Redemption

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    Feb 17, 2011 9:50 PM GMT
    so i fucked up, and i need advice on how to make up. met a great guy a month ago. we werfe supposed to have our fourth date but he canceled, Why?
    because of some thing DUMB & Juvenile that i did.

    Though i confess i regretted it 10 seconds after i did it, but there wasn't time to undo it. now i'm not even sure if he wants to TALK to me ever again. i made him blush when i shoulda made him laugh.

    you might say it was ONLY one month, but i'm not a very out going person to just meet people easily. and guys my age are never intrested in me. but he was perfect... just... perfect... i've gotta make it up.

    Sound boarding advice here guys help.

    (I HAVE BEEN APOLOGIZING EVERYDAY SINCE)
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    Feb 18, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    What exactly did you say or do? It's not very clear in your OP.
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    Feb 18, 2011 5:59 AM GMT
    Vancouverite2004 saidWhat exactly did you say or do? It's not very clear in your OP.

    Yep, what happened? You didn't say what the dumb and juvenile thing was, so how do we know how to answer?


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    Feb 18, 2011 6:06 AM GMT
    Can't help you if we don't know what the problem is.
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    Feb 18, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    Yes details help... but did you apologize? A sincere apology goes a long way. That being said, it might be hard to get that across if he's not going to talk to you... which means you need to evaluate how is best to get that message to this person. Which is where it comes to the details...
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    Feb 18, 2011 11:06 AM GMT
    Walk away, I am sensing it may of been getting so Serious to fast. He probably saw the potential you may have in loving him and it scared him. Guys are weird sometimes, when stability walks through the door sometimes they think they are above it other times they thing they are not worth it, but I would back off and let it slide for a little bit. If he has some feelings and wants to enjoy your company again then he will call you. Sounds like he is making something petty into something "deal breaking".

    -Walk away.