any dom guys/ masters out there?

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    Feb 21, 2011 7:01 PM GMT
    so just wondering , any guys on site that look for submissive guys for them to have obey them in relationship... or am i alone here?

    like a guy that knows his place in the relationship ...

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    Feb 21, 2011 7:10 PM GMT
    STFU bitch and get back in my fucking basement!
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    Feb 21, 2011 7:34 PM GMT
    lmfao paulicon_biggrin.gif

    i guess i sound creepy, im not talking about the whole slave/master thing all day every day thing... of course, i love me some role play icon_smile.gif

    i mean generally do you like to be the more dominant partner in a relationship, i get that what i want from a relationship aint the norm and is thus harder to find... it's not that i want to treat my guy bad, the opposite, once he is loyal and obedient to me, i treat my guy very well.... i just like control i guess, always have been a controling personality.....

    i know most people want the 50/ 50 partnership but i dont, i want to be more dominant in my relationships and exert more control over stuff if you get where im coming from ?
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    Bump!

  • Feb 22, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    I am a SIR and have a pup. He is submissive to me. We are also boyfriends.
    It's pretty hot.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    I have to be dominant in a relationship, but not in the master-slave type way.
    I'm just selfish and bitchy.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    I tend to be more submissive. It's my nature to put others needs above mine at times and I'm a supportive and caring person as well.

    Now I just need to find a nice dominant guy lol.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 22, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    It can be interesting when you have two dom personalities in a relationship..

    A challenge...

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    Feb 22, 2011 5:02 PM GMT
    Hmmm...very interesting topic.

    In the bedroom, my man dominates....HARD - throws me around the room and opens me up....enough said.

    Mike
  • Vaughn

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    Feb 22, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    I need a guy to dominant. It never works out because I'm very willful. At least it isn't hard to throw me around in bed.

  • Feb 22, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    hmmm.. vaughn.. Sounds like that is exactly why it WOULD work out. icon_smile.gif
  • needleninja

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    Feb 22, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    when i am my general self i am very kind hearted and such, but when i have a man, i just want to slam him into the wall. yeah!!!! XD
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    Although it isn't as clean cut type of site as this, recon will most likely have likely matches for you.
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    I second the Recon suggestion. This site is more geared for queens that love to whine about politics fitness topics.
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:55 PM GMT
    I'm very driven and have a take charge personality. I like to be in control of things in my life so I guess that spills over into my relationships and in the bedroom where I also tend to be dominant.
  • Beeftastic

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    Feb 22, 2011 8:29 PM GMT
    I tend to be pretty dom in the bedroom. Not from a role playing perspective (though that's fun too), just naturally. It's rare I meet someone that I want to be more submissive with.

    Nothing sexier than a big muscle guy going all sub in the bedroom IMHO icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 22, 2011 9:41 PM GMT
    I'm unapologetically dom/top, a very kinky dom/top. What's the big deal? We must acknowledge what makes us happy.
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    Feb 23, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    ditto brother, i hate when guys judge and act like im a creep just because this sort of relationship is my preference.... each to their own
  • Smiling_Eyes

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    Feb 23, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    I'm willful and dominant in my life but like being submissive sexually. I'm into younger guys though which makes finding doms tough.
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    Feb 23, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    haha i think in usual life im veeeery dominant ... but i like my boyfriend to be more dominant than me... and a bit kinky is good :-)))
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    Feb 23, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    Very much a Dom/Top guy here.

    Not into the master/slave thing on a continual basis (like keeping a boy naked and collared all the time, etc.) but kink/role-play scenes can be hot, especially getting a boy into into his subspace.

    In relationships I tend to be the one making the choices.
  • GoodPup

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    Feb 23, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    I'm more the submissiv type... but recon is too creepy for me looking for people that want actual slaves. So recon doesn't work much for me.
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    Feb 23, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    JaseinOC saidI'm more the submissiv type... but recon is too creepy for me looking for people that want actual slaves. So recon doesn't work much for me.


    Agreed, there is a difference between being submissive in the bedroom (out of control in my book) and someones slave. A big difference.
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    Feb 23, 2011 8:02 PM GMT
    Theres a website that has exactly what you need. Hold on I'll get it for you.

    http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites
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    Feb 23, 2011 11:51 PM GMT
    JaseinOC saidI'm more the submissiv type... but recon is too creepy for me looking for people that want actual slaves. So recon doesn't work much for me.


    I have been on recon for years and have met up with only a few guys from there (mostly just coffee and one I dated for a while). You just have to get use to filtering people yourself and let people know your intentions (for me ltr and normal outside and more submissive in the bedroom). There are mostly people that aren't matches on there, but if you sift through there are good guys that you can grab a beer at the sports bar with.

    And yes, you do have to put up with creeps, but I just respectfully say they aren't what I am looking for and they leave me alone.