Adding guys to hotlist?

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    Mar 04, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    Is it creepy? nice? is it like the "like button on facebook"?. Whats your reaction when you're hot-listed. Would your reaction be different based on who hot listed you?

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    Mar 04, 2011 3:54 AM GMT
    I usually just hot list them back because it lightens up their day. It is the internet... making someone smile over the internet is one of the best things you can do.
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    Mar 04, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    I take it as a compliment. And I think of it as more of a compliment if the guy has a hundred guys on his hot list than if he has a thousand.

    Personally I do use the hot list as a pick-me-up if I'm feeling down to show myself that there are hot, sane, gay guys in the world (also the hotness works as a plain old distraction). I guess on average I look in my hot list once every two-three months.
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    Mar 04, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    hotlist is never creepy, i'm always really flattered when i get hotlisted, unless they have 28,000 other guys on it.
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    Mar 04, 2011 6:32 AM GMT
    It's creepy to randomly hot list
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    Mar 04, 2011 6:33 AM GMT
    I prefer adding guys to my "ignore list-" like the poster above.

    Oh I'm bad. icon_twisted.gif
  • alphatop

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    Mar 04, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    Hot list is nice thing to do, make someone else's day, boost their self esteem (if they need that at allicon_smile.gif...But how about buddy list? How do you feel about that?
  • MisterT

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    Mar 04, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    I take it as a compliment, and usually try to send a thanks.

    I do take it as more of a compliment if I think the guy is hot also, and he hasn't hot listed the entire RJ population, though even if the guy isn't my type, I try to take it as a compliment, as it was probably meant as one.
  • Cannon

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    Mar 04, 2011 7:59 AM GMT
    I'm digging the song that plays when opening this thread. "You're my dream" Awesome! How did someone do that? Oh.. and I'm hoping that it's not just me.

    Hot listings are always well appreciated, but I find it strange when they come with a random buddy listing. Maybe they just get button happy?
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    Mar 04, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    FTF, please don't make this habit or it might catch on.
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    Mar 04, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    Why is it creepy to think someone is hot? Why is it creepy for someone to think you are hot?
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    Mar 04, 2011 8:03 AM GMT
    Cannon saidI'm digging the song that plays when opening this thread. "You're my dream" Awesome! How did someone do that? Oh.. and I'm hoping that it's not just me.

    Hot listings are always well appreciated, but I find it strange when they come with a random buddy listing. Maybe they just get button happy?


    Yea, truth be told, I never understood that either.

    I mean, buddy is like, someone you are willing to spend time with or you know from a chat you had with them before hand etc... where as hot list is just solely based on looks.

    guys that hot list and buddy list random people are ot creepy, they are just strange individuals.
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    Mar 04, 2011 8:07 AM GMT
    Cannon saidI'm digging the song that plays when opening this thread. "You're my dream" Awesome! How did someone do that? Oh.. and I'm hoping that it's not just me.

    Hot listings are always well appreciated, but I find it strange when they come with a random buddy listing. Maybe they just get button happy?


    It's fearthefall... if you quote him you'll see the embed code.. amayonaising...

    ANYGAY, hotlisting doesn't really mean anything, especially on its own... look at some guys hotlists.. it IS basically the equivalent of a 'like'. BUDDYlisting having never talked is stoopid icon_smile.gif
  • bad_wolf

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    Mar 04, 2011 8:56 AM GMT
    I use it as I like / envy / in awe / think you're totally wicked! button =o)
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    Mar 04, 2011 8:58 AM GMT
    No this is fine. It's buddy listing someone you've never shared a single word with :-/ but I'll still be nice.
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:01 AM GMT
    I think i am flattered~~~~









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    Mar 04, 2011 9:03 AM GMT
    I'm personally flattered when I receive it, but when I give it, when I first started, I was like "ooh you cute and you cute, how you doin?" and then I realized how big of a creeper I was eventually, so I stopped. I do it sparingly at this point.
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:09 AM GMT
    does anyone else hear music in this thread?
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:10 AM GMT
    UberBane saiddoes anyone else hear music in this thread?

    I'm sure as hell hearing it too!

    Additionally, I'm blaming either FearTheFall or antonomad... am I right, kids? icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:29 AM GMT
    I Actually talk to alot of the guys i hotlisted. And some i list because theyre pretty much eye candy.
    I do edit and delete if i get bored with them.
    Some become my friends-then theyre buddylisted. icon_smile.gif
  • bad_wolf

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    Mar 04, 2011 9:31 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidI Actually talk to alot of the guys i hotlisted. And some i list because theyre pretty much eye candy.
    I do edit and delete if i get bored with them.
    Some become my friends-then theyre buddylisted. icon_smile.gif


    ...it's an ice breaker?
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:33 AM GMT
    Blame FearTheObnoxious

    FearTheFall saidIt's creepy to randomly hot list object width="1" height="1">param value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rPtR-5ajPs8&a=1&hl=en_US">/param>param value="true">/param>param value="always">/param>embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rPtR-5ajPs8&a=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="1" height="1">/embed>/object>
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:49 AM GMT
    Guys that recall the chap who caught my attention the other day in Smalltown, Wherever or at Unlikely Junction, Metropolis. Lads that could be the boyhood chum unseen since age eleven. Men that remind me of who I am today, want to be tomorrow, might've been yesterday, ... and want tonight. Blokes which resemble those that I let pass on by because their truest inclinations seemed incompatible, nebulous, changeable, ... deniable. Potential friends and lovers. Reflections of the evolving self. Beautiful dreams.
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    Mar 04, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    pm_83 said
    UberBane saiddoes anyone else hear music in this thread?

    I'm sure as hell hearing it too!
    icon_confused.gif


    Lmao , so random, i dont know how that song got on this thread.
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    Mar 04, 2011 12:42 PM GMT
    pm_83 said
    UberBane saiddoes anyone else hear music in this thread?

    I'm sure as hell hearing it too!

    Additionally, I'm blaming either FearTheFall or antonomad... am I right, kids? icon_confused.gif

    I concur with that logic. If you look at a thread that has 1000+ replies but come across a page that has either of their postings, then that d*mn song plays. wtf! .. It's not FTF btw.

    Also, I there isn't much to think about when you hotlists a guy. It is what it is. It's not creepy. It just shows you what that person would go for in terms of looks/appearance alone. I know it's kinda shallow, but the penis does the thinking at that point of hotlisting someone. Haha! In addition, it's not similar to the "LIKE" button on FB. You normally LIKE a statement/comment because it had some depth or made you laugh, etc. Which I think RJ should implement on their current FORUMS because FB conversation format is quite appealing. Also notifies you of any new postings from the conversation, if you fail to check in a few days. And if FB had a hotlist (hope they wont ever!) it would be a collection of profiles in a box. Although, taken back at how the hotlistee could percieve it. icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif