AndrewDavidAlexander saidAlright, so I've been out to gay bars quite a few times, but usually with friends. I've gone out a couple of times on my own, and I find it not too difficult to walk up to a guy and talk to him, but I have to work up the courage to do it first. If I think he's been checking me out too that always helps.
I was just wondering if there's like... some universal signs that I don't know that show someone that you're interested or not interested?
You are talking to an expert who played all the ropes before he got hooked on growing long hair and eating lots of jelly bellys.
What's with the shy approach? Gay bar equals gay scene equals less time to get them into bed. I took down every gay guy I wanted back when we had a popular club here in Laguna called the Boom Boom Room (you might of heard about it).
My first time there I played pool with every guy I wanted to have sex with and I GOT every single one of them while my standards were VERY high!!! I use to have short hair though and looked in my early twenties when I was really in my late twenties.
There's that aggressive side to you that comes out only if you set it loose. But, I must also warn you that success does not necessarily make you a winner. Most those guys including myself fell to becoming HIV positive and the sad Truth is that you give up your chance of having children someday.
This might not mean a lot to you but, unfortunately it did mean a LOT to me because I was bisexual and not homosexual. I had threw the second half of my life in the garbage can and now the only purpose I have to live is to remind or reveal that of someone elses dream.
You can take the whole cookie jar right now on the spot but, you cannot replace them once Mother nature knows they are missing. Enjoy your freedom but, be kind to your legacy because before disease came around ALL OF US once had the same freedom.
Peace to you brother and hit me up by PM anytime if you need to... My stance is probably the most unbiased you will get in this insane world we live in.