it was going to get me off. It felt like I was sliding my penis into nothing..... Does this happen to anyone else?
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    Feb 14, 2011 12:32 AM GMT
    Are you sleeping with worn-out guys? Next time you leave the bar, ask to hear him fart before you go. If it squeaks, you're in for a good time. If it 'huffs'....go home alone!icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 12:42 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Are you sleeping with worn-out guys? Next time you leave the bar, ask to hear him fart before you go. If it squeaks, you're in for a good time. If it 'huffs'....go home alone!icon_wink.gif




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  • rnch

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    Feb 14, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    Writrboi saidI have a question for tops! So I've topped yesterday for the first time, and the sensation felt like nothing...there was no way it was going to get me off. It felt like I was sliding my penis into nothing..... Does this happen to anyone else?



    but seriously now.....

    not every gay man likes/is meant to be a "top" icon_exclaim.gif

    have you "bottomed" before, writrboi?

    after many years of "topping" and not really having enjoying it (with gals and guys) as much as other men seemd to, my current bf "broke me in" to bottoming.

    much to my amazement (and his delight), we both agree that i'm better at being his bottom than topping him. icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    Oh, if I were a fly on the wall.icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 12:50 AM GMT
    Hillie saidOh, if I were a fly on the wall.icon_lol.gif



    Don't get those two reversed....
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    Feb 14, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Are you sleeping with worn-out guys? Next time you leave the bar, ask to hear him fart before you go. If it squeaks, you're in for a good time. If it 'huffs'....go home alone!icon_wink.gif


    Ahhhahahaha. What a good philosophy! icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Are you sleeping with worn-out guys? Next time you leave the bar, ask to hear him fart before you go. If it squeaks, you're in for a good time. If it 'huffs'....go home alone!icon_wink.gif


    I nearly fell out of my chair reading this. Too funny but it's got some logic to it.
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    Feb 14, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Are you sleeping with worn-out guys? Next time you leave the bar, ask to hear him fart before you go. If it squeaks, you're in for a good time. If it 'huffs'....go home alone!icon_wink.gif



    ROFL...LMAO.....
  • Celticmusl

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    Feb 14, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    Hmmmm.....well maybe you're not a top....
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    Feb 14, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    Were you drunk?
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    Feb 14, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    Hey W - You might try a couple of different positions and also realize that every asshole is going to be a little different too. For me, the best feeling is with my partner lying flat on his stomach - the sensation is great and when I'm close he senses it and does something amazing with his ass... you'll have to ask him what he does as I'm usually in orbit and have no clue.

    he enjoys it best on his back with me facing, I think becasue I can do nice long strokes pretty easliy and it gets him off in no time. Hope that helps a bit.
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    Feb 14, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    Seriously though...it can be a issue when the guy loosens up so much there isn't enough friction to get the train out of the station....I usually just fuck him until he's gotten enough and then pull out and jack and spray on his back.

    I've heard it called Jello Ass before.

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    Feb 14, 2011 3:56 AM GMT
    Thanks for you replies and to answer some questions I was not Drunk, My bf says he is Top/Vers. Believe me I will keep on trying as it was my first time lol but It's not easy being a top, maybe Im not agressive enough lol but after a while I got tired and had to stop icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
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  • rnch

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    Feb 14, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    Celticmusl saidHmmmm.....well maybe you're not a top....


    my thoughts also.


    no shame in figuring out who/what you are!
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    Feb 14, 2011 4:02 AM GMT
    Like warm apple pie!
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    Feb 14, 2011 6:30 AM GMT
    rnch said
    Celticmusl saidHmmmm.....well maybe you're not a top....


    my thoughts also.


    no shame in figuring out who/what you are!



    Thanks I'm not ashamed, after that I tried bottoming with my bf and I must say it didn't hurt as much as I though but I felt no pleasure either just uncomfterable most of the time icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    Voltaire said... when I'm close he senses it and does something amazing with his ass... you'll have to ask him what he does as I'm usually in orbit and have no clue.

    he enjoys it best on his back with me facing, I think becasue I can do nice long strokes pretty easliy and it gets him off in no time. Hope that helps a bit.


    As a bottom, I must say Voltaire got it right. Hope you don't mind my comment. Perhaps didn't answer the question, but then I couldn't because this question was for top boys and I'm not. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • camfer

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    Feb 14, 2011 7:34 AM GMT
    Assuming you were using a condom, try another brand that allows for more sensation. There is a wide variety.

    If you've got good communication with your BF, you can ask him to explore different levels of tightness when you're in him, even so far as different when you're thrusting in versus when you are pulling out.

    Different depths of penetration can feel different, too.

    Mentally you can get off on getting your partner off. Sometimes the best part of topping is what it does for your partner.

    The first time may not be the best time. Keep exploring! Sometimes when you're having a new experience you are not fully in touch with your body, due to nervousness, the unfamiliarity of it, etc.



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    Feb 14, 2011 7:41 AM GMT
    On one side, I have to wonder about the tightness-integrity of the guy you were with. It's pretty sad if they've been busted-in over and over long before you came along.

    On the other hand, see what other bottoms you wind up being with. Personally, I could careless about topping/intercourse; to me, it's a bonus when I'm with someone, but I don't push for it. I prefer a "suck buddy" over a "fuck buddy."
  • MisterT

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    Feb 14, 2011 8:08 AM GMT
    Voltaire saidHey W - You might try a couple of different positions and also realize that every asshole is going to be a little different too. For me, the best feeling is with my partner lying flat on his stomach - the sensation is great and when I'm close he senses it and does something amazing with his ass... you'll have to ask him what he does as I'm usually in orbit and have no clue.

    he enjoys it best on his back with me facing, I think becasue I can do nice long strokes pretty easliy and it gets him off in no time. Hope that helps a bit.


    I enjoy topping with my man laying flat on his stomach also, drives me wild, probably my favorite position. That is of course after i rim the hell out of him, lol. icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 14, 2011 8:40 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said Are you sleeping with worn-out guys? Next time you leave the bar, ask to hear him fart before you go. If it squeaks, you're in for a good time. If it 'huffs'....go home alone!icon_wink.gif



    What about if it sort of gurgles?
  • cvraider03

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    Feb 14, 2011 9:05 AM GMT
    I have to say I have had the exact same experience as you Writrboi! I have always been mostly bottom but that was because my experiences as a top have been a lot less fulfilling, about 4 or 5 times. This past Friday I tried fucking a guy for the first time, which i hadn't done for months!! icon_eek.gif haha, and i have to say it felt like I was fucking nothing. I was wearing a condom, so maybe that will lack a little sensation but yet it was almost to me like there was nothing there. I have been with women before and it was not the same.

    Yes I am mainly a bottom and trying to become more like a vers guy to pleasure my man, but if it's such a hole where I don't feel anything, no wonder I prefer the position of bottom I am in!
  • coastguy90814

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    Feb 14, 2011 10:17 AM GMT
    Writrboi saidI have a question for tops! So I've topped yesterday for the first time, and the sensation felt like nothing...there was no way it was going to get me off. It felt like I was sliding my penis into nothing..... Does this happen to anyone else?

    what!!! how can your penis feel like it's sliding into nothing? Unless you are hung like a hamster or....??? very weird. Can you explain more?