What was your first time like as a bottom?

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    Mar 10, 2011 9:38 PM GMT
    I am a virgin bottom, but would like to experience being in this position. I'd like to hear some of your first time stories and any advice you may have for a newcomer.

    Thanks RJs,

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    Mar 10, 2011 9:41 PM GMT
    It's not uncommon for your ass to bleed. Tears often develop inside the rectum. You may not have any desire to do it again after that happens so you'll most likely become a top. That was the case with me..

    Use lots of lube and practice with your fingers, a banana, cucumber, or a dildo. Maybe find a guy with a smaller penis as well so it's not as painful?
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    Mar 10, 2011 9:46 PM GMT
    Seriously??? IT HURT AND I HATED IT... Finally he stopped and he agreed it was like raping me... Even years later it was still uncomfortable and hardly felt natural. I'm sure other guys will take that reality of mine to epic prejudice proportions but, I DON'T GIVE A SHIT... I am entitled to express how it made me feel. IT FELT LIKE BEING TRASH!!!!
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    Mar 10, 2011 9:46 PM GMT
    thanks for the suggestions.
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    Mar 10, 2011 9:49 PM GMT
    nerdjock saidthanks for the suggestions.


    No problem... The Truth is freedom.
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    Mar 11, 2011 2:46 AM GMT
    lol
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    Mar 11, 2011 2:59 AM GMT
    Insist on being 'prepped' before he puts his dick in. Meaning lots of lube and lots of fingering first.

    My first time was very painful because I wasn't prepped and everything cramped, but the second time (5 min later) was heaven.
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    Mar 11, 2011 4:22 AM GMT
    Taken advantage of by a guy twice my age without a condom. He was so small I didn't know it happened.
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    Mar 11, 2011 4:25 AM GMT
    I was like o that stung then I was like it he still n me I guess so he is making faces still o well. Then I was like sex sucks should stayed a virgin
  • needleninja

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    Mar 11, 2011 4:27 AM GMT
    lets just say that the first time it wasnt pleasant, and that i dont do bottum because of other reasons.
  • eddieross69

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    Mar 11, 2011 4:47 AM GMT
    First time hurt, A LOT. But after "practicing" with a dildo and a butt plug, it got easier. It's kind of a nice change from having to top all the time.
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    Mar 11, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    omg...reading these responses is making me scared!!!
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    Mar 11, 2011 4:56 AM GMT
    my first 2 times were really awkward, i ended up toppin both of them instead lol, these were like a year apart, the first time i actually did bttm tho, was awesome, was the most mind blowing orgasm i'd ever had, was w/ a guy i dated for a long time, so i was able ta trust he wouldnt go too fast or hard.
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    Mar 11, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    I was 16 and I ripped. I was too afraid to tell my Mom so I bought Prep H thinking that would make things better ... OUCH!
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    Mar 11, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    Now, I am not the *best* person to go to for bottoming advice because I am more of a top than a bottom...

    But, what I can tell you is that when I topped for my bf, I had to let my dick sit halfway in his hole for a while until he was loose enough for the *Actual* fucking.


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    Mar 11, 2011 5:22 AM GMT
    Start with lots of lube... have plenty of patience... My first time was hard, but I'm very glad I didn't give up.
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    Mar 11, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    I think it would be easier if you were to sit on it so you could be in control.
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    Mar 11, 2011 5:31 AM GMT
    Do it with someone you truly love and trust... then it doesn't hurt (I'm Serious). Don't just do it because you have never done it before.
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    Mar 11, 2011 5:52 AM GMT
    Learn to read your body and ass. Already all good advise, also play with dildos, different lubes, etc. You will find out what you like and do not like. A hot shower steam is a good place to start to relax and learn.icon_biggrin.gif

    My first time was great, but I exhausted the top to quickly. Learn to see what you enjoy being on top and riding him or on your back, or missionary. I truly enjoy being on top and riding and exhausting my top almost to explosion getting off, teasing him and then do it again. Also, missionary and playing and teasing him, do not fool yourself a bottom has a lot of power over influence over a top to make the whole experience worth while. and just enjoy it and take it easy.
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    Mar 11, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    It was great. It didn't hurt much at all.

    [quote]I think it would be easier if you were to sit on it so you could be in control. [/quote]

    I don't think so. Even women don't like doing that.

    Bend right over so your asshole opens up.
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    Mar 11, 2011 6:31 AM GMT
    First time was horrible. A 9 inch getting rammed up. The only and best advice I can give is to lube up, tell him to put it in SLOW, that's the key thing. And you also have to relax, or youy just won't enjoy it atall
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    Mar 11, 2011 6:40 AM GMT
    Red hot poker. Leapt up off the bed and ran around the room screaming like a loony, clutching my poor arse which STUNG inside and wouldn't stop hurting. Like stubbing your toe but up yer bum.

    It was ok after that.
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    Mar 11, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    Brit_Bloke saidRed hot poker. Leapt up off the bed and ran around the room screaming like a loony, clutching my poor arse which STUNG inside and wouldn't stop hurting. Like stubbing your toe but up yer bum.

    It was ok after that.



    haha ... I can just picture that now.

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    Mar 11, 2011 6:55 AM GMT
    Boring. icon_cry.gif
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    Mar 11, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    YEARS ago, I met this older gentleman when I was 16 and a virgin. He used a lot of lube and was very gentle and patient, prying me loose with one, two and three fingers. He spread my legs, one on the back of his couch, the other on the floor. He had a very large cock and was very slow entering me. At first, I got excited and then got very nervous because he kept going and going and going inside me. I told him to PULL OUT because I didn't know how far it was going to go and and I was afraid that he might "damage" me. He laughed and told me to relax. Actually, it turned out to be a fun experience!