Realjock, did I get the wrong impression when I joined?

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    Feb 27, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    Im dealing with something with this website.

    When I joined realjock some months ago, I was told by my brother/best friend that it was a site where people of all shapes and sizes can come together and help each other out with their goals, be it gaining weight, losing weight, whatever it may be. So far he was right, alot of the guys on this website have been very supportive. However, most have only been supportive about becoming this giant, huge, bulky, powerlifting, superman.

    I know I am not one of the cutest guys in the world or on this website. Most people on here seem to go for the white or asian guys with the big arms and shoulders and boyish faces. The smaller model types on here get web lusted over too, simply because their muscle definition is considered godly. This I dont mind. What I do mind is people emailing me telling me either to change my profile pic cause Im ugly, or telling me to gain a few pounds of pure muscle to look good, or (this is my favorite) telling me that they dont favor "black guys". Has anyone else on this website received such criticism? Is it just me or should I just take the hint and close down my account?

    Honest Opinions Please.
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:52 PM GMT


    "What I do mind is people emailing me telling me either to change my profile pic cause Im ugly, or telling me to gain a few pounds of pure muscle to look good, or (this is my favorite) telling me that they dont favor "black guys".

    Has anyone else on this website received such criticism?"


    Oh yes. Many have and we've read their topics about it, similar to yours. Block the unsolicited critique-ers. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 6:58 PM GMT
    seaguardian saidMost people on here seem to go for the white or asian guys with the big arms and shoulders and boyish faces.


    Asians? Really? I guess times are changing because so many 'Asian' guys have started up so many "Why don't xxxx guys like me?" threads before.

    I also can't imagine guys going out of their way to put you down- but I'm sorry they do- do you e-mail them first asking for 'something?'
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    Feb 27, 2011 7:02 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear that you've received such responses. I have been told before "sorry not into Asians" but not on Realjock. It's a bit hurtful and always leaves you to wonder if the next guy you like is or not into Asians... but you just have to tell yourself that those people aren't worth talking to in the end. Stand proud to be who you are.
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    Feb 27, 2011 8:07 PM GMT
    let 'em laugh, let 'em scorn........................fuck 'em.....................Keithicon_wink.gif
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    Feb 27, 2011 8:35 PM GMT
    microbiologist saidSorry to hear that you've received such responses. I have been told before "sorry not into Asians" but not on Realjock. It's a bit hurtful and always leaves you to wonder if the next guy you like is or not into Asians... but you just have to tell yourself that those people aren't worth talking to in the end. Stand proud to be who you are.



    They aren't.