ugh, somehow I feel weird.

  • DKnight

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    Feb 15, 2011 4:42 PM GMT
    Hmm, seriously, this happened to me first time. I just got back from a meeting. During that meeting, I caught a question from a guy, asking that do you have a girlfriend. My intuition responces very quickly, saying "NO". Then, I thought he would end that question. But he didn't, keeping asking me "Well, then do you have BF?" Although I answered "NO, are you kidding me? I am single!" , however, I was thinking that "wth...". Why I felt werid because he is the first who asks me like that. I dont know... People nowadays are really open-minded. Gosh, really werid. icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 15, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    May be he's interested and wanted to know if you are available. Could be a nice thing.
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    Feb 15, 2011 11:01 PM GMT
    Someone once asked me if I am married. I dunno whether I should be happy that I'm masc enough to pass as straight or offended that I'm not metrosexual enough.

    I was also once asked if I ever had sex with a guy and if I liked it. Since I wasn't such close friends to the person who asked it I just walked away. I think you should tell people only when YOU are ready.

    If a guy asks you, especially when you two are alone, he's prob also gay or he has a cute friend who is gay that he'd like to set you up with.
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    Feb 15, 2011 11:35 PM GMT
    Maybe you just felt uncomfortable.

    I used to feel uncomfortable when people asked me if I had a gf and when I said no, they asked, well do you have a bf to which I also said no even if I did have one at the time.

    Now that I am a bit older, I would have no problem telling people I have a bf.

    I wouldn't read too much into it, but maybe that guy is interested in you or he is just plain nosy lol.
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    Feb 15, 2011 11:40 PM GMT
    Next time someone asks you that, if you're still single, answer "well I would have a bf if you're interested."
  • DKnight

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    Feb 16, 2011 2:43 AM GMT
    To paul,
    HAHAHA! Indeed, when I got home, similiar answer would suddenly pop out. But mine is "we can talk about it on bed!"
    Anyway, I did feel uncomfortable because I am good at answering "hey, you have a gf?" I always "No" all the way. However, I didnt expect that Bf question follows up. Well, as for that guy, ha, he is a st8 whose gf is also my good friend. Hmm, he is a great guy, warm, pssionate and kind to everyone. Ya, I would just consider him as my friend. ah, out of topic. Anyway, I hope I could take this question "You have bf?" much easier.