Is he cheating or are they friends?

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    Feb 20, 2011 1:58 AM GMT
    Is he cheating or are they friends? Love this Dude and its going well. We moved in together late last summer. His other bud who is also in a relationship and gay seems to spend a lot of time with my bud.

    Don't know if they are just friends like he says or if there is something going on. The other nite we ( the four of us) went out, he drove and when he dropped us off I went around the car to thank him and there was my man in a full body embrace and a kiss with this other dude. I kind a backed off then my mans friend came over and grabbed my shoulder and said, " hey thanks a lot for everything" as we were celebrating his birthday. My guy just stood there...

    is there a reason to be concerned as I've asked him and he said "no, we are just very good friends". What should I think?
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    Feb 20, 2011 2:48 AM GMT
    I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he's being truthful. There's nothing wrong with kissing and tightly embracing a best bud. My best friends and I do that, and even say "I love you" to each other. It's all good.
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    Feb 20, 2011 6:04 AM GMT
    You didn't give us to many details but, if I was in your shoes I would be suspicious. Could you elaborate on how they where kissing?

    Follow your gut, it knows more then what you ate for lunch