Spontaneous

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    Feb 26, 2011 6:22 AM GMT
    Let’s say you have been talking to a guy on here for a few weeks off and on, you find him attractive, smart, and generally the type of guy you like. He offers to send you a round trip plane ticket to come visit him for a weekend or so, would you do it. He’s not a psycho or anything just that type of guy. Traded numbers and talked on the phone and all that jazz.

    Know that I’m the type of guy who would. If he does not show at the airport then it’s cool I know how to get a hotel cheap and enjoy a place I’ve never been for a weekend. If he does show then I get to enjoy a place I’ve never been with someone who knows the city.

    Do I seem crazy or are there others guys who are just as spontaneous as me?

    No this has never happened but always wished it would!
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    Feb 26, 2011 6:44 AM GMT
    You never know who your with.......

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    Feb 26, 2011 12:06 PM GMT
    Hopefully you have a back-up plan if it doesn't work out and you've Skyp'ed or Cam with the guy.
    Yeah, I've done it, had a wonderful time; however, once back into reality he turned in to a possessive asshole who thought the financed trip meant we were married now and I took advantage of him. Careful what you wish for.
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    Feb 26, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!


    mean girls quote FTW lol totally got it
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    Feb 26, 2011 1:40 PM GMT
    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!


    WOW!!!
    Settle down killer.

    I say Go For It.
    If you are one of those people that can be spontaneous and be flexible with your trips and don't expect too much out of it, than what do you have to lose?

    Like you said, if he shows up and you have a wonderful time, great.
    If he shows up and he is psycho, go find a hotel and have a great weekend and enjoy a new city. He only has your email and phone number so stalking won't be a problem. Any threatening communication can be ignored.
    If he doesn't show up, again, find a hotel room and go enjoy the city.

    Lastly, none of us know how your conversations went. If you both talked and had an enjoyable conversation and it made more sense for you to go to his city vs him coming to your city (i.e. he lives in LA, you live in Paduca, KY), than I say "Go For It".
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    Feb 26, 2011 5:22 PM GMT
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    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!


    mean girls quote FTW lol totally got it


    Hahaha I loved that. I think people who haven't seen mean girls might think you are psycho hahaha
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Feb 26, 2011 5:25 PM GMT
    Post this again when it really happens.
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    Feb 26, 2011 5:28 PM GMT
    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!



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  • Ironman4U

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    Feb 26, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    I love being spontaneous. Use a little due diligence and have fun.
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    Feb 26, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    I would do it. You're a grown ass man, u can go do things if u want without other peoples permission.

    Yes, it is a little risky, obviously. However, he just might be a genuinely nice guy. It's only a weekend. I say go for it. I mean u find him attractive, u guys talked on the phone, etc. You're young, do it. Go see a new place if nothing else.

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    Feb 26, 2011 6:14 PM GMT
    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!


    Totally missed the quote...but also I'm still a college student, last semester whoot! so 1.) Live in a dorm 2.) I like to travel and see new places 3.) I know my area like the back of my hand and unless you are really into the outdoors your not going to have a good time (thats from expereince of plp who have come to visit me. 4.) Going to let the rest of the quote go since it's from a movie....
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    Feb 26, 2011 6:54 PM GMT
    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!
    ha awesome
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    Feb 26, 2011 7:10 PM GMT
    cold saidI personally wouldn't.

    But, why wouldn't he just use the money to buy himself a round ticket to wherever you lived? Is he that self important that he thinks you can just put your life on hold and fly to visit him. Why should Mr. Hypothetical get to stomp around like a giant, while the rest of us try not to get smushed under his big feet? What's so great about him? Hm? We are just as cute as Mr. Hypothetical. We are just as smart as him. People totally like us just as much as they like him. And when did it become okay for one person to be the boss of everybody, huh? Because that's not what Real Jock is about. We should totally just *stab* Mr. Hypothetical!


    so awesome!

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