what do you do ?????

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    Feb 28, 2011 10:47 PM GMT
    what do you do when your in the gym locker room and someone keeps staring at you while your changing or in the shower ... i just feel so awkward when some people watch me change icon_cry.gif
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    Feb 28, 2011 11:03 PM GMT
    As an entrepreneur, I would feel it's only appropriate to ask for money if they continue to stare.
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    Feb 28, 2011 11:21 PM GMT
    A cross the hot must drag....*sigh*
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    Mar 01, 2011 12:46 AM GMT
    I ignore it. Makes no sense aggravating yourself especially before a workout when you need all your energy, or after a workout when you're just too tired to get riled up.
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    Mar 01, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    ignore it however ackward it is and get out of there ASAP haha
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    Mar 01, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    Just do your thing, who cares about the audience hehe
  • builtofbrick

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    Mar 01, 2011 7:53 AM GMT
    Tell them to F*** off. if they dont notify staff. its not a place for that. i understand a glance, but outright gawking where it makes someone uncomfortable is not ok
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    Mar 01, 2011 7:53 AM GMT
    pee
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    Mar 01, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
    www.old-man-begone-spray.com
  • massbuildah

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    Mar 01, 2011 12:15 PM GMT
    It can definitely be awkward if the guy is creepy in any way but the fact is, he's only staring cause he likes what he sees.... Don't be afraid to show what you got...and you definitely got it. If he creeps him out, ignore him. If he becomes a pest, tell the staff.
  • Road89

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    Mar 01, 2011 12:22 PM GMT
    crazycool saidignore it however ackward it is and get out of there ASAP haha



    ^^That is my approach as well!^^

    I was swimming one day and saw a man watching me swim behind a glass window ( the joy of dark colored goggles). After my swim i went to the steam room and sauna area, downstairs. Low and behold here come the creeper - probably twice my age. everyone is in nothing but a towel, but they are decent. This guy tries to start convo with me and I'm really short with him, then he stops talking to much and starts to "stretch out" his legs, exposing is junk. The most disturbing gym time I've ever had, lol. I try to change away from people because I don't like for my body to be seen.
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    Mar 01, 2011 12:42 PM GMT
    I recently had a guy stare at me changing after my workout. He was outright and unabashedly staring. Fortunately, I had viewed his ass while he was on the elipticle and found it very enticing! I just kind of ignored him, went to shower and he was gone when I came out from the shower. It took me a couple weeks before I was able to catch up with him while we were both working out. Turns out he's an off season bodybuilder (just my type) and a very nice guy. He may or may not be gay, but I figure for him to be checking me out is just a compliment to my endeavors at the gym: Mutual admiration from one bodybuilder to another, if you will.
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    Mar 01, 2011 12:44 PM GMT
    tonylavon734 saidwhat do you do when your in the gym locker room and someone keeps staring at you while your changing or in the shower ... i just feel so awkward when some people watch me change icon_cry.gif



    Tell them to fuck off icon_wink.gificon_twisted.gificon_smile.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    i dont really care if they glance, but gawking ... i try to get away
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    Mar 01, 2011 11:13 PM GMT
    oh it's simple...just pass gas, turn and wink...they'll get the point while simultaneously grossing them out
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    Mar 01, 2011 11:21 PM GMT
    tonylavon734 saidwhat do you do when your in the gym locker room and someone keeps staring at you while your changing or in the shower ... i just feel so awkward when some people watch me change icon_cry.gif
    Pick your nose or scratch your ass hoping that no one else is watching. If you are lucky, the lurker isn't a freak who gets turned on by seeing others handle bodily necessities, but simply gets turned off enough to find someone else for his attentions.
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    Mar 01, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    What's the big deal? Just carry on and ignore the dude. His gawking aint gonna kill ya. Take it as a compliment that he thinks your hot.
  • FRE0

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    Mar 01, 2011 11:37 PM GMT
    I was very unnerved when it happened to me many years ago in the showers at the downtown YMCA in Minneapolis.

    A good looking black kid, with a huge erection and about half my age, persisted in staring at me as I showered. I dealt with it by pretending that I didn't see him, but of course it would have been impossible not to see him since he was using the shower directly opposite mine. Somehow, I managed not to get an erection myself, but it wasn't easy. When I turned my back to him, as an excuse to get a frontal view of me, he walked over to the door to the swimming pool and peaked out through it. A bit later, when I walked to the drying area, he followed me and stood about three feet from me, watching me the entire time. Then, he followed me to my locker, sat on a bench, and watched me dress. He maintained an erection the entire time. I don't know how anyone could have the nerve to act like that especially considering that there were other guys in the shower, etc.

    I'd guess that he was about 16 years old. If he'd been older, I might have been tempted to invite him home, but I wasn't about to become involved in any way with a kid that age.

    I found the entire situation very unnerving.
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:01 AM GMT
    FRE0 saidI was very unnerved when it happened to me many years ago in the showers at the downtown YMCA in Minneapolis.

    A good looking black kid, with a huge erection and about half my age, persisted in staring at me as I showered. I dealt with it by pretending that I didn't see him, but of course it would have been impossible not to see him since he was using the shower directly opposite mine. Somehow, I managed not to get an erection myself, but it wasn't easy. When I turned my back to him, as an excuse to get a frontal view of me, he walked over to the door to the swimming pool and peaked out through it. A bit later, when I walked to the drying area, he followed me and stood about three feet from me, watching me the entire time. Then, he followed me to my locker, sat on a bench, and watched me dress. He maintained an erection the entire time. I don't know how anyone could have the nerve to act like that especially considering that there were other guys in the shower, etc.

    I'd guess that he was about 16 years old. If he'd been older, I might have been tempted to invite him home, but I wasn't about to become involved in any way with a kid that age.

    I found the entire situation very unnerving.



    WOW THATS CRAZY
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:02 AM GMT
    Ooo man i would watch you all day icon_redface.gif
    Maybe he is into you icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:10 AM GMT
    tonylavon734 saidwhat do you do when your in the gym locker room and someone keeps staring at you while your changing or in the shower ... i just feel so awkward when some people watch me change icon_cry.gif


    They might be afraid you are looking at them. Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves when there are children born without limbs who have more guts than the average person? How can you enjoy life not being the center of attention when you finally get the chance TO BE the center of attention? Enjoy the moment just like you would by yourself. The hardest challenge for anyone both gay or straight is to enjoy the moment...
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    Upryte said
    tonylavon734 saidwhat do you do when your in the gym locker room and someone keeps staring at you while your changing or in the shower ... i just feel so awkward when some people watch me change icon_cry.gif


    They might be afraid you are looking at them. Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves when there are children born without limbs who have more guts than the average person? How can you enjoy life not being the center of attention when you finally get the chance TO BE the center of attention? Enjoy the moment just like you would by yourself. The hardest challenge for anyone both gay or straight is to enjoy the moment...


    wow mind blowing ... i like the way how you think