rf_dal saidWell, thanks, but part of my in person problem is that I'm a little shy and I think it comes off as aloof or something. Maybe it's just me and not the Internet ;)
I can relate to that. I use to go out to the Castro and then I'd stand in the corner of some bar, finally leaving very depressed and feeling like shit. I usually had guys checking me out and sometimes staring multiple times but I was too shy to make the move. I even went out one night with a goal, to strike up a conversation with a guy just to force myself to do it. I did do it, had a nice conversation, nothing more but was satisfied I could do it. On the Internet I would talk to everyone, it was much easier, less threatening. Funny thing is that I did finally meet my bf and it was in a bar, although I really didn't go to them that often, I said hi to him and it went from there.