honestly, what is to say he doesnt already know?
It is totally about HOW you ask someone something and not WHAT you ask them.
I came out to mine, and he was happy for me. The funny thing was I obtained a copy of his notes for an evaluation and I read some of the notes he wrote.
he didnt make any judgments but he did make notes that I apparently questioned romantic interest. HAHAHahaha....so apparently he was asking the right questions.
Looking back 10 years, I now see some of the 2+2=GAY and I laugh. I wasnt ever obvious but some things really pointed to the fact that I wasnt wasting my time trying to impress girls. My religious upbringing is probably the only thing that kept me from exploring any other possibilities.
oh yea, and if your going to tell her, use a less technical term than homosexual, it makes you sound like a republican politician..LOL