Is sex with prostitute that unsafe?

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    Feb 25, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    This might sound crazy, but I been thinking about this the whole day. I am 20 and still a virgin. I been waiting for the right guy and hoped my first time will be with someone special and romantic. But that doesn't seem to be happening and I'm turning 21 next month. I don't want to be a 21 year old virgin.

    So I was thinking that I'll have sex with a hooker on the day before my 21st birthday. Would that be unsafe? I will be using condom and all necessary precautions.
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:48 AM GMT
    Sweetie, don't lose hope. Your first boyfriend will come, but please don't resort to ridiculous ideas like that.

    You DON'T need to have sex. It will happen and be special when it is supposed to happen.
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
    oh child....how will you explain to your other half how you lost your virginity....if that day is to ever come...keep your hopes up, you'll find somebody....
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
    heybreaux said
    Why the hurry? What if you contract HIV or Herpes before you are 21? It could happen, especially with a prostitute regardless of precautionary measures. I wouldn't if I were you. There is no reason to hire anyone. Just be a little more patient. It is not going to kill you to turn 21 and still be a virgin.


    This ^
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    I'll put it this way for you. If you decide to have sex with a hooker and you get HIV or herpes, which don't go away, you will have it for the rest of your life and you will DRAMATICALLY drop your chances of getting laid after that because let's face it...not many guys are going to consent to having sex with someone with herpes. Keep your panties on and wait. Doesn't necessarily have to be the "perfect guy" but just don't make it someone who takes dick for a profession. Just something to think about.......or not. The choice is yours.
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    Just wait it out boo! Just wait it out! If you really want it to be with someone special then you need to wait for that special someone to come along. I doubt you really want it to be with someone special and have it be romantic if you're willing to have sex with a hooker. You sure as hell won't find him that someone special in an escort or prostitute. Besides, judging by your default, the minute you are allowed to enter a club being 21, there will be lines filled with men wanting to be your special someone.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    Oh buddy, you should never hire a hooker. But if your friend hire one for you as a bday present, then hey why not? lol just be safe and play safe.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    Have you seen the prices like comon, for the prices some of those nasty fucks want I could buy a case of fleshlights. Its really not worth it anyway you look at it even if you ignore everything else but the price tag.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    High end prostitutes are safer than a random hook-up at the bar/club/sites like this.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    i lost mine at 21 with the right person, im glad i did it that way, i wouldn't have minded waiting longer now that i think of it, just remember you always remember your first
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:07 AM GMT
    Sex is risky. Period.
    Prostitute or not. The risk of disease exists no matter who you have sex with.
    Just because a person chooses to be a sex worker, does not mean they have disease. Just because a person is NOT a sex worker, doesn't mean they are free of disease.
    Risk may be lower between two people, each of whom have never had sex.
    However, what if one of the "virgins" was born with HIV or some other STD?
    Different practices carry different risk.
    Frequency of sex and increasing numbers of sex partners increases risk.
    If you have no appetite for risk, then don't have sex.
    Have sex if and when you understand risk, apply any risk strategies, and accept any residual risk.

    The trick is to find a way to be a prudent and ethical slut. Or, just don't have sex.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    STD's bro. No way man. That guy has probably been literally around the world and could be carrying several strains of Herpes, HPV, Genital Warts and the big disease. After you cum, you'll be worrying for the next couple days about your health and every sniffle or sore throat will remind you of that time. Even if you're safe you'll worry, trust me.

    If you're trying to get it over with, just jump on one of the online websites and see if you can chat it up on there with a guy until you find one you are comfortable with and feel like he's the one. Just USE A CONDOM always.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    We established the fact that it is a dumb idea. But let's think of it another way. Let's say you don't care and want to do it anyway. Do you really want to have to explain to future potential boyfriends that you lost your virginity to a hooker? That would be a major turnoff to a lot of people. Sure you could lie, but is that a great way to start a relationship? This just has bad news written all over it.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    I love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

    Learn the difference between a hooker and a prostitute.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

    Learn the difference between a hooker and a prostitute.


    Then why don't you enlighten us oh wise one? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    Ooh, ooh I want to play devil's advocate.
    You hire a hooker, you stimulate the local economy. Why are so many of you against the entrepreneurial spirit? What are you, communists or terrorists?

    You'll have an interesting story to tell. "I gave up on finding love at 21 so I got a hooker for my first time." Unless someone else's first time is with an entire sports team or in space, you will have the most interesting story.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

    Learn the difference between a hooker and a prostitute.



    Why are you aspiring to be one? lol I kid, i kid
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    Only if you hire Belle de Jour. icon_surprised.gif
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

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    Bingo! And, I'm getting the sense from the stereotypes being painted in this thread of the sex worker as disease carrier, and the sex worker as a person who would be a lifetime shame to have first sex with.

    "Judgement" is just seething in this thread.

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    Feb 25, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

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    Bingo! And, I'm getting the sense from the stereotypes being painted in this thread of the sex worker as disease carrier, and the sex worker as a person who would be a lifetime shame to have first sex with.

    "Judgement" is just seething in this thread.



    Agreed here. The idea that even if your safe you would worry is bullshit. Here are some facts. If your a bottom and you have unsafe sex with an HIV positive man you have a 1 in 250 chance of getting infected. If you use a condom with an HIV positive man, that chance drops to one in a million. Virtually none. Worry all you want bitches but condoms work.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    KSUOWL said
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

    Learn the difference between a hooker and a prostitute.


    Then why don't you enlighten us oh wise one? icon_rolleyes.gif


    See here is my favorite part.
    If you had a sense of reality and not media I wouldn't have to.
    Anything I say would be just gargled down and drowned out by what the media portrays them as.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:38 AM GMT
    Metamorphosis saidi lost mine at 21 with the right person, im glad i did it that way, i wouldn't have minded waiting longer now that i think of it, just remember you always remember your first


    hmmm..., eventually you forget...
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

    ...


    Bingo! And, I'm getting the sense from the stereotypes being painted in this thread of the sex worker as disease carrier, and the sex worker as a person who would be a lifetime shame to have first sex with.

    "Judgement" is just seething in this thread.



    The kid has been waiting for that special someone. We just think he shouldn't give up and go seek out a hooker.

    And yeah, I would be ashamed if I lost my virginity to a hooker. I wouldn't enjoy telling future boyfriends about that. But, its how I feel and it isn't going to change.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    mnboy said
    KSUOWL said
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

    Learn the difference between a hooker and a prostitute.


    Then why don't you enlighten us oh wise one? icon_rolleyes.gif


    See here is my favorite part.
    If you had a sense of reality and not media I wouldn't have to.
    Anything I say would be just gargled down and drowned out by what the media portrays them as.


    Woah why the insults? I honestly wanted to know. My eye rolling is just me being a smartass. I figured you could take it...
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:42 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    GAMRican said
    mnboy saidI love how naive all you guys are. icon_lol.gif

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    Bingo! And, I'm getting the sense from the stereotypes being painted in this thread of the sex worker as disease carrier, and the sex worker as a person who would be a lifetime shame to have first sex with.

    "Judgement" is just seething in this thread.



    Agreed here. The idea that even if your safe you would worry is bullshit. Here are some facts. If your a bottom and you have unsafe sex with an HIV positive man you have a 1 in 250 chance of getting infected. If you use a condom with an HIV positive man, that chance drops to one in a million. Virtually none. Worry all you want bitches but condoms work.


    what are your sources? I really dont trust internet forums advice