Feb 20, 2011 10:40 PM GMT
I mean totally submissive - that act like a whore when youre fucking them, screaming, moaning, sucking your fingers? basically, a bottom that enjoys the pain of being fucked...let me know
The more, the better - I love when my bottoms want me to get rough with them, pull their hair or head back as I take them from behind, some ass and chest smacking, hooking my thumb into the corner of their jaw to control their head, or manhandling them (especially if they are wearing a harness or a shirt they don't mind getting a bit torn)...
And if a sling is available... even better.
rezdylan saidalphatrigger saidTotally.
The more, the better - I love when my bottoms want me to get rough with them, pull their hair or head back as I take them from behind...
That's rough sex, not necessarily dom/sub play.
The submission the OP is referring to is more related to degradation, power imbalance, and control.
When I top, I am NOT AT ALL INTO SUBMISSIVE BOTTOMS. It's a major turn off. For me, sex is an equal exchange of pleasure between two (or more) people -- not an exercise in unbalanced power dynamics and psychological manipulation.
londonslutbottom saidyes - very well put
this is not about dom/sub/master crap
its about a natural submissive bottom who likes to be the bitch in bed
and that doesn't mean that they are not 'active' bottoms or not' power' bottoms
the more submissive i get, the more i put into sex - i reciprocate - with my anal muscles, with my lips, with my mouth, with my compliance, with my thrust on the up and down stroke
THATS THE POINT
I am a total bottom - i cant get hard even thinking about fucking a guy, let alone actually doing it. What does get me hard is pleasuring a HUNG TOTALTOP - and that doesn't mean i just lie back and think of england...
any more tops care to comment?