What's going on??

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    Mar 09, 2011 10:00 AM GMT
    I was out 2 weeks ago on a nightout with my friends, i met some guy, we kissed, talked and that. we left the club early and went somewhere quiet so we can talk. he was kept looking at me like he was wary of me and he asked me if i was a t**t i said i werent cos apparently he met some t**ts in his time. i told him i aint like that at all. We swapped numbers and were still talking.

    he asked me if i wanted to come back to his house i said yes. we were talking how we were looking for a relationship and how we met some idiots in our lives. He said he was glad he met me and i said the same. we ended up having sex (which i didnt want to do) then fell asleep.

    woke up in the morning feeling rough and didnt look good so i went home and left this guy in bed asleep i didnt want to him to see me looking rough lol. i got home and i texted him asking how he was and that. he texted back asking if he expect to see me again or was that a one off. i told him i like to see him again. he then said we should go on a date to get to know each other. i said yeah sober this time lol.

    I wanted to him now to text me first cos i texted him first when i got home. heard nothing that sunday, nothing on monday, nothing on tuesday and nothing on wednesday. I texted him on wednesday asking how he was he texted back saying his head is mixed up since he moved house and doesnt know what to do?? i ask him if he wanted to talk. he said don't worry about me i think i rush it going out on saturday i think thats why i was so drunk.

    I felt like he was making excuses to say that he's not interested or doesnt want to see me again (maybe i'm reading way too much into the texts) i left it as that never heard from him for a week now and i really liked him and wanted to see him again. what is going on???

    I'm going out on friday night with a friend and he might be out... what should i do when i see him? smile and carry on walking, wave and say hello or just ignore him?? I don't know what he is thinking??

    I never really had a boyfriend before and haven't been on a date icon_sad.gif lol.
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    Mar 09, 2011 10:11 AM GMT
    Paulw87 said we ended up having sex (which i didnt want to do)


    Stop doing that.

    No one else will be there to advocate for your wants and needs. Set some standards for yourself and stick with them. Should you go home with someone and he charms the pants off of you, then fuck away. But if you take off your pants AND don't want to have sex, you are fucking up, mister.

    Here is the deal though, dude is just not into you. "he texted back saying his head is mixed up since he moved house and doesnt know what to do?" is just another iteration of "It's not you it's me".

    Don't worry about it. Don't take it personally. Enjoy the moment you had and go out there and have many more moments until that one moment becomes a weekend which becomes a month which becomes a house with a white-picket fence and all that shit.

    But you aren't going to find what you want if you do what you don't.
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    Mar 09, 2011 10:16 AM GMT
    thats the only thing i regret doing was sleeping with him. should of fell alseep or just go home!

    yeah you probably right i'm gonna just move on
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    Mar 09, 2011 10:29 AM GMT
    Paulw87 saidthats the only thing i regret doing was sleeping with him. should of fell alseep or just go home!

    yeah you probably right i'm gonna just move on


    Don't regret it. The sleeping with him part isn't any more relevant to the situation than the you sleeping over or the you texting him parts. So, it isn't at fault for anything. Had you not slept with him he wasn't going to suddenly have a clear head and go on a date with you.

    Like I said above, enjoy the moment for what it is. One night stands turn into relationships all the time.
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    Mar 09, 2011 1:08 PM GMT
    Not to be facetious, but I feel that this needs to be posted:

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    Mar 09, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    hahahaha i liked that video!!! i was singing a long with them lol

    if i don't see him agin so what but if i do then great!!! but thanks anyway