A funny pattern with hot guys.

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    Mar 01, 2011 8:33 AM GMT

    Do you ever meet a really attractive guy and in talking to him discover that he had some epic fail of a boyfriend in the past? It’s almost as if being hot necessitates that you at some point get into a relationship with a loser who treats you like crap. Every hot guy I meet seems to have a least one story like this;

    icon_cool.gif “Yeah, My ex was fat hairy and balding. He had stinky breath, skipped showers and cheated on me several times.”

    Average guys have crappy exes too, but they never seem to measure up the legendarily bad exes of the guys you find most attractive.
    How to these losers keep snagging the awesome men? Has anyone else noticed this as well?
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    Mar 01, 2011 8:35 AM GMT
    I'm sorry...but I didn't even read this thread. I just looked at your new pic and then got lost in your eyes and lips.........*garggle garggle garggle*

    I read your thread now...I think everyone has a "I was with an ugly dude" story. Not just hot guys....IMO.
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    Mar 01, 2011 8:44 AM GMT
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    Mar 01, 2011 8:48 AM GMT
    What is that a bunch of elaborate bacterium, or a Persian rug?
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    Mar 01, 2011 8:48 AM GMT
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    The title said "a funny pattern with hot guys". I guess that is... you?

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    Mar 01, 2011 9:03 AM GMT
    Disasterpiece said
    The title said "a funny pattern with hot guys". I guess that is... you?



    I'm that one squiggle over there. No not that one. That one.
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    Mar 01, 2011 9:27 AM GMT
    everyone who commented on this thread was on the cheescake and the zombie rescue team icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 9:37 AM GMT
    dekiruman saideveryone who commented on this thread was on the cheescake and the zombie rescue team icon_razz.gif


    No, JakeBenson wasn't.

    Plus, Andrew and Avadakedavra are missing.

    Check your facts, man, check your facts !
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    Mar 01, 2011 9:53 AM GMT
    Disasterpiece said
    dekiruman saideveryone who commented on this thread was on the cheescake and the zombie rescue team icon_razz.gif


    No, JakeBenson wasn't.

    Plus, Andrew and Avadakedavra are missing.

    Check your facts, man, check your facts !




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    Mar 01, 2011 12:46 PM GMT
    A friend of mine ( Michael ) who is pretty average looking like me, is now dating a hot guy ( Josh ). Michael is a VERY down to earth, genuine, caring person. He treats Josh the way he does everyone: with respect, LISTENS to what they say, makes mental notes of favorite songs/drinks/ future gift ideas, Josh never experienced this with a bf. Both Josh and Michael have been dating guys for years, so they are both not new at this. Josh told Michael the other day that he has NEVER been treated so well in his life by ANY boyfriend.

    I won't say that all hot guys attract only crap. I WOULD say that hot guys attract more than their fair share of guys who ONLY want sex and will easily, thoughtlessly move on to their next victim without batting an eye. Sad but true.
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    This is proof i'm sexy icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:35 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidHow to these losers keep snagging the awesome men?
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:38 PM GMT
    not all hot guys are amazing guys and i think is normal to find a fair share of bad experiences. It just happens.

    Not everybody's lucky enough to get the gold at the first try.
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:40 PM GMT
    I'm still waiting for my morbidly obese, musty smelling, fire breath, balding loser of a bf.....so I guess I'm doing something wrong? :i
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    Mar 01, 2011 1:45 PM GMT
    "Do you ever meet a really attractive guy and in talking to him discover that he had some epic fail of a boyfriend in the past?"

    Yes!

    I've met two different guys, both attractive (handsome ), professional, personable, very nice home(s), many friends, well traveled, definitely gym bods, mid to late 40's,,,,,and they each were in 10+ year relationships and their ex's were cheating on them, got into porno, and both got hiv. They each stayed with their partners for about 3 more years, helping the ex's with "stuff".....till they no longer could put up with the antics of the boyfriends.

    It's almost like these guys want drama in their life because the one ended up with a new bf.....with "issues"...... Oy Vey!

    It's like I want to say to them, "Pick me, I'm normal" LOL icon_lol.gif



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    Mar 01, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    You are totally right man some hot as hell guys i have talked here told me some things like that he cheated on them and stuff it was bad stuff and i was like icon_eek.gif how could a guy cheat on you when you are perfect i would never do it icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
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    Shit, that's hypnotic...

    *shakes head*
    Oh, and no, I haven't noticed that.
    That said, I don't think anyone I'm friends with would sit around trashing their ex's looks. Not the kind of person I'd sit around talking to in any case. Most everyone does have one or more ex disaster stories though. (Physical abuse, alcoholism, depression, incompatible fetishes, growing apart while being stuck together for months backpacking in china, etc.)
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    Mar 01, 2011 3:44 PM GMT
    I've thought of getting a tee-shirt that says, "I'm not your ex!"

    There are a lot of crazy stories out there.
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    Mar 01, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    Excuses to mask their own foul behavior. This is usually a result the same way a dog shits in his owners shoes when he leaves for wrk and feels abandon
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    Mar 01, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
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    I have a Paisley red skinny tie icon_smile.gif Glad to know you're a squiggle on it somewhere!
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    Mar 01, 2011 3:56 PM GMT
    I kind of doubt it's a pattern with just hot guys. I've had a bad experience/ex boyfriend, or whatever you want to call him. That being said i've never hit anyone or used that relationship as an excuse for any of my bad behaviour ;)

    I get what you're saying but i think it happens to more than just attractive guys icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 3:57 PM GMT
    dekiruman said“Yeah, My ex was fat hairy and balding. He had stinky breath, skipped showers and cheated on me several times.”


    That sounds like one of AvadaKedavra's exes. Is he who you're talking about?
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    Mar 01, 2011 4:02 PM GMT
    Maybe hot guys tend to exaggerate the negative points in their exes more than average looking guys do? It's been my experience that bitchiness rises exponentially with looks. icon_idea.gif
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    Mar 01, 2011 4:03 PM GMT
    I haven't noticed that as of yet... or I haven't picked up on it.

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    Mar 01, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    gee, all the hot, handsome men i know are in ltr's with equally hot handsome men.

    also ,some hot men are into scat, so being treated like crap is a bonus.