blactor saidThanks for all your reponses, guys. Its been a rough tim, and I ended up in hook ups. Online. I'm trying to get away from that now as it just makes me feel cheap and slutty. I think its due to loneliness and having repressed it for so long. I'm gonna try a gay sports team or something. The biggesr issue was that I've come from a christian background but I don't think there's anything wrong with being gay at all. I didn't choose it.
Thanks for all your messages, you all seem like cool guys.
CONGRATULATIONS on coming out! As some mentioned, the packet's in the mail and we pay dues monthly depending on the purpose and mission of the project. Fortunately, all proceeds will go to helping others dress well and working out for the better of the human race. To more important issues: coming out is the end of one time and the beginning of a new one. Did you ever move far away from a location for several years and return. It's a different perspective and feeling upon returning, right? If not, let me tell you change. Coming out is similar. The men on RJ have come out and survived. We all have different stories about the process, too. Some men came out without a scar, others did, and then, others fall into the somewhat scarred but not dead yet category. Overall, you're in positive company. It's not easy and trust us all when we say, IT GETS EASIER.
As a Christian myself, I have not found any reason why sexuality matters, so i'm happy you, too, have not beaten yourself up as a Chrisitan on this matter. Grow. Kiss. Love. We're all here building ourselves up and loving each other in the process.