hook up 101:i got the hot guy's number. what do I do next?

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    Feb 25, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    Okay long story, but here it goes:

    i recently started working out at a new gym and for the past weeks i've been bumping into this hot guy that i'm really into.

    The first day I met was entering and as we crossed each others path, we both literally stopped and stared at each other for a few seconds. for the next few weeks I'd see him once a week and we'd always secret glance at each other. Because of the mirrors in the gym, i could always tell if he was looking at me when he thought I wasn't watching.

    Another day I was walking into the locker room and he was just getting out of the shower and he made a point of standing around and showing his body to get my attention. at that point I really wanted to talk to him but I was late for my kick boxing class so I had to rush out. I also didn't want him to see my erection.

    Anyway, I finally walked up to him and asked him to spot me and I started asking him for training tips since he's so cut. i asked him for his number so that we can workout together in the future but what i really want to do is hook up with him.

    I'm already sure that he's into me but I've never done this before so now what i want to know is now that I have his number what do I do next when i call or text him so that we can hook up.
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    Feb 25, 2011 9:11 AM GMT
    Um....maybe I am making this too simple, but you got his number to hook up.....so call or text him set plans to hook up.
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    Feb 25, 2011 9:30 AM GMT
    Your post seems a bit too much like a stereotypical gay novel.

    And so I ask myself...


    Does shit like this really exist? Hahaha. With the validity of the OP in question... I'm going to say no.
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    Feb 25, 2011 1:15 PM GMT
    camille saidhook up 101:i got the hot guy's number. what do I do next?
    Go home, because getting the guy's name and number is the LAST step in a proper hook-up.
  • coolarmydude

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    Feb 25, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    Call him to workout together. That's what he thought giving you his name and number for. And as you get to know him better, then maybe you can ask him out.
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 25, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    He gave you his number that means he wants you to actually call him. So call him. It's as simple as that. Ask him if he wants to work out together, and maybe grab a bite after if he's not busy. Very simple.

    I get the anxiety associated with this but just go for it, life is too short and you'll regret it if you don't. He'll end up thinking you weren't interested in him...you'll both end up missing out.

    Be excited, he likes you, now call him!
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
    i agree, take a chance and see what it leads to. don't guess about it, just get-together and see what happens next...if you guys develop a friendship or more or not, you'll find out...either way, you'll learn from it. and most importantly, just have fun!
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Feb 25, 2011 4:18 PM GMT
    camille saidO

    I'm already sure that he's into me but I've never done this before so now what i want to know is now that I have his number what do I do next when i call or text him so that we can hook up.



    What's this thing you call "A name" and "A number" before a hookup? icon_rolleyes.gif So is THIS what the world has come to???? icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Script:

    SCENE: Your bedroom. Some music playing in the background. YOU enter, sit down on the bed.

    YOU take out phone, bring up his number, hit CALL

    *brr brr* *brr brr*

    HIM: Hello?

    YOU: Hi, HIM, it's YOU. So what are you doing this weekend, do you want to meet up for a workout then go and grab a bite to eat somewhere after?

    HIM: Yeah, I'm free Saturday afternoon. What time?

    YOU: Shall we say, meet at the gym @ 5?

    HIM: Cool, see you then!

    YOU: Great, bye!

    END OF SCENE
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:24 PM GMT

    "Anyway, I finally walked up to him and asked him to spot me and I started asking him for training tips since he's so cut. i asked him for his number so that we can workout together in the future but what i really want to do is hook up with him."

    er, you guys, he asked for the phone number to make arrangements for working out together, and I think that's what he told the guy. The hook up thing is something that might happen, or it might not.

    camille, do you want just an hour or so of sex and then that's the end of it, or do you want more?

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    Feb 25, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    I agree, call him to workout with a mention of grabbing something afterwards. If he says yes to the workout but no to grabbing a bite, you might have your answer. If he says yes to both, a great way, in public setting, to learn more about him and see if his interests are paralleling yours.

    What ever you do, you'd better keep up informed. We're expecting regular updates on your progress. Without them, I'll find one of this big burly workout guys here to come find you and it won't be pretty! LOL
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    Feb 25, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    yeah.... you could always go the route to find out if he has a gf....

    "have any big plans this weekend?" or go to a sports bar and see if he checks out guys or girls. hmmm... many routes you can take. But def call him or text him.
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    Send him a picture of you in full leather regalia (bottomless leather chops, studded collar, crop, etc.). That will either induce a massive boner or send him screaming back into the closet.
  • massbuildah

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    Feb 25, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidSend him a picture of you in full leather regalia (bottomless leather chops, studded collar, crop, etc.). That will either induce a massive boner or send him screaming back into the closet.



    You might have to lend him some of that stuff tho... ;)
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    Feb 25, 2011 5:49 PM GMT
    post his number and a picture on here
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    Feb 25, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    Don't text him... It's better to call him, it means you're actually interested.
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    Feb 25, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    Call him...

    but are you sure he's gay?
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    Feb 25, 2011 6:18 PM GMT
    He's shown his interest in you as well as given youhis number so call him on the pretext of working out together. Maybe suggest to him that after the workout you go grab a bite to eat and spend some time talking about training etc. Let nature take its course
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    Feb 25, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    You could always just go with the classic "you wanna fuck?"
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    Feb 25, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    camille, do you want just an hour or so of sex and then that's the end of it, or do you want more?



    I'm a young, red blooded, horny guy with raging hormones and I'm unapologetic about it so an hour or so of hot sex is definetly what I'd like.

    But at the end of the day, if a friendship, relationship, training buddy, fuck buddy etc comes out of it then I'm cool with that too
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    Feb 25, 2011 7:58 PM GMT
    KSUOWL saidYou could always just go with the classic "you wanna fuck?"


    sigh.. if only I had the balls to do that
  • iHavok

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    Feb 25, 2011 8:03 PM GMT
    what happend to your last post?
    the trainer who couldn't keep his eyes off of you?
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    Feb 25, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidpost his number and a picture on here


    *nods excessively*
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    Feb 25, 2011 10:17 PM GMT
    iHavok saidwhat happend to your last post?

    the trainer who couldn't keep his eyes off of you?


    i ended up moving back home for a while and when I came back I found out he doesn't work there anymore icon_sad.gif

    I regretted that I never made a move that's why with this guy I ended up getting his number. didn't want anymore missed opportunity's
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    Feb 25, 2011 11:32 PM GMT
    Hook up or meet up? icon_question.gif