Why are guys in bigmuscle.com so much more open than those on real jock?

  • MadeinMich

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    Feb 16, 2011 4:51 PM GMT
    It seems like they are more open to chat. Even when its not pertaining to anything sexual, guys are less willing to chat with you on realjock than on bigmuscle.com. But on big muscle you can tell a guy how hot you think they are and they will reply. Maybe because bigmuscle is more of a muscle worship site? Anyway not sure. Any thoughts?
  • Webster666

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    Feb 16, 2011 9:15 PM GMT
    Bigmuscle.com is more of a hook up/dating site.
    RJ is more of a social/conversational site.
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    Feb 16, 2011 9:20 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidBigmuscle.com is more of a hook up/dating site.
    RJ is more of a social/conversational site.


    Quite true...but then how does that explain the experience the OP has had with "connecting" (in some form or another) on BigMuscle.com as opposed to RJ?? ...that is to say, IF RJ is more of a "social/conversational" site, why would he have difficulty communicating with guys here??
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    Feb 16, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    Well you seem to have it figured out. That site must be a big draw to those who muscle-worship and those who desire to be muscle-worshipped. A symbiotic relationship and harmony of a specific interest of adornment.

    This site is much more varied. It is not a muscle fetish site. People who send mail simply praising the looks of somebody else will likey get a 'thanks, bye' or ignored if they are bored of hearing the same close-ended banal comment over again with the expectation from the sender that the sendee should, in gratitude, force a conversation with little or no other incentive given.
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    Feb 16, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    My perception is that I've had far more chats over here than I did over there. But there are times when it seems like I can't get a guy to chat with me to save my life over here.
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    Feb 16, 2011 9:32 PM GMT
    orly? well if you dont like it then

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    Feb 17, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    I find that most of the guys on BM are jaded and even more clique-ish than here.
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    Feb 17, 2011 3:55 AM GMT
    It all depends on what kind of conversation ure expecting to have
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    Feb 17, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
    Because they're all . . . wait for it . . .[fill in the blank]. Seriously, though, I think guys on Bigmuscle are unapologetic about their motive, which is generally to hook up, so they're really very accommodating. Nothing wrong with that. I've never used it, but I've checked it out a couple of times. There are some hot dudes on there, but in general the pictures are posed and apparently taken by professional photographers. RJ and Bigmuscle have differet target audiences--neither is better than the other.
  • MadeinMich

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    Feb 17, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    well, guys. i've had more than muscle adoration over there. i've seem to connect with people on a deeper level there. its easier to initiate conversation about heath and fitness over there than here. and i thought it was supposed to be vise versa. i can't count the times i've asked someone a simple health and fitness question on RJ just to be ignored. seems like a popularity contest over here. or maybe more RJ guys have their heads stuck up their asses than on bigmuscle. which strikes me as odd cuz i was initially intimidated to join that site because i felt i wouldnt be as well recieved over there.
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    Feb 17, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    I've tons of chats here on RJ. Mostly with guys who don't belong to the Forum world. And no not sexual.