Dilemma

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    Mar 06, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    So i have a slight problem on my hands.

    Theres this guy i know whos 22 and he lives in Chicago. I met him about 3 years ago on another gay dating website and we have been talking ever since. Lately, we've been getting really close and he invited me to come down and visit him sometime. (And i know all about stranger danger and internet pedophiles and such so with all due respect, i dont feel like getting a lecture on that.) Now i really, really want to go, but i dont know how to break the news to my parents. The problem is, none of them know im a bisexual, and i dont think any of them would take it well right now. In order to have a legit reason to go down, i would have to explain who this guy was and how we met so that would pretty much be the nail in the coffin. Ive thought about making other reasons to go down there for spring break but i cant seem to get a really good idea. How would you guys do this?
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    Mar 06, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    He's 22 and 21 is full legal adult down there. You're 18.

    He can't come up here to visit?


    ....or,

    Show this post and page to Mom and Dad.


    O.o (NO, don't! I'm joking!)

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    Mar 06, 2011 7:27 PM GMT
    haha, yeah we've talked about that before but i kinda live in a shit-hole town with absolutely nothing to do so it wouldnt be fun.

    meninloveShow this post and page to Mom and Dad.


    haha i may as well, get it over with icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 08, 2011 6:25 AM GMT
    Independently of the wisdom of doing the travel just to meet the guy and whetter you should come out to your parents now or later...

    ...why is it that you have to explain the exact truth to them in order to go to Chicago?

    I mean, is not like a travel to a little town in the middle of nowhere, there are a thousand reasons a person could go to Chicago... heck! I want to visit Chicago and I don't have a hot guy waiting for me and if I had I'd still be entitled to my privacy.

    Just arrange your travel for tourism reasons and add that you'll be visiting friends if you feel like telling more of the truth.
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    Mar 09, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    shawnathanWhat if you met in Vancouver or Seattle?


    i like that idea, maybe ill have to ask. he works so i doubt he'll say yes but worth a shot.

    Engineerwhy is it that you have to explain the exact truth to them in order to go to Chicago?


    i dont think my parents would understand why i just want to go and visit chicago randomly, they're just the type to ask questions, and the first one would be why, and then where are you staying icon_razz.gif i would feel bad lying about who im staying with for safety reasons and living in the small town that i do, i probably have met one person who is from chicago in my life so it just works against everything...

    thanx for posting errybody icon_smile.gif