Chaser OR Chasee.?

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    Feb 22, 2011 1:41 AM GMT
    Simple question. Are you the chaser, the one who usually flirts and goes after men OR are you the chasee, the one who guys usually chase.? For me, I'm a chaser. I know what I like in guys so it's easier for me to chase than rather be chased.
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    Feb 22, 2011 3:12 AM GMT
    I chase....why wait.
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    Feb 22, 2011 3:54 AM GMT
    When I was actively dating I was pretty much both. Sometimes I am oblivious when a guy is interested unless he comes right out and tells me. Once I 'fix me' and get back into it, I am pretty sure I will definately be the chaser much more than the chasee.
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    Feb 22, 2011 3:56 AM GMT
    I like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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  • TheAlchemixt

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    Feb 22, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    I'm a chaser, but I wouldn't let the guy know that I am chasing him. I like a challenge icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidI like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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    I'm gonna hunt you down bb.


    OP: I am a chaser too. Fuck waiting, that takes too long.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    Ariodante saidI like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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    I'm gonna hunt you down bb.


    Though I'm not into being chased, being trapped and tied down gets a hell yeah! =D
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    Im a chasee, I tend to be more passive when it comes to that stuff.

    Im social though, and like talking to people a lot so sometimes that sparks the interest for them.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    everything you chase in life runs away. it's way better to be the chasee. i am both depending on the guy
  • BeerIsYummy

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    Feb 22, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
    I'm more of a chasee. Hell, I don't even send messages to guys on this site unless they message me first. lol But I don't call myself, shy. I say I'm mysterious!
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    Depends - I can be both. I do get tired of being the chaser really fast though. At some point, I expect whoever I'm interested in to start reciprocating otherwise I lose interest.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:37 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    Ariodante saidI like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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    I'm gonna hunt you down bb.


    Though I'm not into being chased, being trapped and tied down gets a hell yeah! =D
    I'm gonna force-feed you cookie sandwiches full of cheesecake and bacon.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    Ariodante said
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    Ariodante saidI like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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    I'm gonna hunt you down bb.


    Though I'm not into being chased, being trapped and tied down gets a hell yeah! =D
    I'm gonna force-feed you cookie sandwiches full of cheesecake and bacon.


    Watch your fingers. I bite down hard.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:40 AM GMT
    I've chased mostly, but I love being chased more honestly.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    Ariodante said
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    Ariodante saidI like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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    I'm gonna hunt you down bb.


    Though I'm not into being chased, being trapped and tied down gets a hell yeah! =D
    I'm gonna force-feed you cookie sandwiches full of cheesecake and bacon.


    Watch your fingers. I bite down hard.
    googling "biting gif" is one of the worst ideas i've ever had
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    a little bit of both... but oer of an ee
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidI like who I like. I've never really gotten the logic of liking someone just because they really like you. So I guess I chase.

    Although I don't chase.
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    Feb 22, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    I'm almost never the one who initiates first contact. Once I get to know a person and I like them though, I don't mind doing the chasing as long as it's not all unidirectional. The other guy needs to throw me a bone every once in a while, because playing "hard to get" games can get exhausting pretty quickly.
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    BOTH!!! i like to chase and be chased!
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    Chaser. I never drink my liquor straight up. icon_lol.gif
  • Riahtherockst...

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    Feb 22, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    Chasee - I'll flirt enough to get noticed but after that I like to put up a fight ;)
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    chaser. but its nice being the chasee sometimes
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    Im tryin to become a chaser, though i end up getting chased by the one i wanna chase lol
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    Feb 22, 2011 5:33 AM GMT
    So, a week ago at the bar I saw this guy who had been eying me all night. He was kind of cute, but I'm kind of shy when I'm out and about and I usually wait for people to come up to me. So I saw him at the bar ordering a few drinks and I told myself "hey, just make a move..." and next thing I know, I walked right up to him, leaned up against the bar casually and said "hey" in a semi flirty way. He ended up buying me a beer and we got to dancing. Later I come to find out that he's a creeper, but that's beside the point.

    I'm usually the chasee, only because I lack the motivation confidence to pursue a guy I'm interested, but now that I've built up my confidence a little bit, it's kind of fun being the chaser... and I think I plan to do it a little more. icon_wink.gif
  • eddieross69

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    Feb 22, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    I find a guy I'm interested in, and visually flirt. I tend to wait for them to approach me. But I'm usually the one who hunted the prey so I guess that makes me a chaser.