Confused Signals

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    Feb 16, 2011 1:36 AM GMT
    So in brief I'm 21
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    Feb 16, 2011 3:28 AM GMT
    If he's your type, just go up to him and ask if you can work in, or if he can spot you for a set. Once you get the conversation going you'll be able to test the waters to see if he's into you or just friendly. From what I read he's interest in you but just too shy.
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    Feb 16, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    Sounds like he's a creeper. Brrr........(sends chills down my spine as I was reading this) icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 16, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
    Most people are scared to make the first move to talk. Grow some balls and talk to him. You'll just keep wondering until the cows come home...

    I could understand your hesitation from a guy in the closet, but you've said that you're out... so you shouldn't care what people think.
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    Feb 16, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    Just strike up a conversation with him. It could be about anything. Maybe ask him about his workout routine. Or if there is something interesting going on around campus, talk about that. It seems he isn't likely to make the first move, so you have to do it.
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    Feb 16, 2011 7:03 AM GMT
    I agree with everyone else. Just talk to him. If you see him as much as you say you do, just be like "hey. i see you all the time here. i am (insert name). whats your name?"

    He could be very happy and start talking to you. He could hiss at you and run away. But then you will know.
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    Feb 16, 2011 11:03 AM GMT
    frenchatheart saidSounds like he's a creeper. Brrr........(sends chills down my spine as I was reading this) icon_neutral.gif


    I don't think so. He's just conflicted. He probably wants to reach out but is being held back by fear and doubt. He's probably suffering inside. I know that feeling. Proceed cautiously, however, because you don't know him or his temperament--that is, if he will get very defensive (and angry) if he's forced to confront the facts too quickly or if he can even do that at all. But it can't hurt to just say hi to him, ask if he wants to get something to eat at the student center and then see what he has to say.
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    Feb 16, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
    lol, just make friends already. Shelve your fantasies and deal with the reality of a new buddy. THEN you can entertain ideas of more.

    -Doug