A question for all you tops out there - are you into submissive bottoms?

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    Feb 20, 2011 10:40 PM GMT
    I mean totally submissive - that act like a whore when youre fucking them, screaming, moaning, sucking your fingers? basically, a bottom that enjoys the pain of being fucked...let me know
  • alphatop

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    Feb 20, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
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    Feb 21, 2011 12:00 AM GMT
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    Feb 21, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    Totally.

    The more, the better - I love when my bottoms want me to get rough with them, pull their hair or head back as I take them from behind, some ass and chest smacking, hooking my thumb into the corner of their jaw to control their head, or manhandling them (especially if they are wearing a harness or a shirt they don't mind getting a bit torn)...

    And if a sling is available... even better.
  • Beeftastic

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    Feb 21, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    It's not the only thing I like when I am topping a guy, but yeah being a totally submissive bottom bitch in heat is really hot!
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    Feb 22, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    any more tops like to give their opinions?
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    Feb 22, 2011 12:57 AM GMT
    Well, those things aren't necessarily submissive. They're just "having a good time."
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    May 03, 2011 8:45 AM GMT
    there must be more opinions on this - TOPS, please state your preference!
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    May 03, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    Yes, I love a bottom who lets me take over and tell them how they're going to be fucked.
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    May 03, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    i only like to fuck a man who and when he really enjoys it. it's not doing me any favors otherwise. if a man loves to be fucked, then i love fucking him, but i could live without it. i'd rather not bother than deal with someone doing it begrudgingly or as manipulation.
  • Hothouse

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    May 03, 2011 7:29 PM GMT
    To put it simply - YES.
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    May 03, 2011 7:53 PM GMT
    alphatrigger saidTotally.

    The more, the better - I love when my bottoms want me to get rough with them, pull their hair or head back as I take them from behind, some ass and chest smacking, hooking my thumb into the corner of their jaw to control their head, or manhandling them (especially if they are wearing a harness or a shirt they don't mind getting a bit torn)...

    And if a sling is available... even better.



    That's rough sex, not necessarily dom/sub play.

    The submission the OP is referring to is more related to degradation, power imbalance, and control.

    When I top, I am NOT AT ALL INTO SUBMISSIVE BOTTOMS. It's a major turn off. For me, sex is an equal exchange of pleasure between two (or more) people -- not an exercise in unbalanced power dynamics and psychological manipulation.
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    May 04, 2011 7:13 AM GMT
    I don't think I would be down (I would prefer a power bottom) but if my partner wanted that fantasy fulfilled...I would be more than happy to make it come true..come true more than once.

  • May 05, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    can we hear sum more from the tops please hehehe
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    May 05, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    Definitely not into 100 % submissive bottoms.
    I am into bottoms that can take control (power bottoms) AND that can let loose (submissive bottoms).

    I am with many others on here and would say 50/50 split between power.
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    May 05, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
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    alphatrigger saidTotally.

    The more, the better - I love when my bottoms want me to get rough with them, pull their hair or head back as I take them from behind...


    That's rough sex, not necessarily dom/sub play.

    The submission the OP is referring to is more related to degradation, power imbalance, and control.

    When I top, I am NOT AT ALL INTO SUBMISSIVE BOTTOMS. It's a major turn off. For me, sex is an equal exchange of pleasure between two (or more) people -- not an exercise in unbalanced power dynamics and psychological manipulation.


    Taking this into consideration - My answer would basically remain the same: I tend to like to dish it out rough, and if the bottom has indicated that he wants to be treated as my personal little pussyboy fucktoy, I'm down for it.

    But that's just sex:

    As a day to day thing (the whole master/slave or Dom/sub lifestyle in all its aspects, I prefer an equal partner. For the most part. ;)
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    May 11, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    Ooh this thread is turning me on.

    Hair pulling, face slapping, spitting, degradation... I don't know why it turns me on so, it seems pretty unenjoyable at first thought, but an evil bastard using and abusing me is one of my favourite fantasies.

    Submissive, frenzied fucking should be kept separate from Master/Slave talk, since that's a whole different fetish. Basically the difference between chaos and order. Having to call someone sir in every sentence is a serious boner-killer. Natural 100% powerfucking top + Natural 100% slutbottom is where it's at.
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    May 11, 2011 11:53 PM GMT
    yes - very well put

    this is not about dom/sub/master crap

    its about a natural submissive bottom who likes to be the bitch in bed

    and that doesn't mean that they are not 'active' bottoms or not' power' bottoms

    the more submissive i get, the more i put into sex - i reciprocate - with my anal muscles, with my lips, with my mouth, with my compliance, with my thrust on the up and down stroke

    THATS THE POINT

    I am a total bottom - i cant get hard even thinking about fucking a guy, let alone actually doing it. What does get me hard is pleasuring a HUNG TOTALTOP - and that doesn't mean i just lie back and think of england...

    any more tops care to comment?

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    May 12, 2011 1:14 AM GMT
    londonslutbottom saidyes - very well put

    this is not about dom/sub/master crap

    its about a natural submissive bottom who likes to be the bitch in bed

    and that doesn't mean that they are not 'active' bottoms or not' power' bottoms

    the more submissive i get, the more i put into sex - i reciprocate - with my anal muscles, with my lips, with my mouth, with my compliance, with my thrust on the up and down stroke

    THATS THE POINT

    I am a total bottom - i cant get hard even thinking about fucking a guy, let alone actually doing it. What does get me hard is pleasuring a HUNG TOTALTOP - and that doesn't mean i just lie back and think of england...

    any more tops care to comment?



    I know what you mean - a power bitchy bottom - that likes to get slapped around and can return it rough.

    BUT, it turns me off when I am fucking a man that wants me to treat him like that.... I have more respect for the men I am fucking to be honest with you. I can't slap him around and make him feel inferior than me.

    But I am just 1 top out of a gazillion.
  • mellowmuscle

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    May 15, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    I got hard reading this thread. Lol
  • mellowmuscle

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    May 15, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    Being a submissive bottom and pleasing my top is what turns me on but being submissive doesn't mean you're just laying there. You're still actively involved and reciprocating, but taking direction from your top and fulfilling his desires.