I Don't Cam, Don't ask me.......???

  • massbuildah

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    Feb 18, 2011 2:08 AM GMT
    Does anyone read our profiles?
    Okay it happened again and it just never fails to astound me.
    So I'm here online last night and I get a random IM request. As usual before I accept I check the guys profile, no pic....roll my eyes....out of sheer boredom I accepted. Conversation goes something like this...
    Hey
    HI
    how u doing?
    good u?
    great pics
    thanks.
    cam?
    I don't cam
    u don't have a cam
    I don't cam, says so in my profile

    Then nothing......he's gone like a theif in the night.

    And that's it, not a "oh okay, sorry"
    Not a "we can chat anyway"
    Not a "thanks but i was looking to cam"

    Nothing he just left...like so many others....FUCKING RUDE!!

    I mean it says so right in my profile, my headline reads:
    "I don't cam, don't ask me"

    What part of that means you should ask if I want to cam?

    I mean......REALLY??!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:10 AM GMT
    I have nothing in my profile about camming, and hardly ever get asked to.

    When you put "don't ask" about anything in your profile, it's like reverse psychology...people are going to ask.
  • mizu5

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    Feb 18, 2011 2:11 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI have nothing in my profile about camming, and hardly ever get asked to.

    When you put "don't ask" about anything in your profile, it's like reverse psychology...people are going to ask.
    So id I say dont' ask me out.... LOL
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:22 AM GMT
    Well, some guys do read the profiles, and some guys don't. Some guy hot listed me this afternoon and he clearly didn't read my profile. I checked his profile out of curiosity and it says he's into black dudes. If he had read my profile he would have known that (i) I'm Asian witth some euro blood, and (ii) I prefer not to be hot listed. Indeed, I have a couple of public pictures so people can actually check me out--and I most definitely don't look black in those pictures (no offense to black dudes on here). Perhaps some guys on RJ just don't care enough to read people's profiles; that or they're just too high or drugged out to comprehend.
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 18, 2011 2:33 AM GMT
    What's with people?
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    mizu5 said
    paulflexes saidI have nothing in my profile about camming, and hardly ever get asked to.

    When you put "don't ask" about anything in your profile, it's like reverse psychology...people are going to ask.
    So id I say dont' ask me out.... LOL
    Wanna go out tomorrow night? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:36 AM GMT
    massbuildah saidWhat's with people?


    It's RJ, hotstuff. Can we cam? Lol!
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    Feb 18, 2011 3:40 AM GMT
    Probably a spammer. I wouldn't put too much thought into it.
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    Feb 18, 2011 6:01 AM GMT
    RJ needs it's own internal chat roulette. Now that would be awesome. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 18, 2011 6:41 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidTaking on a random IM with someone you have not gotten to know is very much a crap shoot.


    I have gotten to know some of the most absolutely exceptional people this way. My best friends on Real Jock I found through serendipitous random IM's and not the message board.
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 18, 2011 11:22 AM GMT
    xrichx saidProbably a spammer. I wouldn't put too much thought into it.


    No, it happens all the time, that's like the 5th guy in about a month that has done that.
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 18, 2011 11:24 AM GMT
    DOMINUS said
    massbuildah saidWhat's with people?


    It's RJ, hotstuff. Can we cam? Lol!


    Well now.....maybe I'll make an exception! lol
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    Feb 18, 2011 11:28 AM GMT
    I know that feeling man same here
    You know you start talking to a cute guy and after 2 words he ask "do you have a cam" and i say no and then nothing not even a bye icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 18, 2011 11:38 AM GMT
    Most of the ppl on this site are rude i am thinkin about closing my account soon
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    Feb 18, 2011 11:59 AM GMT
    While most of the guys here have been pretty cool - one burned my ass a couple days ago and this seems like a good place to vent. hot_young_stud (just a scrawny torso shot on his profile) hits me up and wants to cam. I tell him I don't have a cam and then he hits me again, this time asking for more pics. I'm not a member of RJ so I tell him that's fine but I'll need an email, a name and a face pic. He send me an email address and his name so I send him a couple more pics (G-rated), let him know he has mail and that I'm looking forward to seeing his face pic. He replies only "I prefer cam"

    First I though what a sorry motherfu¢ker and then I got mad at myself for talking to peeps without face pics. 90% of all the problems I've had on this site comes from peeps without face pics...
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    Feb 18, 2011 12:02 PM GMT
    Voltaire saidWhile most of the guys here have been pretty cool - one burned my ass a couple days ago and this seems like a good place to vent. hot_young_stud (just a scrawny torso shot on his profile) hits me up and wants to cam. I tell him I don't have a cam and then he hits me again, this time asking for more pics. I'm not a member of RJ so I tell him that's fine but I'll need an email, a name and a face pic. He send me an email address and his name so I send him a couple more pics (G-rated), let him know he has mail and that I'm looking forward to seeing his face pic. He replies only "I prefer cam"

    First I though what a sorry motherfu¢ker and then I got mad at myself for talking to peeps without face pics. 90% of all the problems I've had on this site comes from peeps without face pics...


    well my good man you need to watch your sexy butt icon_biggrin.gif and when you really trust a guy then you can send him your pics on email
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    Feb 18, 2011 12:21 PM GMT
    massbuildah saidDoes anyone read our profiles?
    Okay it happened again and it just never fails to astound me.
    So I'm here online last night and I get a random IM request. As usual before I accept I check the guys profile, no pic....roll my eyes....out of sheer boredom I accepted. Conversation goes something like this...
    Hey
    HI
    how u doing?
    good u?
    great pics
    thanks.
    cam?
    I don't cam
    u don't have a cam
    I don't cam, says so in my profile

    Then nothing......he's gone like a theif in the night.

    And that's it, not a "oh okay, sorry"
    Not a "we can chat anyway"
    Not a "thanks but i was looking to cam"

    Nothing he just left...like so many others....FUCKING RUDE!!

    I mean it says so right in my profile, my headline reads:
    "I don't cam, don't ask me"

    What part of that means you should ask if I want to cam?

    I mean......REALLY??!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!


    can you get a cam so that we can cam? thanks!
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    Feb 18, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    I dont have a pic up on my profile because someone has copied them before and for other reasons.

    I often im guys who i've seen online and ask for a chat and i am always turn my cam on straight away so they can see who i am.

    9 times out of 10 i get zero response. Personally i dont see the issue i asking a guy if they want to chat on cam. But i agree readin the profile first is a must.

    I just like the chat so even if the other guy does'nt turn his cam on i am happy.

    PS guy next door i'm still waiting to chat to you icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 18, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    that conversation the OP put up is very familiar to me- i used to get it a lot.... and THAT'S why i don't reply to faceless profiles and ppl who initiate contact with "hey," "what's up," "sup," and "nice pics." -waste of precious minutes of my life.
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    Feb 18, 2011 1:36 PM GMT
    I just tell them if you wanna hook up go on manhunt and they are like omfg wow what is that thank you and leave
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 18, 2011 1:49 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    massbuildah saidDoes anyone read our profiles?
    Okay it happened again and it just never fails to astound me.
    So I'm here online last night and I get a random IM request. As usual before I accept I check the guys profile, no pic....roll my eyes....out of sheer boredom I accepted. Conversation goes something like this...
    Hey
    HI
    how u doing?
    good u?
    great pics
    thanks.
    cam?
    I don't cam
    u don't have a cam
    I don't cam, says so in my profile

    Then nothing......he's gone like a theif in the night.

    And that's it, not a "oh okay, sorry"
    Not a "we can chat anyway"
    Not a "thanks but i was looking to cam"

    Nothing he just left...like so many others....FUCKING RUDE!!

    I mean it says so right in my profile, my headline reads:
    "I don't cam, don't ask me"

    What part of that means you should ask if I want to cam?

    I mean......REALLY??!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!


    can you get a cam so that we can cam? thanks!


    maybe for you! but wait, no i want the real thing!!
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 18, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    DarkskinDude saidMost of the ppl on this site are rude i am thinkin about closing my account soon


    I wouldn't say that is true at all, I have met so many cool people on here!
    I've met a lot of them in person and have made some awesome friends, had some great sex and every now and then maybe you meet a Snake!
    But every once in a while you come across a total douche, it happens, it pisses me off but in general, it's a great site!
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    massbuildah said
    DarkskinDude saidMost of the ppl on this site are rude i am thinkin about closing my account soon


    I wouldn't say that is true at all, I have met so many cool people on here!
    I've met a lot of them in person and have made some awesome friends, had some great sex and every now and then maybe you meet a Snake!
    But every once in a while you come across a total douche, it happens, it pisses me off but in general, it's a great site!


    As much as I'd hate to admit it (because I generally HATE online hookup sites like bigmuscle, etc.), I must say that, as a new RJ user, I've been relatively impressed with the quality of people on RJ. There are definitely some wackos, stalkers, and douchebags on here, but there are also some really nice guys that are thoughtful, smart, sexy, etc. I have talked to some realy cool RJ hotties who have actually volunteered to come to D.C. to meet me or meet half-way. That's impressive, and these dudes are definitely not duds! I especially like the guys that post and respond to posts--I've read some pretty impressive thoughts on here, as well as some sexy banter, which are always entertaining. I've also found it helpful to read someone's posts before I respond to their invitation to chat or meet--that helps quite a bit because it gives me a general idea of what that person is all about.

    Oh, and I've met "Snake," and he's definitely a keeper. I'd marry him in a second. Lol!

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    Feb 18, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    DarkskinDude saidMost of the ppl on this site are rude i am thinkin about closing my account soon

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    Feb 18, 2011 3:40 PM GMT
    Chatting online is so 1996. icon_wink.gif