How to talk to/get a crush's attention?

  • titojtd

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    Feb 26, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    I can usually figure things out like this on my own, but in this case I don't really know what to do icon_confused.gif .

    I'm living at college right now and I've recently started crushing on this one guy that I've seen around campus. I would love to talk to him, probably even ask him out, but as of now I only see him in passing icon_sad.gif . Besides me being lucky and having us being put in a context where we can talk, I feel like the only way I'd be able to talk to him is if I came up to him.

    While I don't necessarily have a problem with this, I don't know what I could use to start a conversation with. I've considered friending him on Facebook (I accidently learned his name a while ago) and talking to him that way, but I think that would come across as too creepy/stalkerish icon_eek.gif.

    Help??
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    Feb 27, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    Try speaking in tongues.
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    Feb 27, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    When you think of something and do get chatting remember this... People like talking about themselves so always steer your conversations in that direction and you'll probaby be fine. So in order to get started figure out some sort of question you can ask him about and take it from there.
    ie;; cool sneaks where'd you get them or do you like them blah blah blah.
    Just don't turn it into 20 million questions.
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    Feb 27, 2011 12:40 AM GMT
    Hello tends to work well for me ...

    Seriously though, I would forgo Facebook because it reeks of stalker and Is somewhat creepy. If you want to talk to him, introduce yourself via small talk. Compliment his shirt, if he's gay ... Bottom line; Don't make it any more difficult than it is; If you want to talk to him, strike up a conversation.