Very Hard to Find...

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    Mar 11, 2011 5:36 PM GMT
    Hey Guys What's Up

    I just have a huge question and yet to recieve an honest answer...."Why is it so hard to find a muscle guy that likes a smaller guy?...I have had a muscle boyfriend before and dated a few those few where the unattractive muscle guy (meaning bully, cocky, self-centered, etc.) that is a huge turn-off for me. I have been searching for a big guy with a big hert thats honest and true to his word as i am butthats very, very hard to find. I know most guys hate small guys like me but some love small guys like me. I have a defined/slender build and wanting to workout just a bit more but its hard to find the right muscle guy that actually wanna help. plus i feel much more confortable and safer with a muscle guy rather than anyone else. I don't know why but I guess the physical appearance of a muscle, the strength, power and dedication is one of the things that turn me on the most. Someone please explain. Message me.
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    Mar 15, 2011 6:31 AM GMT
    i think it is just ur idealistic approach.I think Physical appearance is important but the most important thing is sincerity and honesty and this will lead to true love
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    Mar 16, 2011 1:22 AM GMT
    shiningstar saidi think it is just ur idealistic approach.I think Physical appearance is important but the most important thing is sincerity and honesty and this will lead to true love
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    Mar 16, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    They're freaking everywhere... I can't believe how many beautiful muscle guys I see out with twinks. Just go to the gym or make sure you shake your butt like a chick when you dance.
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    Mar 16, 2011 1:30 AM GMT
    Why is it so hard to find a similar guy... because you spend time searching on the internet.
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    Mar 16, 2011 1:34 AM GMT
    Frankly, I think that a lot of muscular guys who are interested in smaller guys are usually interested in smaller white guys. Sad, but this is what I usually notice. I also have a feeling that most of the guys on this site are more interested in white/latin/asian guys, unless you're one of the fetishisized big muscular black top men. Even from these (black) guys, I hear that most other guys just want them for sex and little more. Sorry to be so frank, but I think it's the truth.
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    Mar 16, 2011 1:45 AM GMT
    nerdjock saidFrankly, I think that a lot of muscular guys who are interested in smaller guys are usually interested in smaller white guys. Sad, but this is what I usually notice. I also have a feeling that most of the guys on this site are more interested in white/latin/asian guys, unless you're one of the fetishisized big muscular black top men. Even from these (black) guys, I hear that most other guys just want them for sex and little more. Sorry to be so frank, but I think it's the truth.


    To: Nerdjock:
    That's because MOST white twinks (I said most, not all) are pushovers (My OPINION - feel free to share yours!).
    And who is better to be your "bitch" than a pushover? Well, everyone here may or may not disagree with me, but that is how I see it (apart from the fact that I know a white twink that is going through a relationship that is expressing this alpha male vs. bitch male stereotype - and everytime I meet up with him I tell him "Get the hell out of that relationship"... he wants to do that when he finds another guy though... he fears being single).

    To OP:
    It is not hard to find what you are looking for. Come to Kingston, many men want white twinks.
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    Mar 16, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    _Mohammed_ said
    nerdjock saidFrankly, I think that a lot of muscular guys who are interested in smaller guys are usually interested in smaller white guys. Sad, but this is what I usually notice. I also have a feeling that most of the guys on this site are more interested in white/latin/asian guys, unless you're one of the fetishisized big muscular black top men. Even from these (black) guys, I hear that most other guys just want them for sex and little more. Sorry to be so frank, but I think it's the truth.


    To: Nerdjock:
    That's because MOST white twinks (I said most, not all) are pushovers (My OPINION - feel free to share yours!).
    And who is better to be your "bitch" than a pushover? Well, everyone here may or may not disagree with me, but that is how I see it (apart from the fact that I know a white twink that is going through a relationship that is expressing this alpha male vs. bitch male stereotype - and everytime I meet up with him I tell him "Get the hell out of that relationship"... he wants to do that when he finds another guy though... he fears being single).

    To OP:
    It is not hard to find what you are looking for. Come to Kingston, many men want white twinks.


    ? Most white twinks are pushovers? Bad argument based on your one friend.
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    Mar 16, 2011 12:35 PM GMT
    I want to comment, but I am scared of sounding like a dickhead. I really am not saying I think I am "all that", but I can speak to this (at least from my perspective).

    When you are a bigger man, you get a lot of people (male and female) who contact you and comment on it. You get some people who sort of... I dunno... they sort of go overboard. It can get tiresome and it can be sort of a weird turn off. Nobody wants to be with anyone who doesn't respect themselves.

    So if you meet a muscle guy you like, just introduce yourself and dont focus on his body or how much you want to have sex with him, but focus instead on getting to KNOW him. Be confident and assertive and let YOUR assets shine through. (personality, sense of humor, etc etc) Ask training or diet advice. You can talk sex quick enough, but dont lead with that.

    If you are going on and on in a sexual way, you won't stand out to him. Most muscle guys have heard that before and know that it doesn't mean anything. Does that make sense?