Why are so many hot guys single?

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    Feb 22, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    So, I was looking at a guy's profile on here. He is 32, white, gorgeous and one of his photos has 60 (yes, 60!) comments about him. And when you scroll down to his profile status it says 'Single'. Yikes, what hope is there for the rest of us?!
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    Feb 22, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    Cue violins......

    The hope lies within each of us. To get past the superficial, the skin, the surface stuff, to delve deeper into what makes him tick and what makes us tick....It is within each of us......


    Ok seriously....Maybe he hasn't updated his profile and may in fact not be single or he is single, but definately mingling and hasn't made his choice. Where is it written that someone we 'HOT' has to be questioned as to why he isn't with anyone? Or should be with someone?

    And as to the rest of us? Yea some of us are the 'average' or 'ordinary' looking ones. So what. We are also 'hot' to others as well. Do we all want someone who we think is hot? Or who EVERYONE ELSE thinks is hot? Probably. Should we be looking for more than that? Most likely, otherwise we are destined to be wondering 'about the rest of us' for a long time.
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    Feb 22, 2011 11:11 PM GMT
    because they're busy being whores.
  • mizu5

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    Feb 23, 2011 12:13 AM GMT
    I'll say this.

    I'm cute. Nothing special, but I'm no troll.

    Everyguy that is "attractive" or "gorgeous" Or whatever very positive word you want to use, always ends up being a cunt to me.

    At abrs they ignore me or make comments. When I've dated the few of them they have either cheated on me, or left me for someone else.

    Plus a lot of guys whoa re really attractive simply think they are god's gift.

    NOW obviously not all, I'm only speaking from personal experience.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    First do people have to be in a relationship to be happy? Maybe people have been in relationships and are taking a break or just don't want to be in one at that point in their life. Or maybe it's equally hard for anyone to sort through the obnoxious people that would use someone for their body and attractiveness for a quick lay and to find the people they want to hang out with?

    Just some thoughts to think about. Just because someone is attractive and single doesn't mean that 1) they're bad people or 2) want to be in relationship or 3) have an easier time sorting the douches from the gems.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidSo, I was looking at a guy's profile on here. He is 32, white, gorgeous and one of his photos has 60 (yes, 60!) comments about him. And when you scroll down to his profile status it says 'Single'. Yikes, what hope is there for the rest of us?!


    Because relationships aren't based on looks alone. Shocker huh? icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:43 AM GMT
    Pfft- racist.

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    Feb 23, 2011 1:43 AM GMT
    Well I guess anybody who isn't white isn't considered gorgeous in your books. First off you probably don't know him well and he may be a cunt (like somebody else mentioned, by the way I love that word). Secondly some people don't like to settle in relationships, it doesn't mean that he can't actually find anybody. Thirdly, like aforementioned he may be a typical slut that doesn't like to settle down...and we know how prevalent that is amongst gay males. Yes sorry, I said it. It's true.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:44 AM GMT
    I'm more concerned about hot guys who think they're ugly. Self esteem issues may be one reason why they're single...?

    There's a ton of reasons why single "hot" guys are single, sometimes it's because they don't want a relationship/ know they aren't emotionally ready for one.icon_wink.gif Or he may have the outer covered but not the inner beauty... again there's probably a reason otherwise they would be taken by now.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:44 AM GMT
    NYMan saidFirst do people have to be in a relationship to be happy? Maybe people have been in relationships and are taking a break or just don't want to be in one at that point in their life. Or maybe it's equally hard for anyone to sort through the obnoxious people that would use someone for their body and attractiveness for a quick lay and to find the people they want to hang out with?

    Just some thoughts to think about. Just because someone is attractive and single doesn't mean that 1) they're bad people or 2) want to be in relationship or 3) have an easier time sorting the douches from the gems.


    Quoted for truth!

    Single + Attractive doesn't always = SLORE! The mere fact that someone can get laid easily doesn't mean that they are actually getting laid.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    Some guys have very specific standards about what they want in a partner. Not necessarily 'high' or 'low' standards, but rare to come across.
  • xKorix

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    Feb 23, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    Relationships are hard, you need much more than looks to make it work.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    I cannibalize my dates
  • Syphon

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    Feb 23, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    Because looks aren't everything.
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    Guys, I don't think he was intending to be racist, but merely just describing what he looked like. I know that the fact he put the words 'white and gorgeous' makes it seem that way...
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    Can I ask why being single is viewed as a problem? Maybe people like to get to know themselves or just simply don't want to be with someone at certain times in their lives...
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidI cannibalize my dates


    Mmmm, I love dates...
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:58 AM GMT
    Matty_WIP said
    Ariodante saidI cannibalize my dates


    Mmmm, I love dates...


    WRAPPED IN BEHCON
    CI0102_Stilton-Stuffed-Dates_lg.jpg
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    Feb 23, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
    inner_beauty_sounds_like_an_ugly_person_
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    Feb 23, 2011 2:02 AM GMT
    Well i'm joining the crowd that believes this gentleman has certain characteristics he looks for in a potential mate which may keep him single. But really a persons 'hotness' level should have nothing to do with judgment on their relationship status.
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    Feb 23, 2011 2:04 AM GMT
    Not all of the hot guys are single...just the ones who live too far away from me. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 23, 2011 2:06 AM GMT
    Profile says single but does not mean he really is, lots of guys on here just like to play games, then there are those assholes, then the ones who seem cool and nice till you talk for a bit and find out they are not worth your time, don't forget the cheaters and whores....lots of reason. Maybe they just got out of a relationship and not ready for a new one. Does confuse me as well.
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    Feb 23, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    i too would like a hot single guy
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    Feb 23, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidbecause they're busy being whores.

    Haha, so true. Different guy each week(day), I'll bet. icon_lol.gif

    This is, of course, an incredibly broad generalisation - there are always exceptions to the rule - but if one were gorgeous, had an astronomical libido and no social conscience, wouldn't one also be vying for the title of Slut-zilla?
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    Feb 23, 2011 2:19 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Matty_WIP said
    Ariodante saidI cannibalize my dates


    Mmmm, I love dates...


    WRAPPED IN BEHCON
    CI0102_Stilton-Stuffed-Dates_lg.jpg


    Are you trying to make me go back to being vegetarian?

    That picture is scary, Mig.