ddt8665 saidahh you're from Vietnam. I know its a very harsh place to be gay. Most people over there are still conservative and traditional. I'm pretty sure you both are closeted. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Since it's hard to find a gay person to connect, once a person finds one, they tend to LINGER on to the relationship even though it's doomed. This could be your case. He might take care of you until he finds another one to connect.
It might not be your case, but at least assume so and give him some space. Try not to obligate him with anything, especially sex. Talk more. "Tam su" more.
I think this could be a good explanation of what's going on....
on a different note....
what's with these bitchy queens making fun of the OP's english skills and culture. he's not an english language native, and yet had the balls to create a post asking for advice.
why don't you try making a post in your 2nd or 3rd language? oh wait, maybe you don't even know a 2nd language
sorry for the rant, I'm a little tipsy and in an angry sarcastic mood, so I forgot that anglophone RJ members have better opinions and are superior to members from different cultures.... my bad