First time anal

  • Kellzor

    Posts: 38

    Apr 02, 2008 8:25 AM GMT
    Allrighty, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and we have had sex but I was on top. He has shown interest in being on top, and I am ready to try bottoming, but Im not sure what I should do to avoid pain/discomfort as much as possible.

    I know itll be a different sensation, but hopefully it will be good...

    Advice or tips?

    Much appreciated!
  • Timbales

    Posts: 13993

    Apr 02, 2008 10:50 AM GMT
    I say take it slow. I think the best thing is to have him just play with your hole for a bit, slicked up around it and applying pressure while he's blowing you. After awhile, he can start to penetrate with a finger just a little inside, teasing it. Play it by ear and let him know when it's ok to go deeper, but make sure he's gentle about it.

    Get off like that a few times before you try full on sex. It will help you get accustomed to the feeling and be able to enjoy it more.
  • Kirby_Atwood

    Posts: 42

    Apr 02, 2008 1:58 PM GMT
    Take it slow, if you feel uncomfortable, let him know. I am sure that if it's first time, you will feel uncomfortable. And just tell me when you have that feeling, and ask him to go deeper inside slowly. Of course, a lot of preparation need to be done. A finger playing as well as Lubricants as necessary.
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    Apr 02, 2008 2:05 PM GMT
    I think Timberoo covered the bases. The first time I was the "receiver" it was uncomfortable/painful but not outrageously so. I personally have never found anal as pleasurable as oral (top or bottom) but that is just me I think.