Gay bar flirtation etiquette?

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    Alright, so I've been out to gay bars quite a few times, but usually with friends. I've gone out a couple of times on my own, and I find it not too difficult to walk up to a guy and talk to him, but I have to work up the courage to do it first. If I think he's been checking me out too that always helps.

    I was just wondering if there's like... some universal signs that I don't know that show someone that you're interested or not interested?
    Any tips?
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:09 AM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander saidAlright, so I've been out to gay bars quite a few times, but usually with friends. I've gone out a couple of times on my own, and I find it not too difficult to walk up to a guy and talk to him, but I have to work up the courage to do it first. If I think he's been checking me out too that always helps.

    I was just wondering if there's like... some universal signs that I don't know that show someone that you're interested or not interested?
    Any tips?



    Just pull out your wee-wee, walk over to the other guy, bend him over and jam it in his butt.............oh.......oh wait......that's rape. icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:11 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidJust pull out your wee-wee, walk over to the other guy, bend him over and jam it in his butt.............oh.......oh wait......that's rape. icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:16 AM GMT
    Eye contact and a smile, this is so often where flirting begins. If you make eye contact with someone and you like, then hold the contact a bit longer than normal and make sure you show a genuine smile. If you get one back thats usually a good sign.

    Don't hold eye contact too long, that takes you from sincere and open to creepy in one... two... three... and we're there.
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:21 AM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander saidAlright, so I've been out to gay bars quite a few times, but usually with friends. I've gone out a couple of times on my own, and I find it not too difficult to walk up to a guy and talk to him, but I have to work up the courage to do it first. If I think he's been checking me out too that always helps.

    I was just wondering if there's like... some universal signs that I don't know that show someone that you're interested or not interested?
    Any tips?


    You are talking to an expert who played all the ropes before he got hooked on growing long hair and eating lots of jelly bellys.

    What's with the shy approach? Gay bar equals gay scene equals less time to get them into bed. I took down every gay guy I wanted back when we had a popular club here in Laguna called the Boom Boom Room (you might of heard about it).

    My first time there I played pool with every guy I wanted to have sex with and I GOT every single one of them while my standards were VERY high!!! I use to have short hair though and looked in my early twenties when I was really in my late twenties.

    There's that aggressive side to you that comes out only if you set it loose. But, I must also warn you that success does not necessarily make you a winner. Most those guys including myself fell to becoming HIV positive and the sad Truth is that you give up your chance of having children someday.

    This might not mean a lot to you but, unfortunately it did mean a LOT to me because I was bisexual and not homosexual. I had threw the second half of my life in the garbage can and now the only purpose I have to live is to remind or reveal that of someone elses dream.

    You can take the whole cookie jar right now on the spot but, you cannot replace them once Mother nature knows they are missing. Enjoy your freedom but, be kind to your legacy because before disease came around ALL OF US once had the same freedom.

    Peace to you brother and hit me up by PM anytime if you need to... My stance is probably the most unbiased you will get in this insane world we live in.
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:23 AM GMT
    I don't wanna fuck everyone in the bar I just wanna meet someone offline for once. icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    If he crosses his fingers and licks it frantically he wants to rim your manwich.
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:29 AM GMT
    boulderic saidIf he crosses his fingers and licks it frantically he wants to rim your manwich.
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    OMNOMNOM
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:31 AM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander saidI don't wanna fuck everyone in the bar I just wanna meet someone offline for once. icon_neutral.gif


    It's not hard... You are intellectually gifted like a new trend, and an old one... It might be sort of Freddy Goes To Hollywood but hey, if that is in for you then it is in for all of us too.

    If only I could convince you how easy it is to get what you want at your age but, at the same time the danger is to be understood. Society is worse now about protective sex than it ever was... I just don't want to see you lose out on your youth like I did. The gamble is fun but, eventually you lose.

    I can also tell you there is no reason to fear rejection when you are your age... Throw your personality in there and you got the fish on the hook without even knowing it. Have fun, it is not hard to find.

    Don't ever disrespect your body once you find out that this REALLY IS your playing ground... It's not fun to grow old instead of grow up. I would LOVE to have my innocence back but, it is gone at least for the most part in this lifetime.

    I don't mind setting the lion loose, I just hope you come back to us in one piece my little brother!!!
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:33 AM GMT
    lmao andrew i must say your gifs and photoshop antics are quite entertaining! welcome to the forums icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:35 AM GMT
    Always pack some roofies....just in case....
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:40 AM GMT
    Metamorphosis saidlmao andrew i must say your gifs and photoshop antics are quite entertaining! welcome to the forums icon_smile.gif
    ahaha thankyou!
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    Feb 27, 2011 9:54 AM GMT


    Eye contact and once that is made, write your name on the guy's forehead to claim him as Yours....for the night at least icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 10:18 AM GMT
    cold saidSounds like you're 10 steps ahead already...
    A new person was introduced to me on Friday night and I accidentally insinuated that they were boring; and by insinuated I mean I actually said 'boring'. I felt awful.
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    It's ok bb, I bet you kept it fresh and fierce.
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    Feb 27, 2011 10:32 AM GMT
    JJCrush saidEye contact and a smile, this is so often where flirting begins. If you make eye contact with someone and you like, then hold the contact a bit longer than normal and make sure you show a genuine smile. If you get one back thats usually a good sign.

    Don't hold eye contact too long, that takes you from sincere and open to creepy in one... two... three... and we're there.


    Something to be learned here.
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    Feb 27, 2011 10:49 AM GMT
    cold said
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    cold saidSounds like you're 10 steps ahead already...
    A new person was introduced to me on Friday night and I accidentally insinuated that they were boring; and by insinuated I mean I actually said 'boring'. I felt awful.
    (lulz)


    It's ok bb, I bet you kept it fresh and fierce.


    I should have just busted out an air-grind on the spot - it would have made things a whole lot less awkward.
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    yea gurl then they woulda been like
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    and you would just be like
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    Feb 27, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    LOL I'm in love with the black woman

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    Feb 27, 2011 11:41 AM GMT
    Hahaha nice replies fellas.

    I'd say you just got to play it cool and give him extended looks while talking to friends or walking by. He'll know straight away that you're interested if you look at him with more intensity than you'd look at a piece of fruit in the supermarket. If he's interested he'll return to looks back. In my experience that is better than walking up out of the blue because by looking at him and flirting with your eyes you're sending a signal that you like what you see. It is taken as a compliment.
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    Feb 27, 2011 1:29 PM GMT
    This is a great Post guys! very helpful and entertaining... lol
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    Feb 27, 2011 1:34 PM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander saidI was just wondering if there's like... some universal signs that I don't know that show someone that you're interested or not interested?
    Any tips?
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    Feb 27, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    Just one tip: If somebody you like offers to buy you a drink, accept it.

    Many years ago, I was at a club, dancing with this hot guy... He asked if I wanted something to drink -- and because I wasn't thirsty, I said no. I had no clue that was the universal sign of him being interested... icon_redface.gif

    Yeah, I got no game. Still don't.
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    Feb 27, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    AndrewDavidAlexander saidI was just wondering if there's like... some universal signs that I don't know that show someone that you're interested or not interested?
    Any tips?
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    Great tip. Gotta keep it subtle! icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 28, 2011 1:03 AM GMT
    If you blow chunks and he comes back, he's yours. But if you spew and he bolts, then it was never meant to be.
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    Feb 28, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    Ahah andrew, jsut hit up woodys and smile. Ebing talla nd bearded they will love you. OH And don't dance, they hate that there. Even though they play music and have drag shows. LOL
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    Feb 28, 2011 4:38 AM GMT
    Rule of thumb for me at least is if you catch me staring more than once or if you get one of those long stares where you can actually see the color of his eyes in a dark club, then its usually a give away.

    *Disclaimer* I'm usually a total prude when it comes to getting too close to people I have just met. I have never actually slept with anyone I met in a bar/club...