Finding Bi Guys More Attractive

  • Moral_Poison

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    Mar 05, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
    I've recently discovered that I'm strangely more attracted to bi guys. I don't know exactly when this began because I used to be kinda freaked out by them. I think mostly because I didn't understand. Anyway, it doesn't bother me anymore, quite the opposite actually. I almost wanna say it makes a guy even hotter to find out that he's bi. Does this make me some type of fetish pervert? Is it offensive to bi guys for someone to find them hotter simply because they're bi? Don't get me wrong though I don't go looking for guys JUST because they're bi. I've just noticed that if a guy is cute both in his personality and physically and I'm attracted to him in multiple ways it just makes him a little hotter to find out he swings both ways. It just seems weird, and I don't really get why it turns me on...I think I need to seek professional help. haha
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    Mar 05, 2011 8:37 PM GMT
    I think you need a bi guy. -----> me. haha
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    Mar 06, 2011 1:15 AM GMT
    Maybe it's because you think they're more likely to like you for your personality instead of for your looks, so you feel more secure? Just a thought for consideration as a possibility.
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    Mar 06, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    I understand the appeal...

    I dunno. I think it has alot to do with our society's understanding of what defines a man as a "Man"...

    Or maybe commitment issues... less chance a bi guy will cling onto you ?



  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 06, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    This definently isn't new, there are a lot of guys including me that are strangly attracted to straight guys, who knows why, who cares. But I agree Bi guys maybe just fit your personality better...
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    Mar 06, 2011 2:01 AM GMT
    I'm right there with you. Everytime I find a guy attractive he almost always turns out to be bi. I think It's because I'm usually attracted to straight guys so in the gay atmosphere the straighter acting guys are the bi ones. It's definitely the masculinity that attracts me to them. Every relationship I've been in has been with a bi guy..

    But sometimes guys just come out as "bi" because they are too afraid of the label "gay". Thats how I originally came out, but when I got comfortable with the process things changed.
  • beaujangle

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    Mar 06, 2011 11:03 AM GMT
    Yeah me too; it's often bi or straight guys I'm drawn to ....
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    Mar 06, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    Yeah Bi here too
    Def have a strong attraction to other Bi guys
    Luv MMF 3ways with another Bi guy
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Mar 06, 2011 11:21 AM GMT
    I have kid so I mostly hang out with guys that have been married, had kids and found the other side of their sexuality later. When I try to date men that have never been female coupled it does not work out for whatever reason.

    Occasionally I have found myself attacted to a guy and then found out later he is bi or a gay man that was formerly female coupled. So yes I definitely understand your attraction to bi identified guys.

    Expect a few lectures on this thread about the use of various terms and phrases in your post. There are good reasons people are sensitive to the use of phrases such a "straight acting" and you are likely about to hear them all!
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    Mar 06, 2011 11:40 AM GMT
    Bi guys are hot.
  • rnch

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    Mar 06, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    the problem with bi guys is that eventually, because of family pressure, "friends" interviening or their own internal guilt over seeing gay guys... they will dump you for a woman.

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    Mar 06, 2011 12:58 PM GMT
    maybe bc "bi" guys tend to be masc