dating younger guys

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    Mar 12, 2011 4:10 AM GMT

    Why is it so hard for me to find a younger guy that is mature for dating and a long term relationship? Is it that hard for a guy to really truly love another and have a loving and happy life together? Is it my looks that scare guy's away?

    If that's the case, I can understand that looks is one of the attractions for anyone, but that is a shield that is covering the beauty that lies inside of a person.

    I need suggestions and advice on how to find a younger guy that wants love in his life.
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    Mar 12, 2011 5:56 AM GMT
    hmmmm not to sound like an ass.... but why are you putting that restriction on a relationship?
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    Mar 12, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    Maybe you should date in your age range.
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    why do you want a younger guy? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:16 AM GMT
    Yes, it would appear you are being incredibly hypocritical. You want someone young to be able to overcome looks and age and be able to love you. Yet here you are saying you only want to date a younger guy. Do you see a problem with that?
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    ...agree - don't restrict yourself by only focussing on younger guys - there is a lot to be said for maturity and true manliness
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
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    The same can be said for younger guys (like myself) who are looking for mature men (not by age, but by mind) that are willing to enter a long term relationship.


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    Mar 12, 2011 6:32 AM GMT
    Have you tried offering them candy?
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:51 AM GMT
    Ganymede80 saidHave you tried offering them candy?

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    Mar 12, 2011 6:55 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Ganymede80 saidHave you tried offering them candy?

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    What if I am allergic to candy... icon_sad.gif


  • EricLA

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    Mar 12, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
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    Ariodante said
    Ganymede80 saidHave you tried offering them candy?

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    Mar 12, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
    I'm pretty sure other posts prior to mine had raised the obvious question of your age restriction, so I assume you understand that part.

    With that said, I think if there is any case at all, I'd think that younger guys ( or any guy for that matters) are attracted to wisdom, experience, and heart, from older counterparts. Do you think you naturally possess these qualities to win those guys' hearts?
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    Mar 12, 2011 7:52 AM GMT
    Personally I think you look alright, but the age restriction seems pretty damn shallow, and the profile doesnt help either since you spent half the time talking about how you WONT be interested in someone. w/e.

    Try to play up your other qualities if you're not confident in your looks. Sense of humor, adventurous spirit, good heart, stability, experience, etc... Showing off your hobbies or passions in life would help in finding like-minded individuals.

    Example:
    I recently messaged an older gentleman based on his hilarious headline. We exchanged emails and decided to meet up for coffee. His sense of humor and passion for life shone through. Then afterward he spent half an hour driving me around the neighborhood looking for my car because it was my 2nd time in SF and my dumbass self didnt remember where I parked it. That one selfless act of compassion = Total Win!!

    There's my advice. Harp up on your other qualities, looks isnt everything. Oh yea, and candies work wonders too.
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    Mar 12, 2011 7:55 AM GMT
    What age range are u looking to date? Why would younger guys be interested?
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    Mar 12, 2011 8:02 AM GMT
    where's that muscley armed paperboy? PAAAAAPERBOYYYY!!! I got a nice shiny quarter taped to the inside of my thigh


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    Free candy van = hilarious
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    Mar 12, 2011 8:11 AM GMT
    EricLA said
    _Mohammed_ said
    Ariodante said
    Ganymede80 saidHave you tried offering them candy?

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    What if I am allergic to candy... icon_sad.gif




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    Of course!

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    Mar 12, 2011 11:03 AM GMT
    I tend to like guys younger than me, but it is only because I like the same things they like. I have met a few guys older than me who ALSO like those things and I have had a great time with them.

    For me, age doesn't matter, although the guys that I am attracted to naturally fall into a bracket, but that bracket isn't the definition for me. If a guy older than me, or younger than me, or my same age is attractive and has the same interests and the same attiitude about life, .... then give me some digits and let's have some fun!!

    Isn't that the way it is supposed to be? The compatibility drives the attraction, not a number. icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 12, 2011 12:35 PM GMT
    Young guys suck!
    And that's why I like them.
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    Mar 12, 2011 12:44 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidYoung guys suck!
    And that`s why I like them.



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    Mar 12, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidYoung guys suck!
    And that's why I like them.


    hahahaha x10!!
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    Mar 12, 2011 1:06 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    paulflexes saidYoung guys suck!
    And that's why I like them.


    hahahaha x10!!



    hahahahahaha x 9001 !!!

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    Mar 12, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    Never will i date anyone close to my age...prefer a woman over the youngins!! Stickin to my men 30+ ;-)
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    Mar 12, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    Kanaka24 saidNever will i date anyone close to my age...prefer a woman over the youngins!! Stickin to my men 30+ ;-)



    someone's asking for it! icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


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    Mar 12, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    ;-) tread lightly...
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    Mar 12, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    Kanaka24 said;-) tread lightly...


    Sorry... I have prehistoric feet... can't no matter how hard I try.
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