Cosmetic Surgery

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    Feb 20, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    would you be angry if your boyfriend didnt tell you that he had cosmetic/plastic surgery - even if you never asked
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    Feb 20, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    I don't see how divulging information about previous plastic surgery is necessary for a relationship to work. That's no more important than needing to tell a boyfriend you had your tonsils taken out as a child, or had knee surgery after an injury.
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    Feb 20, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    I'm upfront and telling them (aquaintances) that I have had some. And if I forget, they ask (scar is visible).

    No, I wouldn't mind. If there is metal, it will only be a matter of time before he sets off the detector at the airport. Then the questions will be asked by TSA rather than me. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 20, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    the whole point of cosmetic surgery is so that people dont know you had something done. why would you ?

    also, there are so many types of cosmetic surgery. my brother had reconstructive jaw surgery because after a major accident he only have 7 teeth that werent broken.(the rest were gone or broken) As retarded as the insurance company is, they fought having to pay for it because they deemed it as cosmetic. how do you eat that way ?

    so what kind of cosmetic surgery are we talking about? like a nose job?
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    Feb 20, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    Well I guess you would expect him to say something, but if he didn't feel compelled to do so, it's really his business. I don't have an issue with it.
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    Feb 20, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    It's a touchy subject. Some people want to have it done and forget it was ever any different than what it is now. Don't know if you can really begrudge them that or if the best course of action is to make a HUGE deal about it when what they wanted is for it to not be a deal at all.
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    Feb 20, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    YoungjockMN saidthe whole point of cosmetic surgery is so that people dont know you had something done. why would you ?

    also, there are so many types of cosmetic surgery. my brother had reconstructive jaw surgery because after a major accident he only have 7 teeth that werent broken.(the rest were gone or broken) As retarded as the insurance company is, they fought having to pay for it because they deemed it as cosmetic. how do you eat that way ?


    so what kind of cosmetic surgery are we talking about? like a nose job?


    lets say if one has done about all of his face ?

    like nose, cheek, chin, lips, eyes.....
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    Feb 20, 2011 6:20 PM GMT
    If some guy had a nose job or whatever to feel better about himself, more power to him. It's really his business who he tells or doesn't. The idea that you have to tell your significant other everything that ever happened to you is BS in my opinion...
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    Feb 20, 2011 6:27 PM GMT
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  • Sparkycat

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    Feb 20, 2011 8:11 PM GMT

    Why would he make a point of telling you? It's really none of your business. I think if this sort of thing is a really big deal for you you're not mature enough to be in a relationship.


    factitious saidwould you be angry if your boyfriend didnt tell you that he had cosmetic/plastic surgery - even if you never asked
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
    I'd augment my bum if I really had a choice in plastic surgery lol... It'll be a perky an upbeat!icon_lol.gif

    My bum bum is a sad looking one atm....
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:16 PM GMT
    Sparkycat said
    Why would he make a point of telling you? It's really none of your business. I think if this sort of thing is a really big deal for you you're not mature enough to be in a relationship.


    factitious saidwould you be angry if your boyfriend didnt tell you that he had cosmetic/plastic surgery - even if you never asked



    actually i agree with you - its just the business of the person who had it.

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    Feb 20, 2011 8:18 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidI'd augment my bum if I really had a choice in plastic surgery lol... It'll be a perky an upbeat!icon_lol.gif

    My bum bum is a sad looking one atm....



    haha can understand that... a friend (girl) did it and it looks fabulous... but its horribly expensive :-)))
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:23 PM GMT
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    Fivealive saidI'd augment my bum if I really had a choice in plastic surgery lol... It'll be a perky an upbeat!icon_lol.gif

    My bum bum is a sad looking one atm....



    haha can understand that... a friend (girl) did it and it looks fabulous... but its horribly expensive :-)))


    Ya so I heard.... My family looked at me as if I was insane to even think of having a 'bum job' icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:24 PM GMT
    factitious saidwould you be angry if your boyfriend didnt tell you that he had cosmetic/plastic surgery - even if you never asked


    If I asked and he lied - yes

    If I didn't ask- how could I be?
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:26 PM GMT
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    factitious said
    Fivealive saidI'd augment my bum if I really had a choice in plastic surgery lol... It'll be a perky an upbeat!icon_lol.gif

    My bum bum is a sad looking one atm....



    haha can understand that... a friend (girl) did it and it looks fabulous... but its horribly expensive :-)))


    Ya so I heard.... My family looked at me as if I was insane to even think of having a 'bum job' icon_lol.gif


    well i think if i would tell my family that i think my bum is to small - they would think im insane either haha...

    but someday.... someday....
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
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    factitious saidwould you be angry if your boyfriend didnt tell you that he had cosmetic/plastic surgery - even if you never asked


    If I asked and he lied - yes

    If I didn't ask- how could I be?



    yup thats what i think too
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:49 PM GMT
    If you can't look at someone and tell they've had work than you need lasik. People think it's not obvious, but it is
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    factitious said
    Blackguy4you said
    factitious saidwould you be angry if your boyfriend didnt tell you that he had cosmetic/plastic surgery - even if you never asked


    If I asked and he lied - yes

    If I didn't ask- how could I be?



    yup thats what i think too


    cool :-)icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:55 PM GMT
    ATX611 saidIf you can't look at someone and tell they've had work than you need lasik. People think it's not obvious, but it is


    u really think so?

    i´ve seen lots of people who had some and told so - and some of them looked pretty natural

    think sometimes it depends on if they go to far -
    or maybe some like to look artificial
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    Feb 20, 2011 8:57 PM GMT
    I can spot it from a mile away
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    Feb 20, 2011 9:00 PM GMT
    ATX611 saidI can spot it from a mile away



    wow gotta go to get new contact lenses i guess
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    Feb 20, 2011 9:24 PM GMT
    I don't think i would get pissed off if I found out about the plastic surgery. I just hope he had some modifications that I can use and enjoy! icon_razz.gif