First Penetration advice

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    Mar 12, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    So I've never been with a guy before in any capacity, and lately I have been craving one big time. Its just so hard to find the perfect dude to get with when its your first time with a guy, so I have a feeling it will be a while before I do get with one. But, what I want to do is try to get a little practice in bottoming before I do it. I want to buy one of those realistic cock dildo's to kinda break myself in, but I'm not sure which one to get. I have a really tight hole as it is, but I obviously want to go for something big because I have been craving it for a long time and I don't want to spend tons of money on dildo's of different sizes. Here is the link for the one I want to buy...I think its perfect for practicing sucking and bottoming:

    http://www.healthyandactive.com/adam-pleasureskin-dildo.html

    Should I go with this one, or something smaller?
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    Mar 12, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    I am not a bottom but I have helped other newbie bottoms before, so here's my 2 cents. It's always a good idea to start small. I 'd say start with a small Aneros, then move on to one with more girth as you "outgrow" the smaller variety. Once you've passed what I generally refer to as the "Aneros test," you can then start with regular size dildos (e.g., anywhere from 5-7 inches in length, regular girth). Once you've passed this stage, you can then gradually move on to bigger ones, to include industrial-size bum destroyers, as your hole can accommodate. You should call me once you've reached the last stage. Oh, and don't forget to use a lot of lube. In dire need, crisco oil would suffice. icon_razz.gif
  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 12, 2011 9:38 PM GMT
    Start small! About 6 inches or so. Make sure the dildo has a soft feel, not hard rubber. And you will be in Ecstasy your first time. With dildos, until you are experienced, your eyes are way bigger than your ass icon_smile.gif You can work your way up to the larger ones, and that process is really hot!

    Also, be aware that the inches measurement on the dildos is not realistic. That dildo that you posted is likely really 9.5 inches or longer, and that dildo looks really thick! Not a good starter dildo. That dildo is probably larger than just about any man you are likely to meet icon_smile.gif

    A dildo that is listed at 6" will probably be realistically about 7.5" and be close in size to a real man's 8". And even the soft dildos are harder than a real cock for the most part, and will feel much larger inside you than a real cock.

    I like the Vix Skin dildos best, they feel the most like a real dick of any I have tried. http://www.vixencreations.com/store/dildos.html I guarantee you that one like the Tex or Lonestar will get you where you want to be going icon_smile.gif

    If it vibrates, it makes it easier to take too, and feels amazing.

    Use lot's of lube!
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    Mar 12, 2011 9:42 PM GMT
    Go SLOWLY and use lots of LUBE
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    Mar 12, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    it's not so much about the length that matters but the girth of your chosen dildo. Yes, I would say that dildo might be to big for you to play with for first penetration. Go for something thinner icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 14, 2011 8:50 AM GMT
    What would happen if I did get something too big and stuck it in me? Pain obviously, but anything else?
  • Beeftastic

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    Mar 14, 2011 9:07 PM GMT
    Well first of all, you might not get it in. Secondly, it can tear your rectum, or irritate it for a few days. Don't you want your first experience to be all pleasure ? Why make a negative association with the experience?

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    Mar 15, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    tuckers_kahuna saidWell first of all, you might not get it in. Secondly, it can tear your rectum, or irritate it for a few days. Don't you want your first experience to be all pleasure ? Why make a negative association with the experience?



    Of course I do, that's why I posted this question on the forum asking for advice of what to do.
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    Mar 21, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    I tried fingering myself the other night...wasn't that great, I couldnt even find my g spot. This sucks lol
  • rangeli

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    Apr 01, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    tuckers_kahuna saidStart small! About 6 inches or so. Make sure the dildo has a soft feel, not hard rubber. And you will be in Ecstasy your first time. With dildos, until you are experienced, your eyes are way bigger than your ass icon_smile.gif You can work your way up to the larger ones, and that process is really hot!

    Also, be aware that the inches measurement on the dildos is not realistic. That dildo that you posted is likely really 9.5 inches or longer, and that dildo looks really thick! Not a good starter dildo. That dildo is probably larger than just about any man you are likely to meet icon_smile.gif

    A dildo that is listed at 6" will probably be realistically about 7.5" and be close in size to a real man's 8". And even the soft dildos are harder than a real cock for the most part, and will feel much larger inside you than a real cock.

    I like the Vix Skin dildos best, they feel the most like a real dick of any I have tried. http://www.vixencreations.com/store/dildos.html I guarantee you that one like the Tex or Lonestar will get you where you want to be going icon_smile.gif

    If it vibrates, it makes it easier to take too, and feels amazing.

    Use lot's of lube!
    RESIZED TEXT GOES HERECOLORED TEXT GOES HEREthe tex dildo looks pretty thick...i love being stretched butthe thicker ones r sometimes hard toget in me