Anyone ever done master/slave?

  • spacemountain

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    Mar 04, 2011 11:50 AM GMT
    It's definitely a fantasy of mine. to be the sub to a master, especially an older guy. i wouldnt want to do it for an extended period of time, maybe 3 days max. id also want someone that knew what he was doing that could really order me around and fuck me whenever he pleases.

    Anyone else been in a relationship like this? how temporary was it? is being the slave as fun as i imagine it to be?
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    Mar 04, 2011 5:43 PM GMT
    Sub/dom and other BDSM-related stuff can be a lot of fun if done right and by a dom who knows what he's doing. There are tons of choices, and what's available out there really depends on what you're really into or want to experiment with. BDSM in general is mental, and you'd be surprised that people who really get into that are extremely smart people. Find a dom who really knows his stuff, is unselfish, and has had some experience with newbies...but take your time and don't you rush things. Also, if you have an addictive personality, be very careful because a good dom can really fuck your mind up if he's not careful. There are many books on sub/dom and BDSM--read a book or two to get a headstart.

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  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 05, 2011 8:01 AM GMT
    Hellooooooo SpaceMountain icon_smile.gif

    (Just kidding, it's not really my thing, but it always sounds hot.)

    I do sometimes get hit on by guys that want me to be a master or a heavy dom to them. After thinking about it a bit I always think: Damn that sounds like a lot of work! More work than I'm willing to do for a hookup, lol. I can do role play, but I definitely know I don't have what it takes to really get super dom or aggressive with a guy. That's for someone else.

  • Mar 16, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    I have a boy....
    I have a pup
    I am a Master/Sir

    It's hot...

    Call me. lol
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    Mar 16, 2011 11:15 PM GMT
    I'm perfectly comfortable with someone dominating me, as long as they never forget I'M IN CONTROL
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    Oct 30, 2011 1:31 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidSub/dom and other BDSM-related stuff can be a lot of fun if done right and by a dom who knows what he's doing. There are tons of choices, and what's available out there really depends on what you're really into or want to experiment with. BDSM in general is mental, and you'd be surprised that people who really get into that are extremely smart people. Find a dom who really knows his stuff, is unselfish, and has had some experience with newbies...but take your time and don't you rush things. Also, if you have an addictive personality, be very careful because a good dom can really fuck your mind up if he's not careful. There are many books on sub/dom and BDSM--read a book or two to get a headstart.

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    I am often submissive, but I mean it in a romantic, erotic and loving sense, not in the sense that I want to be mind-fucked or enslaved for days on end. It means I want you to be active in seducing me, feeling me out, kissing me, hugging me, kissing me, saying sweet things to me, talking nice to me, etc. and I want to suck you, be under your body, and adore you with my kisses and hugs in return. Maybe I better post that on my profile, come to think of it.
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    Nov 01, 2011 10:05 PM GMT
    Tried this before, it could be fun and exciting. But at some point you tend to lose your self-esteem (which is bad of course). So, if you are the type who doesn't know when and how to quit, don't even try.

    Play with fire, you will get burned.
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    Nov 01, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    Had my ex tie me up ONE time.... Arms above my head, feet to the base of the bed, together... I was calm and collected for like 5 minutes, THEN - he had the idea of a blindfold.

    The very second my vision went away, I panicked, started repeating "Take it off, take it off, take it off!!!!!". Well, he wasn't very good with tying knots, or should i say UN-tying knots! He tried and tried to get my hands loose, but couldn't. In his panic, he hadn't taken my blindfold off. I was fuckin' FREAKED. All I hear was "Fuck, I did these TIGHT!." I almost couldn't breathe, anxiety attack!

    I did it with someone I trusted with my life, my BF of a year and a half... but my claustrophobia got the better of me. Hot in thought, but scary in reality... which I guess is the draw. Anyway - that's bondage.


    Be very careful and I would say only do these types of things with people you know and trust. There was a story today about a guy killed in Mexico by a man he hooked up with. These things are very real - especially if you enter someones house and let them "take control" of you.
  • geebus

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    Nov 01, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    HunterX saidTried this before, it could be fun and exciting. But at some point you tend to lose your self-esteem (which is bad of course). So, if you are the type who doesn't know when and how to quit, don't even try.

    Play with fire, you will get burned.

    QFT. precisely why I couldn't sustain it. Awesome fantasy and all, buy it was eventually eating at my self esteem, when I already have unresolved issues in that regard.
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    Nov 01, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    geebus said
    HunterX saidTried this before, it could be fun and exciting. But at some point you tend to lose your self-esteem (which is bad of course). So, if you are the type who doesn't know when and how to quit, don't even try.

    Play with fire, you will get burned.

    QFT. precisely why I couldn't sustain it. Awesome fantasy and all, buy it was eventually eating at my self esteem, when I already have unresolved issues in that regard.


    Flame me if you want, but I think that anyone who has this fetish has unresolved issues... Dom or Sub.

    Master: Don't get enough recognition, or feel that they fit their masculine role in society in some way... No kids, no wife, no powerful job. Low self-esteem.

    Slave:Low self-esteem, gets joy bending over backwards (or forward icon_wink.gif ) for people. People pleaser!


    This is my uneducated opinion. But really, aren't psychological games a result of psychological anguish? We all have it somewhere.

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    Nov 01, 2011 10:57 PM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    geebus said
    HunterX saidTried this before, it could be fun and exciting. But at some point you tend to lose your self-esteem (which is bad of course). So, if you are the type who doesn't know when and how to quit, don't even try.

    Play with fire, you will get burned.

    QFT. precisely why I couldn't sustain it. Awesome fantasy and all, buy it was eventually eating at my self esteem, when I already have unresolved issues in that regard.


    Flame me if you want, but I think that anyone who has this fetish has unresolved issues... Dom or Sub.

    Dom: Don't get enough recognition, or feel that they fit their masculine role in society in some way... No kids, no wife, no powerful job. Low self-esteem.

    Sub:Low self-esteem, gets joy bending over backwards (or forward icon_wink.gif ) for people. People pleaser!


    This is my uneducated opinion. But really, aren't psychological games a result of psychological anguish? We all have it somewhere.


    I shall flame away! I think some people like being in control and others dont. I mean, if it goes all the way into the relationship (like being told what to do 24/7 then yes it is disfunctional) but in the bed its fun to have an alpha bend you over and have his way with you.

    it just is.
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    Nov 01, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said

    I shall flame away! I think some people like being in control and others dont. I mean, if it goes all the way into the relationship (like being told what to do 24/7 then yes it is disfunctional) but in the bed its fun to have an alpha bend you over and have his way with you.

    it just is.


    Is that master/slave at all?

    I was under the impression that this roleplay was more like "Lick my boots, scrub my floor with your mouth, you're a slutty little boy, aren't you? Get over here, fucker!"

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    "Yes sir! yes sir!"

    Notice the OP said "3 days"
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    Nov 01, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier said
    Chainers said

    I shall flame away! I think some people like being in control and others dont. I mean, if it goes all the way into the relationship (like being told what to do 24/7 then yes it is disfunctional) but in the bed its fun to have an alpha bend you over and have his way with you.

    it just is.


    Is that master/slave at all?

    I was under the impression that this roleplay was more like "Lick my boots, scrub my floor with your mouth, you're a slutty little boy, aren't you? Get over here, fucker!"

    and

    "Yes sir! yes sir!"

    Notice the OP said "3 days"


    No I didnt notice the OP said 3 days, I just thought you meant "Those who liked to be pushed down and plowed have self esteem issues"

    Yes, I change my stance. I stand by your opinion that people who have this fetish have issues.
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    Nov 01, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
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    For some reason, I get hit on a LOT by sub wanna-bes. But like TK, I usually feel like it's too much effort for a hookup. One particular guy has been literally begging me for about a year. So, last weekend, I set up the weight room as a little dungeon and brought him over. We actually went over the scenario by IM in advance, so he knew what to expect. Got some ankle and wrist cuffs on him and we started a little warm-up. Didn't even get close to immobilizing him before he started shaking and safe-wording. Clearly there was a failure to establish trust. Never could get him back into the mood, so the whole thing was a bust.

    Also, I may have some things to learn about dungeon tactics. I had various... er, toys displayed on the selves. Some of them more for...inspiration than for actual use. I'm guessing that's what freaked him out. Maybe it's best to get the sub actually tied up before revealing the toys? Or perhaps just bring them out one by one, as they're needed.

    Anyway, yes, as it turns out, it was too much effort for a hook-up. icon_evil.gif
  • yazen

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    Nov 11, 2014 5:03 AM GMT
    my dream i find master and i will be for your obedient servant 
    i can clean your room wash your clothes 
    clean your shoes and socks 
    food preparation 
    i am ready to work 20 hour 
    just to be in your room under your feet and kiss your feet i will do this free 
    only not to dispense with my services 
    wait for your reply sir
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  • Midas426

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    Nov 12, 2014 5:17 PM GMT
    I've gotten messages from a couple guys in the past looking for me to be their slave. It sounded intriguing and I even went as far as contacting one. But I thought better of it and basically chickened out when the guy wanted to invite me to his place to try it out. Like others have said here part of it was not really knowing that person and establishing trust. My rational mind was telling me what if I put myself in a situation that I can't escape from. So nice to fantasize but not part of my reality.
  • slaveNNJ

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    May 30, 2016 9:41 PM GMT
    slavery is a beautiful and noble institution
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    May 30, 2016 10:15 PM GMT
    Never really done a master/slave type of thing, though I have engaged in some light and very mild bondage with my guy... and a few others.

    We enjoy stripping each other down except for our neckties after work and using them as props, tie ups, restraints... mmmm.

    Years ago, I did have a hookup / quickie with a guy that liked to call me "Sir"... that was kinda hot. :-)
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    Jun 06, 2016 3:18 AM GMT
    Anyone who gets off doing housework is more than welcome to be my slave. I'll even wack you on the ass a few times while you're bent over cleaning the tub.
  • Eleven

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    Jun 06, 2016 7:29 AM GMT
    I like being dominate, I dominated a guy who wanted me to treat him like shit, use and abuse him and tell him he is useless, ugly, piece of shit and it made me feel uncomfortable lol I felt sorry for him..

    When I get drunk and horny I can get demanding and can seduce the pants off anyone if the conditions are right, I've been fully clothed once and I dominated my Bi and str8 friend and they were completely naked and they really enjoyed themselves, they always approached me afterwards but I say no it has to be the same situation as last time and it makes them even more keen lol, they were best friends since primary school and I got the str8 guy to give the Bi guy a blowjob was really hot haha