Confused as to why people fall for me easily?

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    Mar 03, 2011 2:08 AM GMT

    The first gay guy i met (last year) i said to him that we'd only ever be friends an asked why not anything more? an after that he kinda avoided me alot. Then yesterday he added me on facebook an i asked why he blocked me for the millionth time? an he said he deleted me to try an get over me. Now, i've got a girl (I'm bi) saying that she loves me :S i've only hung out with her afew times an she wont leave me alone, an asoon as i told her how i felt she got real pissed off an stopped speaking to me. An recently i met a gay guy and hung out afew times an i'm getting the same trouble! And in the last two weeks i met this other girl she seems really nice but i don't like her that way an she's getting abit clingy/posessive! And this seems to happen alot (the clingy/posessivness) I'm just wondering how they could like me that much in such a short space of time ect? I mean i'm not really anything to look at, just a normal lad lol icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    Maybe you have a massive dingdong that's irresistible. If you do, post it here so we can examine it and see if we, too, can fall in love with you.
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:05 AM GMT
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    You don't come off as desperate so you don't scare them away. They guys I meet that come off confident and secure I fall for so fast. Are you pretty confident as a guy? Cause thats hot. icon_cool.gif
  • Msljocknyc

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    Mar 03, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    can i marry you?
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Mar 03, 2011 3:07 AM GMT
    1. You really must quit whispering "I love you" during sex. It just sends the wrong message and gets you into trouble! icon_lol.gif

    2. Quit showering regularly.

    3. Those 30 minute head jobs you are giving morning noon and night gives the impression that you really care about your random hook ups.
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:09 AM GMT
    I too have this problem, but people have told me I have an overtly flirtatious manner about me. I don't do it on purpose, it just is how I've been since high-school.
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:10 AM GMT
    I'm already in love with you just from your post. Wow, what IS it about YOU??!!
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:13 AM GMT
    the question shouldn't be why they fall in love with you. it should be why wouldn't they fall in love with you. i mean, wow!
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    friendliness! you have that. too much.
  • alphatop

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    Mar 03, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    ATX611 saidI too have this problem, but people have told me I have an overtly flirtatious manner about me. I don't do it on purpose, it just is how I've been since high-school.


    ^^THAT!icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 03, 2011 3:31 AM GMT
    it's your humility for sure! icon_eek.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Mar 03, 2011 5:53 AM GMT
    jrunner25 saidit's your humility for sure! icon_eek.gif
    now that is no reason for you to be pissy at him. he is just telling you what is going on in his life. jeeze, he is trying to figure out what's going on. i think someone brought up a good point and that is that you don't come off as being needy and you seem to be very confident which is always a turn on for anyone. someone want's told me i need to stop kissing people because it got me into a lot of trouble. ha ha ha ha i can't help it its what i am definitely great at
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:37 AM GMT
    ...BUT I LOVE YOU MAN!!!
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    Mar 03, 2011 7:40 AM GMT
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    Mar 03, 2011 9:41 AM GMT
    Oh nana
  • bad_wolf

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    Mar 03, 2011 10:00 AM GMT
    Girls are crazy.
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    Mar 03, 2011 10:51 AM GMT
    (yawning...rolls eyes) Why is there a "Meet Real Guys - Playground For Women" ad right above me? Is this because the OP is claiming bi? freaky...
  • coastguy90814

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    Mar 03, 2011 11:12 AM GMT
    lol!!! love these self serving posts from insecure people! gotta love it.