Anyone been to the Black party in NYC?

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    Mar 12, 2011 5:54 AM GMT
    My friends want me to go with them. I have never been to a gay club or party before but beyond that I really have no major incentive to go. I could go either way. Has anyone gone before?
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    I haven't gone but have heard plenty of stories. It's hardcore. icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 12, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    Can you share more? I've heard of the Bal en Blanc in Montreal but not the Black Party...I'm intrigued.
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    Mar 12, 2011 8:26 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidI haven't gone but have heard plenty of stories. It's hardcore. icon_twisted.gif



    really? what if some guy I dont know comes up behind me and grabs my butt? icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 12, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidreally? what if some guy I dont know comes up behind me and grabs my butt? icon_eek.gif


    Would you like that?
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    Anyone want to go/take me whos been before?
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:15 PM GMT
    Nope, would be up for it though, unless it's like a "white party" and everyone is on fucking drugs.

    I stay away from circuit parties.
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    unfounded7 saidI haven't gone but have heard plenty of stories. It's hardcore. icon_twisted.gif



    really? what if some guy I dont know comes up behind me and grabs my butt? icon_eek.gif



    If that bothers you, a circuit party might not be the place for you.
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    I was there 2 years ago. . . lol and still up in the air on this year. My suggestion to you is to NOT Make that the first gay event (party/club) that you go to. I would never introduce someone into that part of the gay "scene" via the Black Party. It's BASICALLY a giant devotion to hedonism and some other dirty things.

    First things first. . . They take ALL video/camera/cells phones away from you upon entry. I suggest not taking anything like that at all. The reason for this is because there are periodic events throughout that night that happen on the stages placed throughout the dance floor that may or may not include various sex acts.
    Also, as with all circuit parties that happen in large, very dark arenas. . . There are people having random sex on the dance floor, blow jobs, etc. . . So watch out for those people. It tends to be the older leather daddy/bear type that are doing that.
    Since your friends are going. . . I assume they know the ends and outs of surviving such events. I think this year the black party goes until 2pm the next day. Guess it just depends on how hardcore your friends are ;b

    It goes without saying that it's VERY VERY hot inside and there are literally thousands of people. Don't lose your friends unless you want to be lost the rest of the night =P

    Obviously they can't confiscate everything lol. . . . Here's a video of when I went. (DJ Paulo is a-m-a-z-i-n-g) I picked this video so you could see how crowded it is and how everyone is basically wearing nothing. . . lol.

    Good luck if you choose to go as your first one =) It is a lot of fun however if you get into it.
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:24 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    unfounded7 saidI haven't gone but have heard plenty of stories. It's hardcore. icon_twisted.gif



    really? what if some guy I dont know comes up behind me and grabs my butt? icon_eek.gif


    that happened to me at an ACDC concert. He was married too. He got "up there" good too.
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    Halcyonz said
    I think this year the black party goes until 2pm the next day. Guess it just depends on how hardcore your friends are


    I am almost certain this young man cannot make it until 2pm Sunday. At his age and his gay nightlife inexperience, I doubt if he is one of those guys that appear to the unknowing casual observer to be partaking in no substance except for bottled water.
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    Mar 12, 2011 11:42 PM GMT
    Halcyonz saidI was there 2 years ago. . . lol and still up in the air on this year. My suggestion to you is to NOT Make that the first gay event (party/club) that you go to. I would never introduce someone into that part of the gay "scene" via the Black Party. It's BASICALLY a giant devotion to hedonism and some other dirty things.

    First things first. . . They take ALL video/camera/cells phones away from you upon entry. I suggest not taking anything like that at all. The reason for this is because there are periodic events throughout that night that happen on the stages placed throughout the dance floor that may or may not include various sex acts.
    Also, as with all circuit parties that happen in large, very dark arenas. . . There are people having random sex on the dance floor, blow jobs, etc. . . So watch out for those people. It tends to be the older leather daddy/bear type that are doing that.
    Since your friends are going. . . I assume they know the ends and outs of surviving such events. I think this year the black party goes until 2pm the next day. Guess it just depends on how hardcore your friends are ;b

    It goes without saying that it's VERY VERY hot inside and there are literally thousands of people. Don't lose your friends unless you want to be lost the rest of the night =P

    Obviously they can't confiscate everything lol. . . . Here's a video of when I went. (DJ Paulo is a-m-a-z-i-n-g) I picked this video so you could see how crowded it is and how everyone is basically wearing nothing. . . lol.

    Good luck if you choose to go as your first one =) It is a lot of fun however if you get into it.


    I agree, if this is going to be your first big event, don't do it. Alegria happens the next night and is not as crowded but will be super crowded and not as hardcore. Both events are 21years old and over BTW. So, dekiruman, they won't let you in anyways unless you have a fake ID.

    they don't actually take away your cellphone unless you flaunt it at the security guard. I've gotten it in before. It would be a bitch trying to find your friends without it.

    there are going to be thousands of people. not all leather/bears type tho there will be tons of younger guys there just to party, like me.
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    Halcyonz saidI was there 2 years ago. . . lol and still up in the air on this year. My suggestion to you is to NOT Make that the first gay event (party/club) that you go to. I would never introduce someone into that part of the gay "scene" via the Black Party. It's BASICALLY a giant devotion to hedonism and some other dirty things.

    First things first. . . They take ALL video/camera/cells phones away from you upon entry. I suggest not taking anything like that at all. The reason for this is because there are periodic events throughout that night that happen on the stages placed throughout the dance floor that may or may not include various sex acts.
    Also, as with all circuit parties that happen in large, very dark arenas. . . There are people having random sex on the dance floor, blow jobs, etc. . . So watch out for those people. It tends to be the older leather daddy/bear type that are doing that.
    Since your friends are going. . . I assume they know the ends and outs of surviving such events. I think this year the black party goes until 2pm the next day. Guess it just depends on how hardcore your friends are ;b

    It goes without saying that it's VERY VERY hot inside and there are literally thousands of people. Don't lose your friends unless you want to be lost the rest of the night =P

    Obviously they can't confiscate everything lol. . . . Here's a video of when I went. (DJ Paulo is a-m-a-z-i-n-g) I picked this video so you could see how crowded it is and how everyone is basically wearing nothing. . . lol.

    Good luck if you choose to go as your first one =) It is a lot of fun however if you get into it.


    I agree, if this is going to be your first big event, don't do it. Alegria happens the next night and is not as crowded but will be super crowded and not as hardcore. Both events are 21years old and over BTW. So, dekiruman, they won't let you in anyways unless you have a fake ID.

    they don't actually take away your cellphone unless you flaunt it at the security guard. I've gotten it in before. It would be a bitch trying to find your friends without it.

    there are going to be thousands of people. not all leather/bears type tho there will be tons of younger guys there just to party, like me.


    I do have a fake ID. It's fantastic. I don't use it for anything but even when you shine the light on it it has the little seal under the black light. I'm very proud of it.
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    Mar 13, 2011 1:01 AM GMT
    Oo this looks pretty intense, wish i could be there this year tho
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    Mar 13, 2011 1:03 AM GMT
    dekiruman saidMy friends want me to go with them. I have never been to a gay club or party before but beyond that I really have no major incentive to go. I could go either way. Has anyone gone before?


    It's probably full of thousands of ugly 45 year old men with diseases and drugs, yet look good from the neck down. Don't go unless you're with a group of friends who are cognisant enough to keep you from getting butt raped or drugged. And if you go alone, stay 100% sober. Ok maybe take a Red Bull before.
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    Mar 13, 2011 3:29 PM GMT
    Don't worry, dekiruman, I'll protect you.
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    Mar 13, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
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    dekiruman saidMy friends want me to go with them. I have never been to a gay club or party before but beyond that I really have no major incentive to go. I could go either way. Has anyone gone before?


    It's probably full of thousands of ugly 45 year old men with diseases and drugs, yet look good from the neck down. Don't go unless you're with a group of friends who are cognisant enough to keep you from getting butt raped or drugged. And if you go alone, stay 100% sober. Ok maybe take a Red Bull before.


    Who are considerably hotter than all the ugly 28yo dirtbags