My mom died last night

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    Feb 27, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    It's too hard to talk to anyone i know right now, so I'm posting here (where's there's a level of disconnect). She probably meant more to me than anyone else in this world. When I came out to her, her first reaction was, "Well, why the hell don't you like going shopping with me more?" I love you so much 'space lady'.


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    Thank you guys, this really helps beyond you can imagine.


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    Feb 27, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    My condolences and thankfully you had a mom that accepted you (not that mine doesnt)
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    Feb 27, 2011 5:34 PM GMT
    Oh, you are so young to lose your mother already. Very sorry to hear it. :-(
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    Feb 27, 2011 5:34 PM GMT
    Keeping you in my thoughts
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:05 PM GMT
    Very sorry to hear this. If you need any support, consider RJ your extended family.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    My condolences to you...icon_cry.gif
  • disasterpiece

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:16 PM GMT
    I feel very sorry for you. My sincere condolences...
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    Oh brother, my heart is breaking for you. Truly.
    Love and comfort and a huge, close hug to you, man.
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    r.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    Hi Mike

    So sorry to hear about your loss. Cherish your memories and lean on your family and friends for support.

  • needleninja

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    awwww, that was funny and awesome. i wish my mom would have said that to me too.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    Sorry about you lost. MY condolences.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:22 PM GMT
    Dude, there isn't much any of us can say that will make you feel better but my heart is with you.. She sounds like she was a class act. Hats off to her!
    There is no "right way" to grieve so do whatever you need to do.
    Peace bud
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:24 PM GMT
    I am really sorry for your loss.
    I hope that you feel better man.
    She sounded like a great person.
    She'll always be in your heart icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:25 PM GMT
    It's great that you had such a strong relationship with your mother. Many aren't so lucky. You are blessed.

    I know how hard it is, but try not to mourn too much. Her spirit is closer to you now than it has ever been.
  • fitdude62

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    Peace.....

    I cant imagine the pain...
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear of your mom dying. My thoughts and prayers are certainly with you.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    my condolences, Big hug. ...I lost my mom in June, I remember that day and the weeks following like it was yesterday. take care...
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    Know that she is in a peaceful place now and that she knows how much you love her in a way they she could not while on earth. Praying for your strength and comfort.

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:29 PM GMT
    I can't begin to imagine losing as close a relative as a parent.
    My condolences are with you.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:29 PM GMT
    you have my support bro. stay strong and remember that she's with you always. icon_smile.gif
  • gymrat1

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:31 PM GMT
    My mom is eighty....I think about her crossing over all the time. You have my sympathy icon_smile.gif............it may sound simple; but I don't really think they're gone....they've just moved on to another place- hopefully one that's better than what is here on earth.
  • CleveFriend

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:33 PM GMT
    My mom passed away, five years ago, at the age of 59. As much as it hurt to have to say "good-bye" to her, she's never really been far away. The pain you feel now is unbearable, I know, but it will subside. It may never go away, but you will replace the hurt with the memories of all the things she was to you icon_smile.gif She will always be there, you will always smile when you hear her voice in your mind, you'll spend time with her in your dreams, and she will always live on because you are here icon_smile.gif Hang in there, and remember, you are a part of her, and she will always be with you.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    sorry for your trouble.
    losing one's mom , especially when close to her is very hard.
    best wishes of courage and support through that grieving process.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    I'm very sorry to hear about this. She sounds like an amazing woman. icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    *feeling grief*

    Here's a hug for you.

    And here's to your Mom, who saying this, ""Well, why the hell don't you like going shopping with me more?", seems to me like the special kind of sweet gal who tells things as they are. She'd get a good laugh out of this song, I think, and I'm hoping it brings a smile within your sorrow.

    -Doug