when to have awkward sex talks

  • newbiebottom

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    Mar 09, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    so when do you guys have awkward sex talks, like "i know you are a top but i also want to be inside u" ? during dinner? in bed before having sex? the morning after? just curious
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    Mar 09, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    yeah, I can see how that would be an awkward chat... if you make it awkward.

    Expressing your sexual desires with your fuck friends should be part of the package. We are not all Hellen Kellers feeling out way through sex. We are capable of communicating our wants and needs and if you are not you are doing it wrong.

    So, you could frame it like "I know you are X but I really want to do !X" and grovel at his feet because his sexual interests trump yours. Or, you can frame it like a wild, crazy sexual adventure. "Last night I was thinking about how hot it would be to fuck you and I haven't been able to get it out of my mind all day. Oh, we would have so much fun. Let's do it?".

    Make it about the awesome orgasms you will both have, rather than him doing you a favor.
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    Mar 14, 2011 2:37 PM GMT
    when you think of a question. the more you discuss things on your mind, the more better the sex is in my experience. you'll know where each other stands in the matter and it should not be awkward since we all have opinions and views on everything.
    and always talk about std checks way before sex, you only have to bring it up once (hopefully) then the fun begins.
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    Mar 14, 2011 2:38 PM GMT
    if ur too timid to talk about ex with a person, u shouldnt be haveing sex with that person.

    if ur to timid to talk about sex with anyone, ur not ready for sex
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    Mar 14, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    Whenever it feels right. Sometimes in bed, generally before or after sex. Sometimes in the car, if we're heading somewhere and the conversation avails itself, sometimes just sitting on the couch snuggling and feeling like a deep intellectual conversation (which generally leads to good sex). icon_smile.gif