Whats the most romantic thing a man had ever done for you?

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    Mar 02, 2011 12:19 AM GMT
    I was trying to think of just one, or my favorite. Ive had some guys do some pretty special things for me, but romantic wise I think it was 2 christmas' ago.

    My ex bf didnt celebrate christmas nor was he found of public displays of affection. 2 christmas' ago he took me to a beautiful historical part of his city, we had a beautiful candlelit dinner at a small private place & then we walked up & down the street viewing all the beautiful home & their christmas decor & lights, then proceeded to a park with a pond & water fountain where there were many straight couples but he didnt care, he held my hand & even had his arm around me most of the time.

    It was a beautiful night that I'll never forget.
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    Mar 02, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    Made me an elaborate, delicious three course, candle-lit dinner, with a birthday present on the table to unwrap (Plato's III Lysus Symposium Gorgias icon_biggrin.gif) as a belated birthday treat.

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    Mar 02, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    alright so .... my boy made this for me:

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    -my name with letters in a frame-

    Love you babe! ....
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    Mar 02, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    broke my heart!
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    Mar 02, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
    Make me a wonderful dinner. It's sexy seeing a guy cook for you.
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    Mar 02, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
    A first date. He gave me a gift bag. The bag was FREEZING. I looked inside and there was an ice pack. I'm like wtf. I looked further and there was a package of raw bacon.

    I melted.

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    Mar 02, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    He treated me to a week at the Hotel Gansevoort in New York City where we partied almost every night and had me shop till I dropped. Then he flew me down to Tampa to meet all his old friends. He even surprised me to a really nice dinner and he invited an old school mate of mine who I was really good friends with without telling me. Best two weeks of my life.
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    Mar 02, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
    Many things, but one that pops into my head first was by my late partner. I came home around 4 PM, and he promptly commanded me not to enter the kitchen, but to watch TV in our bedroom until dinner was ready. OK, I understood he had a surprise planned.

    When called to table around 5:30, I find it's an exquisite Alaskan crab dinner, of fresh catch that same morning he had FedEx'ed to arrive by 3 PM. And we were living in Fargo, North Dakota!

    The crab arrived in a large metal cooking pot packed with dry ice, the pot ours to keep. Clearly the expense to move it so quickly, especially given the time zone difference with Alaska, must have been ruinous, much more than the value of the crab itself.

    A few months later he did the same thing again, only this time with whole Maine lobster. Romantic, or just plain love, I have trouble dealing with such affection shown to me. I want nor expect anything, so whatever I get is always surprising & overwhelming to me, no matter how simple.
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    Mar 02, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    We were walking down the street, and crossing the sidewalk. A car was turning left without a signal. I noticed it, but the guy I was walking with put his arm over my shoulder, as to protect me from the car. Made me swoon.
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    Mar 02, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    leave me voice messages every night/ morning and id wake up to themicon_cry.gif
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    Mar 02, 2011 5:38 AM GMT
    My guy has made me breakfast everyday since we've been together (1 month and 1 day. But who's counting?).
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Mar 02, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    Receiving a phone call at work or in a given stressful situation to just hear his voice say "I love you" or "I am just thinking of you" that was enough to make my day and distress me!


    Leandro ♥
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    Mar 02, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    Funny: It was actually a guy I had known from here.

    He was house sitting for the weekend and so he invited me to stay the night one night with him. He said it could be a nice chance to see each other. I honestly thought, just watching tv, possibly dinner, stay the night and leave in the morning. NO. I came in, he showed me the house, we put our stuff down then said that he wanted us to make dinner together. Great little meal and it ended up him showing me how to cook and me getting ingredients for him. Cute. Then we ate, he tried dimming the lights but there weren't dimmers so he turned on one light far away, hah. He told me to hold on while he left real quick. When he came back he played it off as if he went to use the restroom and we cleaned up the kitchen. After he suggested we go to bed. Funny thing was he made me close my eyes and hold his hand to go in. When I got in there it just couldn't stop smiling. He had rose petals on the bed and it was so sweet. We messed around of course, then he took me in the bathroom and we laid in the jacuzzi with rose petals and candles all around. Obviously the night went well for him.

    I know that is super "gay" and I sound like such a girl when I write it! I have just never had someone, even to this day, put that much effort into anything for me. Truly the most romantic a man has ever been with me! Whom ever he ends up with will have many of those moments! lol
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    Mar 02, 2011 6:27 AM GMT
    1) Put up with my bullshit

    2) Spent a holiday weekend helping me move (and this was only about two weeks after our first date). While I was finishing packing my last boxes he was bragging about me to my roommate's sister. I just about melted right then.
    It gets better. After we finished moving, we went out for sushi dinner and on the way to dinner he sang to me.
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    Mar 02, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    Just loving me unconditionally despite my fucked up, crazy self. I'm a simple guy despite all the external trappings, and I really don't need special things or acts of love to feel special.
  • tonio2

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    Mar 02, 2011 4:24 PM GMT
    50 roses for my birthday.
  • massbuildah

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    Mar 02, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    He recorded a Today show segment featuring an author of a book he thought might be of interest to me, as it pertained to my life. Later that day he went out and bought the book and read it. Just the thoughtfullness of a small act like that makes me melt.
  • neosyllogy

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    Mar 02, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    Remained close friends after I broke up with them.
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    Mar 02, 2011 4:59 PM GMT
    Ask me to marry him. I said yes. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 02, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
    My partner surprised me with weekend getaway at a B&B. He knew that I always wanted to go to one. The owners were gay-friendly and the room was spacious. After the many thank you's I presented him with, we were both exhausted..hehe!icon_wink.gif
  • BeerIsYummy

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    Mar 02, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    Um... I had a guy once pay me back part of the money he stole from my wallet. lol. In a way it was kind of romantic because he was a really scummy person and he liked me enough to feel sort of bad for taking my money.
  • Chackers

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    Mar 02, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    Ermine said1) Put up with my bullshit


    Love in its purest form~ icon_razz.gif
  • sumkindoflife

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    Mar 02, 2011 5:21 PM GMT
    i was in a long distance relationship with a guy living in MN, and i was living in FL.

    on the phone one night he asked me what was the most romantic thing a guy had ever done for me. i thought about it and really could think of anything, so i said "nothing."

    the next morning at 9am i was awoken by a knock at my door. i opened it to find a man standing there with 36 white roses. the card read "now you cant say that no man has ever done anything romantic for you." i almost fell over where i stood.

    i have no idea how in the hell he got them delivered so quickly or the cost he paid to have it done.....but, to this day, its still the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for me. and i still have the card tucked away.
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    Mar 02, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    massbuildah saidHe recorded a Today show segment featuring an author of a book he thought might be of interest to me, as it pertained to my life. Later that day he went out and bought the book and read it. Just the thoughtfullness of a small act like that makes me melt.


    Maybe because you put up with him and his madness and accept all of his crazy shit, and that's the least he can do for you
  • massbuildah

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    Mar 02, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    DOMINUS said
    massbuildah saidHe recorded a Today show segment featuring an author of a book he thought might be of interest to me, as it pertained to my life. Later that day he went out and bought the book and read it. Just the thoughtfullness of a small act like that makes me melt.


    Maybe because you put up with him and his madness and accept all of his crazy shit, and that's the least he can do for you.



    I accept all his shit, that makes him who he is and that's why I love him.