Besides bar/clubs/gym/online, where have you met guys that you ended up dating?

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    Feb 16, 2011 5:31 AM GMT

    I remember once meeting a guy at the bus stop. We had a great conversation and exchanged cell phone # on the spot. He was very sweet and caring the first couple dates but after a few dates it was like he lost his medicine bottles for a psychiatric disease. Of course it turned out to be a HUGE mistake dating him. Its like this guy has 20 personalities and I was dating all of them!! The guy turned out to be a PSY-CHO!!!icon_lol.gif I had to have my phone # and email address changed. Til today I still don't back to that bus stop.

    If you guys had some unconventional meeting places / stories please do tell!
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    Feb 16, 2011 7:13 AM GMT
    drunk tank
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    Feb 16, 2011 7:48 AM GMT
    when you stop resisting rape and get to know the person you might find that the kind of fellow that you attract is also the kind of fellow you are attracted to.



    ben franklin said that.
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    Feb 16, 2011 8:14 AM GMT
    RealJock and on a bus..............icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 16, 2011 1:16 PM GMT
    Twice, in restaurants. After a little eye contact some guy passed by my table and dropped a note with his number. In each case the ensuing date was a huge disappointment as we had nothing in common. But the concept was romantic as hell.
  • chameleon

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    Feb 16, 2011 1:27 PM GMT
    the laundromat
    at a wedding
  • darryaz

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    Feb 16, 2011 1:27 PM GMT
    At the gas station. He was filling his car at the next pump.

    We went on a couple of dates but it never went anywhere.
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    Feb 16, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    paganurse saidthe laundromat

    I did that too once.
    Humidity lowers your standards.
  • _TheOne_

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    Feb 16, 2011 2:23 PM GMT
    My most recent ex. I met standing in line. Long story short, he has an amazing ass and he was leaning over his cart in line in front of me. And I was pretty much just gawking at his butt. In the middle of mentally memorizing his ass his friend comes over to join him in line with some stuff in her hands and tells him to "stop being a slut, you're putting on a show back here." I laughed out loud without thinking because obviously she had seen me staring.

    It turned out she worked there. I was shopping again a week later and we ended up talking and then told me he was gay and thought I was cute. So I did something I never do and gave her my number to give to him. Ok not so short of a story.

    And you thought being a perv was all bad.
  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 16, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    you guys are so lucky, why can't I randomly meet guys
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    Feb 16, 2011 2:33 PM GMT
    coffee shop
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    Feb 16, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    Dog parks, sporting events, etc.
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    Feb 16, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    _TheOne_ saidMy most recent ex. I met standing in line. Long story short, he has an amazing ass and he was leaning over his cart in line in front of me. And I was pretty much just gawking at his butt. In the middle of mentally memorizing his ass his friend comes over to join him in line with some stuff in her hands and tells him to "stop being a slut, you're putting on a show back here." I laughed out loud without thinking because obviously she had seen me staring.

    It turned out she worked there. I was shopping again a week later and we ended up talking and then told me he was gay and thought I was cute. So I did something I never do and gave her my number to give to him. Ok not so short of a story.

    And you thought being a perv was all bad.


    Wow what interesting turn of events! Life works in mysterious ways
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    Feb 16, 2011 3:15 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidyou guys are so lucky, why can't I randomly meet guys


    What part of my story sounded lucky to you?! I still get the creeps thinking about it now.
  • Midas426

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    Feb 16, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    Cityaznguy said
    ohioguy12 saidyou guys are so lucky, why can't I randomly meet guys


    What part of my story sounded lucky to you?! I still get the creeps thinking about it now.
    I think it's just the fact that you met someone in an unconventional way as opposed to how it ended up.
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    Feb 16, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
    Besides bar/clubs/gym/online, where have you met guys that you ended up dating?

    From an MCC gay church, a gay community center, from fundraisers for gay causes, and charity events for the arts. Oh, and I "met" one guy via the newspaper.

    Read an article about his house, my gaydar pegged, so I wrote him a letter (old fashioned snail-mail with an envelope and a stamp). He phoned me and we arranged to meet. We were together nearly 2 years.
  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 16, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
    Midas426 said
    Cityaznguy said
    ohioguy12 saidyou guys are so lucky, why can't I randomly meet guys


    What part of my story sounded lucky to you?! I still get the creeps thinking about it now.
    I think it's just the fact that you met someone in an unconventional way as opposed to how it ended up.


    Exactly
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    Feb 16, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    Confessional.
  • MisterT

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    Feb 16, 2011 7:09 PM GMT
    At an exe's apartment. I showed up to visit my ex, and Josh showed up to visit also about 20 minutes later, we went on our first real date 4 days later. We were together for 3.5 years.
  • rnch

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    Feb 16, 2011 7:32 PM GMT
    coffee shops are often a gay mecca.

    esp in my "gayborhood"

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  • xKorix

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    Feb 16, 2011 7:35 PM GMT
    School, work and through friends.
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    Feb 16, 2011 7:36 PM GMT
    school work and at practice ha
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    Feb 16, 2011 8:30 PM GMT
    at the gym , the movies ...long story... and gas station ..ha another long story
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    Feb 16, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    LeanathleticDC saidConfessional.


    LOL
  • laxdude25

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    Feb 16, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    playing soccer, at a conference for start up companies, biking in central park, on an overnight flight from new york to london (we "slept" together in business class)