How dominating are you or do you like to be with your partner/ bf?

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    Feb 27, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    For all the tops, do you like to be real dominating or no?
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    Feb 27, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    I like it to be equal and interchangeable.

    I like the idea that at any given moment either one of us can flip the script and become the more dominant one, and yet, the other still not to become docile, but an active and eager recipient.

    Hmmmmm good times icon_cool.gif

  • safety43_mma1...

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    Feb 27, 2011 11:17 PM GMT
    if they want me to be sure i would be but i also like to bottom so u better be willing to return it also.icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 28, 2011 12:09 AM GMT
    For vers guy, when i do bottom i like my top more dominating. I do the same when I top.

  • Feb 28, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    Wow--awesome to see so many dudes 100% versatile...when you find the right dude you have that kind of chemistry with, flipping back and forth is extremely hot and can be very intense.

    And yeah, I dig being somewhat dominant, but only if the dude I'm with gets off on that...and I enjoy being a bit dominated if I ever bottom...best to discuss this sort of thing before you start messing around, though--just to make sure you're on the same page...lol...
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Feb 28, 2011 11:11 PM GMT
    Depending on my role, I play it out pretty much true to form.

    If I'm topping, then I call the shots and dominate. When I'm bottoming, then I like to be told what I can and cannot do.
  • handsoffire

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    Feb 28, 2011 11:14 PM GMT
    We trade off. I'm new to the whole verse thing and still getting my head in the game as it were. Flipping is so hot tho ;)
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    Feb 28, 2011 11:19 PM GMT
    I personally like it when my girlfriend puts on her 10" strap-on.
    TOTALLY gets me hot. I love flipping! ;)
    Ahaha
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    Feb 28, 2011 11:20 PM GMT
    Depends on how dom they will let me get, can go from not dom at all to full on dom mastericon_twisted.gificon_exclaim.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 28, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    He does as I command.. no questions!

    Just kidding... actually he has a very dominating personality and since I can as well, it can be one of our issues.

    He never complains when I attack him sexually. Just remember, to assume a "dominating personality" means top is a major mistake.
    You can dominate and like to get screwed and vice versa, be someone who tops, but with a less than dominating personality.....

    We make the most of it!!

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    Feb 28, 2011 11:31 PM GMT
    Depends on the guy - some like to be aggressive bottoms and balk at the idea of being restrained or get into much kink beyond just heavy but vanilla sex.

    But a subby guy who enjoys being manhandled and wants to be my personal fucktoy... well, that *really* gets my dick hard. ;)
  • westdave

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    Mar 01, 2011 12:13 AM GMT
    I'm german american...enough said!

    I'm gentle and sensual....but can be very dominant if the situation is right...I usually wind up the top because of it. and am very rarely a bottom
  • nv7_

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    Mar 01, 2011 1:02 AM GMT
    heybreaux saidI try to dominate everything but the bedroom, which is not to say that I am not versatile in the bedroom; for some reason I just like to be directed, be observant, and be told what to do.


    Oh my. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    heybreaux saidI try to dominate everything but the bedroom, which is not to say that I am not versatile in the bedroom; for some reason I just like to be directed, be observant, and be told what to do.


    You and and probably a very large percentage of the gay population.

    Personally, I LOVE sub bots who get off on sub/dom role play in the privacy of the bedroom. There's nothing hotter than a jock begging to please and be pleased. Even hotter if the sub gets off on forced manplay. It makes me shiver with excitement!
  • thyrhone

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    Mar 01, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    for me!

    I preferred 2 be versa, but f they want why n0t.icon_smile.gif)
  • thyrhone

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    Mar 01, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    westdave saidI'm german american...enough said!

    I'm gentle and sensual....but can be very dominant if the situation is right...I usually wind up the top because of it. and am very rarely a bottom


    thats gud dude!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:48 AM GMT
    I like to be challenged by my man, but I'm not submissive. I don't get it when a guy advertises as "Dominant" seeking a "Submissive".

    If you need someone to be submissive than you must not be all that dominant!
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    Mar 01, 2011 2:00 AM GMT
    sdgman saidI like to be challenged by my man, but I'm not submissive. I don't get it when a guy advertises as "Dominant" seeking a "Submissive".

    If you need someone to be submissive than you must not be all that dominant!




    Preach it!

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    Mar 01, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    I am 100 % versatile as in I will bottom and top with my partner. We both enjoy that and it feels so good to be vers.

    For dominating vs. submissive... we usually don't use those terms but
    in the bed, we can both be dominating and we can both be submissive.

    we are both men. bottom line.
    we treat each other as men and therefore, as equals in everything (or try to do so).


    And one more thing... I am VERY PROTECTIVE of my BF.

    anyone tries to do naughty things to him in public and I will rip them to pieces.
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    ...and he likes the fact that I have that mentality.
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  • Mar 01, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    DOMINUS said
    heybreaux saidI try to dominate everything but the bedroom, which is not to say that I am not versatile in the bedroom; for some reason I just like to be directed, be observant, and be told what to do.


    You and and probably a very large percentage of the gay population.

    Personally, I LOVE sub bots who get off on sub/dom role play in the privacy of the bedroom. There's nothing hotter than a jock begging to please and be pleased. Even hotter if the sub gets off on forced manplay. It makes me shiver with excitement!


    Totally with you there, bro..."forced manplay" roleplay/scene is extremely hot!

  • Mar 01, 2011 5:17 PM GMT
    heybreaux saidI try to dominate everything but the bedroom, which is not to say that I am not versatile in the bedroom; for some reason I just like to be directed, be observant, and be told what to do.


    Funny, I would have never assumed that..but now that I think about it--that's really hot! lol
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    Mar 01, 2011 6:00 PM GMT
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    DOMINUS said
    heybreaux saidI try to dominate everything but the bedroom, which is not to say that I am not versatile in the bedroom; for some reason I just like to be directed, be observant, and be told what to do.


    You and and probably a very large percentage of the gay population.

    Personally, I LOVE sub bots who get off on sub/dom role play in the privacy of the bedroom. There's nothing hotter than a jock begging to please and be pleased. Even hotter if the sub gets off on forced manplay. It makes me shiver with excitement!


    Totally with you there, bro..."forced manplay" roleplay/scene is extremely hot!


    Yea same here guys icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
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  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 01, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    My bf definitely likes me to be the in control daddy type icon_smile.gif I don't mind at all! I can definitely switch it up though when the chemistry is right.