Guys over 40 being called Daddy: Hot or Annoying?

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    Mar 04, 2011 8:25 PM GMT
    Hey guys,
    While reading some threads on this forum, I found some men who embraced their "daddy" status while others rejected the idea of being called that entirely.

    What do you think of being called daddy: thumbs up or hell no?
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    Mar 04, 2011 8:37 PM GMT
    Well, boy, sit right here on my knee and let me tell you a little story...

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  • ChicagoCarl

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    Mar 04, 2011 8:53 PM GMT
    I am 34 and already get called "daddy" but I do head out to strip clubs a lot. I guess I should expect it at that instance.

    In bed I would not like it because I think it would take away the intimacy. I have known some men older than me to use it towards me though, and that I just find even more strange.

    I don't even like being called "papi" and I love the latin men!!!
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    Mar 04, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWell, boy, sit right here on my knee and let me tell you a little story...

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    hmmm.... well..... thanks.... i guess?

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    Mar 04, 2011 10:16 PM GMT
    Young dudes 18-25 call me daddy. Older 50+ crowd call me boy. I just go with the flow.
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    Mar 04, 2011 11:08 PM GMT
    Depends on who's doing the calling but I had an unknown guy send me a message the other day and referred to me as his 'daddy' and it immediately turned me off. I think I tend to NOT like it. Perhaps it's my denial that I'm aging
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    Mar 05, 2011 12:07 AM GMT

    Huge turnoff.

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    Mar 05, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    Don't like it....feels like it is somehow condescending and feels like a "set-up" for that person to expect me to take care of everything for them or pay for everything for them.....or like I am somehow so hard-up for company that I will put up with anything for the pleasure of their attention.....AS IF! .....Ain't no shortage of guys that want to go out with me.......in their teens and 20's and older too! DON'T call me "Daddy"....icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 05, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    it's annoying mostly because it kind of forces you into role playing .
    i consistently get messages ( not so much here ) by those submissive bottom boys who want to be force fucked by some dominating big daddy .
    first, they really need to look at me closer and second it's a turn off .
    what next... playing doctor ? gee.
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    ChicagoCarl saidI don't even like being called "papi" and I love the latin men!!!


    The term papi is more a term of endearment. Literally, it means daddy but really its equivalent to 'babe', 'sweet', or whatever other pet name u can think of. But, I do see what you're getting at.

    I would never use the term daddy. Its weird. But, I do like those that would fit the description of 'daddy'. Older men have always turned me on.
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    i'm 44 and i'm not sure how i feel about that. it could be hot, it could be very not-hot
  • MisterT

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    Mar 05, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    Lol, I've had guys older than me call me daddy, so i respond with boy. It's all in fun icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    Yeah um not in love with it at all - someone once told me to "put your daddy mouth on ..."

    I threw up a little and hit my block button - yuck. I just cant get into that role/play and I'm 42....

    and guys need to lose the "boi" handle too - that makes me gag a little too. especially love the ones who refer to themselves as boi and they are 4 years my junior. I want to tell them, they are 2 decades too late for that label.
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidWell, boy, sit right here on my knee and let me tell you a little story...

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    But I'd rather sit in that nice firm lap of yours...icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    You ever seen any of my other posts here? I think I've said "daddy like" once or twice even though I'm 19.
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:56 AM GMT
    My bf is a couple years older than I am & from the first time we hooked up he called me "Daddy" when I pinned him on his stomach,..Still no problem with "daddy," and I dig it
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    Mar 05, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    rude
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    Mar 05, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
    annoying
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    Mar 05, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    whatever turns 'em on... icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 05, 2011 6:31 AM GMT
    "COME HERE DADDDDDDDDY..... MMMMMMMMMMM" icon_lol.gif
  • TrentGrad

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    Mar 05, 2011 6:33 AM GMT
    samurai111 saidHey guys,
    While reading some threads on this forum, I found some men who embraced their "daddy" status while others rejected the idea of being called that entirely.

    What do you think of being called daddy: thumbs up or hell no?


    I'm not 40...but yeah, I'd not like it.

    I'm not trying to be anyone's "daddy" or "son" for that matter...and the thought of incest kinda grosses me out!
  • Bound4Muscle

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    Mar 05, 2011 6:37 AM GMT

    Hell Fucking No !!!
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    Mar 05, 2011 7:30 AM GMT
    xasantexxwhat next... playing doctor ? gee.



    I'm not sure there's anything wrong with a little role play. It can be fun you just have to enter the spirit of things.
  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 05, 2011 7:43 AM GMT
    The first few times I was called Daddy, it really screwed with my head. After all, I was once quite thin and a high level athlete and sometime model. I was also never attracted to older men myself. To learn that younger guys started viewing me as a daddy to some time to get used to.

    But seeing that a lot of the younger guys that got into the daddy thing were pretty damn hot and sexy, I at first learned to tolerate it, and later embrace it. There will always be a part of me that is a great big kid, but I am very comfortable with this bedroom role now. My boyfriend is in his twenties, and he loves calling me daddy in the bedroom, and being called boy. But outside the bedroom we are just guys. And I am proud to have a strong mature aspect to support the man I love.
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    Mar 05, 2011 7:50 AM GMT
    I have had a dude older than that call me that when fucking and its kind of weird. Im definitly not old enough for that stuff.