Can someone please explain to me what the hell everyone's issue is with wrestling???

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    Mar 02, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    Ok, So Im not your average gay male, I don't even know if Im what webster would define as gay. However, I do enjoy wrestling...and I enjoy wrestling guys while their in socks. Its a slight fetish in terms of, the only way I get hard is if were both in socks, however im not gonna spend the whole match with your feet in my face, I jus think the whole socks thing is sexy, idk why,(as well as smells, and pits etc, but thats not necessarily a necessity) I've been like this since I was a kid, whatever, idk why, but I've finally accepted that when it comes to Human Sexuality, I was born defective. Their is other "crazy" stuff that turns me on too, like football, but I also kno thats mainly because of the socks. All in All, im turned on by rough male physical contact with this particular type of gear. No sex, No sexual exhanges etc...im not turned on by that, idk why, but im jus not. Now this is gear and activities that "normal" people wear and participate in on the daily basis...right?

    So WHY is it whenever I mention it, or try to find a partner who may enjoy these things ppl look at me like Im Hannibal Lector....meanwhile therr are thousands of resources for Leather and Bondage, Dominatrix, Feet, Transgender...etc. But Im the Devil because I like to wrestle and see men in crew socks??...I don't understand. Escorts don't even respond to me sometimes(is it that bad, to the point where you wouldn't even do it for money??)

    I was a part of several wrestling sites, and the only ppl who messaged me were dudes older than my grandfather....so im done with those.

    Is finding a partner or somone around my age who's into these things as well...or doesnt mind them, perhaps, impossible??...Im beginning to think im the only male in the world like this...literally. Mental Defects suck!!!..and not being able to excercise a fetish is even worst
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    Mar 02, 2011 8:52 PM GMT
    You are sooo wrong about this.... I personally know lots of guys, quite a few right here on RJ who are very into wrestling. I don't do it...but I DO know plenty of guys closer to your age that really get into it.
    You're not looking hard enough....
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    Mar 02, 2011 9:46 PM GMT
    You're in Miami and can't find guys into wrestling?
    Dude, you need to get out more!
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    Mar 02, 2011 10:13 PM GMT
    Its answers like these that leave me confused. I mean, no offense, I appreciate the responses, but everyone says young guys love wrestling....its natural for young men to want to fight etc. But on Global Fight....Im one of the youngest if not the youngest regularly active member.I've posted several craigslist Ads..in which I got NO responses....and then recently I hit a new all time low, in which I actually offered to pay ppl...and they still weren't interested!!!!.

    But then I hear ppl say things like what the 2 guys above me said...and I see tons of guys my age wrestling on youtube.

    But if their not online, then how do they meet each other???...is their some sort of network that idk about? and I hate to say it, because its 2011 which means it shouldn't be an issue, but sometimes I do think my racial background has a lot to do with it, which is disgusting...I come from a racist hispanic family who won't even accept that their Black, Racism against any one..white on black...black on white...hispanic on asian...etc. INFURIATES ME more than anything else....and what disturbs me, is racist ppl...who truly believe they aren't....lets not get sidetracked though.

    Yea, I know Im in Miami....but if I get no responses on craigslist...globalfight..and escorts (who dont kno what i look like)...won't even respond...then how do I find ppl??? I would think it would be a easier task to find a fighting partner as oppposed to finding someone to tie me up in chains...and burn my nipples(not that something is wrong with that)...but I guess not.
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    Mar 02, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Is it just wrestling or wrestling someone while wearing socks that others are having a problem with?
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    Mar 02, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    Caslon17000 saidIs it just wrestling or wrestling someone while wearing socks that others are having a problem with?


    Yes!...I tell ppl no sex, no sexualy oriented stuff, granted Im gonna get hard, but thats it. All I want to do is fight/wrestle/roughouse in socks....but apparently no one is into that....or the ppl who are, are all invisible or 75 years old.
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    Mar 02, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    SpanishFly1988 saidYea, I know Im in Miami....but if I get no responses on craigslist...globalfight..and escorts (who dont kno what i look like)...won't even respond...then how do I find ppl???
    Hang out with people who work in the gay adult/fetish industry. "They" know people...because they hire them. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 02, 2011 10:55 PM GMT
    SpanishFly1988 said
    Caslon17000 saidIs it just wrestling or wrestling someone while wearing socks that others are having a problem with?


    Yes!...I tell ppl no sex, no sexualy oriented stuff, granted Im gonna get hard, but thats it. All I want to do is fight/wrestle/roughouse in socks....but apparently no one is into that....or the ppl who are, are all invisible or 75 years old.

    Ok, let me understand.

    You only get your sexual groove on when wrestling someone in socks. But, I suppose, to reassure others, you tell them that you just want to wrestle them in socks, but you wont try to pull any sexual hanky-panky, just prolly sprout a woody. And the response to this is that nobody wants to wrestle you except grandpa who will jump at the chance to wrestle anybody anytime.

    Is that right?

    And you want us to perhaps explain to you why younger people react the way they do?
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    Mar 02, 2011 11:15 PM GMT
    what do u mean?....I've heard straight guys get boners while wrestling too...so why should it be any different for anyone else?? andd many younger ppl are MUCH MORE sexually explicit than the older ones. I just want to wrestle...and I may..MAY get hard (I've wrestled a few dudes already...and nothing happened..however Im assuming its because I didnt find them in the slightest way attractive..and they were all at least 15 years older than me)


    Im a male, who likes to wrestle in socks, I may get a little hard (which is natural for both straight and gay guys a like) but thats it, Im not looking for any type of sexual encounter whats so ever
    <----is this really that weird ??...like im still missing whats so wrong or taboo with the statement...especially to someone who is bi or gay.

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    Mar 03, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    There a lot of guys who like to wrestle, but I would guess that the sock fetishists are a small subset of the wrestlers, and that the wrestling sock fetishists who don't want anything sexual to happen (other than getting turned on) are, as a group, pretty much nonexistent. You might want to ease up on one or more of your requirements if you want to find an activity partner.
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    Mar 03, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    Oh, you're not looking for a sexual encounter. That explains it.
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    Mar 03, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    SpanishFly1988 saidwhat do u mean?....I've heard straight guys get boners while wrestling too...so why should it be any different for anyone else?? andd many younger ppl are MUCH MORE sexually explicit than the older ones. I just want to wrestle...and I may..MAY get hard (I've wrestled a few dudes already...and nothing happened..however Im assuming its because I didnt find them in the slightest way attractive..and they were all at least 15 years older than me)


    Im a male, who likes to wrestle in socks, I may get a little hard (which is natural for both straight and gay guys a like) but thats it, Im not looking for any type of sexual encounter whats so ever
    <----is this really that weird ??...like im still missing whats so wrong or taboo with the statement...especially to someone who is bi or gay.


    Ok, I dont understand why you tell people you might get a little hard, since it seems to come with the territory. And do you have to tell people you are going to be wearing socks? Why cant you just ask to wrestle and leave it at that? I guess I am confused how the woody, socks, and wrestling all come together to be a problem.
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    Mar 03, 2011 1:49 AM GMT
    well I have to tell them because I want them to wear socks too
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    Mar 03, 2011 6:13 AM GMT

    Actually, the more you say...the more I understand what the problem is...
    and it seems to be YOU.
    Your "wish list" is far too restrictive.
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    Mar 03, 2011 6:21 AM GMT
    You're welcome.

    http://personals.globalfight.com/main.htm
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    Mar 03, 2011 6:50 AM GMT
    You have a strange fetish. For most guys the wrestling is the 'gimmick' just like leather is a 'gimmick' for others. The 'gimmick' is what gets guys together in the first place and then gets them sex.

    Unfortunately, you're offering guys the 'gimmick' but not the sex. That's why you're not having any luck.

    I like wrestling but only if it's a prelude to sex. What's the point of just wrestling? You might as well be straight.
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    Mar 03, 2011 6:51 AM GMT
    I don't understand how that is restrictive, I want to wrestle someone and I want them to wear socks....

    There are wayyy more "restrictive" fetishes out there than that
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:02 AM GMT
    dude if you put "loser sucks winners cock" you might get some more guys interested....and this will be a challenge for you not to actually loose...problem solved.

    and the whole sock thing, yeah it can be sexy...but dont let it be the only thing...is one of those things that the whole worlds does need to know...maybe when you meet up with him...

    also if you done this before, why not hit them up again?
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    When you get over feeling Mentally Defective...you'll attract the right kind of people. Right now you ...aint gonna happen.
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:28 AM GMT
    SpanishFly1988 saidwhat do u mean?....I've heard straight guys get boners while wrestling too...so why should it be any different for anyone else?? andd many younger ppl are MUCH MORE sexually explicit than the older ones. I just want to wrestle...and I may..MAY get hard (I've wrestled a few dudes already...and nothing happened..however Im assuming its because I didnt find them in the slightest way attractive..and they were all at least 15 years older than me)


    Im a male, who likes to wrestle in socks, I may get a little hard (which is natural for both straight and gay guys a like) but thats it, Im not looking for any type of sexual encounter whats so ever
    <----is this really that weird ??...like im still missing whats so wrong or taboo with the statement...especially to someone who is bi or gay.

    ok dude, no one is going to wrestle you in just there socks. secondly, if you want to wrestle than join a wrestling team or take jujitsu. i can't believe you seriously put up a post like this. oh and by the way, if a straight man gets a erection while wrestling another man he is either gay or bi.
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:28 AM GMT
    It may not even be an issue with wrestling. It's an issue with the fact that you want others to do something to fulfill your need/fetish/desire, and you're pretty much making it clear that you have no interest in reciprocating by doing anything further with them. That's a really hard sale to make imo...
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:29 AM GMT
    This is a wrestling fetish not actual wrestling.
    You should probably clarify that.
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    Mar 03, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    it might also help if it looked like you could actually wrestle without getting broken in two...

    but I suspect the problem is much bigger than this. you don't want to have sex, and you don't just want to wrestle (because the sock thing brings the wrestling into the realm of something fetish-like).

    so basically the only people who would be interested in this are those who share the exact same "wrestling-with-crew-socks-but-no-sex fetish".

    so do you like sex at all? and if the wrestling with socks turns you on, then why not jerk off with your wrestling partner? at least then there's something in it for him...

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    Mar 03, 2011 8:34 AM GMT
    Sooo all in all we live in a world.....that a man who wants a spanking in leatherw/ bondage has 1-800 numbers he can call up..another can pull over to the side of the road...and pay to have his dick sucked by a woman he doesn't kno from a can of paint.

    However me wanting to wrestle someone with socks (something most of us wear on the daily)...is BLASPHEMOUS. I guess im waste of life, because Im turned by something other than sex. So it is me. Thanks so much for the clarification(and I say that in all seriousness).

    redheadguy said You might as well be straight.

    well see thats the problem, this is the only thing that makes me hard, like literally the ONLY thing, I've never gotten hard in my life over something that involve a man in socks. However anything sexual and im turned off, what do you call that???? Im physically attracted to females, but a girl has never given me a boner in my life.

    MindAndMatter saidit might also help if it looked like you could actually wrestle without getting broken in two...


    Im actually very strong for my size, the older dudes I did wrestle all outweighed me by 40-50lbs..and i beat 3 out of 5 of them..but Im no longer interested in just any guy ,becaus I didn't really enjoy those matches....but idk if thats because im old...or if its because my mind likes something that my dick doesn't ..I get hard when i think about these things....but ALL the matches I've had so far, which were all with older guys...that I wasnt attracted too...i didnt get hard at all, if I did, it would be like a semi-erection..this is why i wanna find someone who is somewhat close in age or somewhat attractive because then I'll kno for sure if i really am into this or not. Maybe asexuality is REAL(a lot of ppl say it isnt)
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    Mar 03, 2011 8:45 AM GMT
    I think wrestling is awesome.

    I wouldn't, however, wrestle in just socks alone unless I was with someone I knew I was gonna have sex with.