Knowing that you do not love him at all, a guy who loves you wants to have sex with you. Would you do that ? Or under what circumstance you might have sex with him?

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    Mar 02, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    This is indeed an interesting question.
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    Mar 02, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
    This happens all the time where one is infatuated more than the other.....
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    Mar 02, 2011 7:24 AM GMT
    Hillie saidThis happens all the time where one is infatuated more than the other.....


    Have you ever...?
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    Mar 02, 2011 12:57 PM GMT
    It depends. If you are in a relationship, then that is a problem and you should just be straight up with him and end it. If not in a relationship,and you don't love him, then better not give the mouse the cookie. Cause you know he will ask for milk.
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:00 PM GMT
    Biguy711 said
    Hillie saidThis happens all the time where one is infatuated more than the other.....


    Have you ever...?


    Yes, shamefully said.....he was my Boyfriendicon_eek.gif
  • Hokenshi

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    Mar 02, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    Knowing he was in love with me but that I wasn't in love with him?...no (for a few reasons).
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    rjb2001 saidIt depends. If you are in a relationship, then that is a problem and you should just be straight up with him and end it. If not in a relationship,and you don't love him, then better not give the mouse the cookie. Cause you know he will ask for milk.


    Do not you think that might hurt him?
    Would not that get you involved in a bigger trouble?
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    Hillie said
    Biguy711 said
    Hillie saidThis happens all the time where one is infatuated more than the other.....


    Have you ever...?


    Yes, shamefully said.....he was my Boyfriendicon_eek.gif


    Which means he was in love with you but you did not love him ?
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    Mar 02, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    "Toot it and boot it" -YG
  • fitdude62

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    Mar 02, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    I've had this happen more tha once but usually me in love and the other just wanting sex......I always give in.....lol

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    Mar 02, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    Yep its happened....

  • shirty

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    Mar 02, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    I did that with my ex 9 months after we broke up... It's not sustainable. Only complicates things further!
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    Mar 02, 2011 3:04 PM GMT
    Yup. I'd pump and dump and then get a restraining order.
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    Mar 02, 2011 9:14 PM GMT
    Yes I have and yes I would.
    I would not if I thought that having sex would make him think that sex would leave to a relationship, if I wasn't interested in a relationship.
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    Mar 02, 2011 9:23 PM GMT
    Been there; done that; got paid. icon_twisted.gif
  • rebelbeard

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    Mar 03, 2011 12:48 AM GMT
    No, the guilt would eat me up. I would feel terrible!
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    Mar 03, 2011 12:51 AM GMT
    Nope.......not if i knew that he felt something and i didn't. i may be pretty easy and have the moral turpitude of an alley cat, but i draw the line at hurting people.
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    Mar 03, 2011 1:05 AM GMT
    Biguy711 said
    rjb2001 saidIt depends. If you are in a relationship, then that is a problem and you should just be straight up with him and end it. If not in a relationship,and you don't love him, then better not give the mouse the cookie. Cause you know he will ask for milk.


    Do not you think that might hurt him?
    Would not that get you involved in a bigger trouble?


    I think honesty is more important rather than if it will hurt him. Last thing you want to do is drag out something thats not. Thats why they call it the "Ugly Truth".
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    Mar 03, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    It would be pretty shitty for me to give him hope if I had no feelings whatsoever for him. If he loved me and I absolutely without a doubt wasn't into him at all then we'd just be friends.

    I typically don't have sex with guys I have no feelings at all for or think there's no potential for more so if I did have sex with said guy it would be because there was at least a glimmer of attraction and/or feelings.
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    Mar 03, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
    As much fun as sex is, I feel like this would be so horrible to lead someone on if you KNEW that they had feelings for you. Being in a relationship is a whole different story...that's just flat out cheating and disrespectful. I have unfortunately done this and also been on the other end of it. It's not fun, you shouldn't do it.
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    Mar 03, 2011 2:21 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidBeen there; done that; got paid. icon_twisted.gif


    Haha Cracking up! lol
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    Mar 03, 2011 2:24 AM GMT
    Okay, gurl, let it go. Honestly, have some self respect. Unless you just want him to fuck you, then there is nothing else there.

    Reading your responses, you're obvi emotionally attached to this person who is nothing but an asshole. He's just not that into you, sweetie.

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    Mar 03, 2011 2:33 AM GMT
    luvitohateit saidOkay, gurl, let it go. Honestly, have some self respect. Unless you just want him to fuck you, then there is nothing else there.

    Reading your responses, you're obvi emotionally attached to this person who is nothing but an asshole. He's just not that into you, sweetie.

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    Thanks for your advice, but I am not emotionally attached to someone, at least now now .

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    Mar 03, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    No way, what goes around comes around. Prolonging a messed up situation just for sex,knowing how he feels about you makes you a douche bag!
  • tuffguyndc

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    Mar 03, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    i would not have sex with them because they think that you may want more