Am I Bi?

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    Feb 17, 2011 5:00 AM GMT
    I usually just say that I'm gay because bi sound like an overused term, on top of the fact that I didn't believe in it. I prefer guys hands down, but every once in a while I'll see a beautiful girl and I can't stop staring, and it's obvious that I'm attracted to them. The thing is,sometimes I'll see an attractive girl or be around guys who were admiring these girls and I feel nothing. It's like sometimes it's there and sometimes it isn't. I used to think that maybe it was me trying to not be gay but it's there. It's sort of weird getting to the point where you can accept yourself and then having to deal with another aspect of your sexuality. Sorry if this should be in the sex section, I wasn't sure.
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    Feb 17, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    If it makes your dick hard - and it's legal and consenting - fuck it.
    You are what you are. You like what you like. If you need a label, buy a label-maker and put a sticky on your dick.

    Other than that little tidbit of omniscient wisdom, I have nothing more substantial to add here. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 17, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    Some believe sexuality/sexual orientation is on a continuum. Some see gender also on a continuum. If you are attracted so be it, labels are for soup cans not people icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 17, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    I dont think its always 100% with sexuality. For me, it is, but I know some guys that are into men that also truly get turned on by hot women....it is what it is. Dont worry about it
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    Feb 17, 2011 3:20 PM GMT
    Bi gay and straight are not really labels; they are words that describe the parameters of a person's sexual orientation.

    Are you Bi? You could be, and there are a million shades of gray to it. If you get hard-ons for girls and can masterbate and climax fantasizing about one, you're bi. There's a difference between imagining you're bi and actually being bi.

    -Doug
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    Feb 17, 2011 6:10 PM GMT
    If a straight guy ever says something like this about another guy hed be automatically labeled as gay.

    Go for whatever makes u happier.
  • adidas0783

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    Feb 17, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    When it comes to physical attraction and sexuality just drop the labels...you know what you like. Diversity is one beautiful aspect of the human condition. Just go after what you like, be yourself and play safe. You are who you are.

    Not to mention you are 19, you have plenty of time to experiment and to feel comfortable with your sexuality. Have fun!
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    Feb 17, 2011 6:31 PM GMT
    I don't have anything else to add, other than I like everyone's response on here. It's awesome that people, both gay and straight, are starting to realize that sexual preference is just like all other preferences. It can vary from person to person and from time to time. As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, I don't see a problem with it. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 17, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    You probably are bi but obviously more into guys? When i came out as bi, i found myself just into guys, so thought maybe i was gay. But after being with guys for awhile i now find myself interested in girls again :S Life would be much easier if i only liked one or the other but never mind! icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 17, 2011 6:42 PM GMT
    FierceEyes saidI don't have anything else to add, other than I like everyone's response on here. It's awesome that people, both gay and straight, are starting to realize that sexual preference is just like all other preferences. It can vary from person to person and from time to time. As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, I don't see a problem with it. icon_smile.gif


    Well said!!!
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    Feb 17, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    Being Bi mean you can enjoy both sexs, but only you will know which attracts you the most, 10 time out of 10 men prefer the men, but you can enjoy aspects of the other , but in a different way .But the love will sort it all thats the one that counts.
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    Feb 17, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    So go fuck one and find out.
  • dhinkansas

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    Feb 17, 2011 8:19 PM GMT
    I'm not sure why everything has to have a label on it. Otherwise, people continually debate it.

    Go with what's in your heart and brings you the best vibe. Doesn't matter what it's called.
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    Feb 17, 2011 8:52 PM GMT
    ever stared into a vagina and told yourself...yep, thats one good looking vagina?...
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    Feb 17, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
    KyleAD saidSo go fuck one and find out.



    Unfortunately having done that already hasn't cleared anything up.
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    Feb 17, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    Thanks to the guys that responded seriously, it makes sense.
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    Feb 17, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    I'm just like you. I know that men excite me in ways women never could but if I see an utterly attractive/hot woman, I'll look at her without hesitation and [sometimes] wonder what it would be like to be with a woman. With that being said, I know that I AM NOT 100% gay and I'm fine with that. I have quite a few gay male friends who are in the same boat I am and we're all good.

    Not only that, but what arouses in a non-physical, i.e. non-sexual, manner is usually a great indication of what turns you on. I've tried to masturbate while thinking of me having sex with a woman, but it never seems to work. Ohhh well.